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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-18-2019, 10:13 PM
Replies: 12
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Posted By tilt
The dad was picking her up and mom wasn’t there....

The dad was picking her up and mom wasn’t there. Sounds like dad just doesn’t have the parenting skills he needs for a toddler - probably didn’t want to “force” her because he wants to be seen as the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-17-2019, 11:35 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 421
Posted By tilt
Ya, I wouldn’t worry about it. The compromise was...

Ya, I wouldn’t worry about it. The compromise was a good idea as it demonstrated you weren’t trying to interfere with his parenting (bonus - you get some free time on Friday!)

I think it sounds...
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2019, 01:40 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 532
Posted By tilt
If she was suffering from delusions and refusing...

If she was suffering from delusions and refusing treatment then paying more than 50% of your assets right to her (rather than both of you paying 100% to lawyers) is an excellent deal for you. You...
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2019, 12:23 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 532
Posted By tilt
1. Yes. Usually the behaviour is perceived as...

1. Yes. Usually the behaviour is perceived as abuse by one partner and the other partner thinks their behaviour is “normal”. Especially with abusive behaviour that seems not “as bad” to the offender...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 08:37 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 685
Posted By tilt
I would file the Form 20 ASAP (assuming you have...

I would file the Form 20 ASAP (assuming you have a week or more before filing the brief). Give her a week to provide the info. You can also go to the Land Resgistry website to request the list of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2019, 11:46 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
Also, stay focused tomorrow. Listen HARD to what...

Also, stay focused tomorrow. Listen HARD to what the Judge is going to say and ask for clarification if you aren’t 100% sure. If he asks if you Consent to the step mom being added as a party, say no,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2019, 11:39 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
Nope, lawyers DEFINITELY use intimidation and...

Nope, lawyers DEFINITELY use intimidation and bullying. My spouse’s lawyer out right lied to me in a settlement meeting the judge Ordered and I called him on it and said I would request direction...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2019, 11:34 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
Ideally, you want your text and her response to...

Ideally, you want your text and her response to be attached to an affidavit you have sworn. The clerks can sign that you have sworn it, if you get there early enough. Good luck.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2019, 11:24 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
I agree show up and listen to the Judge. I think...

I agree show up and listen to the Judge. I think the other lawyer is trying to bully you into a Consent Order to hand over custody of your girls (and their new-found money and now child support)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-02-2019, 10:50 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 685
Posted By tilt
Form 13 is self-reported and it is entirely...

Form 13 is self-reported and it is entirely appropriate to request via Form 20 to provide documentation supporting any claims that in their face seem over-reaching. This is especially true when the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-02-2019, 08:36 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 685
Posted By tilt
What do you mean by “an outline of expenses”? ...

What do you mean by “an outline of expenses”? She has to show original documents like rental agreements, invoices etc. She can’t just present the Court with a self-created spreadsheet. What was the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 10:43 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
Stillbreathing, it is very important to be aware...

Stillbreathing, it is very important to be aware of laws that are valid in your own jurisdiction. I doubt the opinion of the US Supreme Court matters to the Judge that the OP will be before.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 07:25 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
He died ten days ago and the funeral has already...

He died ten days ago and the funeral has already happened. That is why OP delayed contacting the person who was preventing her from having any contact or allowing her to support her own children. A...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 05:23 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
Letting the police and CAS know about the txt is...

Letting the police and CAS know about the txt is important however, in case they DO decide to press charges. Non-biological people pursing custody in court have to present their criminal record and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 05:09 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
The OP already stated the judge wanted to proceed...

The OP already stated the judge wanted to proceed with what was scheduled...

Nope, the OP clearly said:

The trial coordinator emailed his lawyer and myself to say that the motion scheduled for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 01:26 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
I’ve seen cases where NOT notifying police and...

I’ve seen cases where NOT notifying police and CAS of threats is then held against the person being threatened. The rationale “I didn’t want to escalate the situation” is countered by the judge as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 06:24 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
The police won’t do anything, probably won’t even...

The police won’t do anything, probably won’t even talk to her. So I would file a report without any fear of repercussions. (It is an absurdly high bar to get someone charged with threatening). But,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2019, 10:59 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 178
Posted By tilt
It really comes down to the judge. Is the other...

It really comes down to the judge. Is the other party also self-rep? If they have a lawyer the Judge will be more inclined to allow adjournments out of professional courtesy. Most Judges also prefer...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2019, 08:17 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 180
Posted By tilt
Yes, but he will waste your money and his money....

Yes, but he will waste your money and his money. Some ex’s would rather the lawyers get the money over their ex. It may also be strategy, bluffing to see if you would fold. How negotiations go...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2019, 01:46 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
As a forum, we have the obligation to be kind to...

As a forum, we have the obligation to be kind to each other. I’m sorry you have had negative experience with specific people that you now use to rationalize your assumptions and judgements about...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2019, 12:55 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
I just re-read and realized you mentioned the...

I just re-read and realized you mentioned the children’s lawyer. If they have been appointed one you should be reaching out to her, mentioning that you have been unable to contact the girls and you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2019, 12:43 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
I would drop the alienation talk for now. It...

I would drop the alienation talk for now. It isn’t fair but it sends up red flags that this is a high conflict case. You want to have a simple, black and white motion to put to the judge so they can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-23-2019, 11:17 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
She has had access since the sole custody Order...

She has had access since the sole custody Order she didn’t know about, her current motion she filed 2.5 years ago is to challenge that sole custody ordered without proper notification (she should...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2019, 07:21 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,887
Posted By tilt
Well what is best for the kids? Who lives...

Well what is best for the kids? Who lives closest to their school? If she does, suggest that she have them Mon-Fri and you have them weekends, with gradual increase to full-time with you by...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2019, 05:12 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 205
Posted By tilt
Post-secondary costs aren't just tuition, and the...

Post-secondary costs aren't just tuition, and the formula isn't codified because it falls under section 7. Most judge's rulings seem to be:

Total annual cost of actual cost of post secondary...
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