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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:55 AM
Replies: 24
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Posted By Brampton33
I respectfully disagree. The topic of this...

I respectfully disagree. The topic of this thread is problematic grandparents (ie: intrusive, not respectful of roles/boundaries, conflict drivers, meddlesome). KKC started this thread seeking...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-17-2022, 01:22 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 171
Posted By Brampton33
Getting your mind right is key when you co-parent...

Getting your mind right is key when you co-parent or parallel parent with another parent who is high conflict, narcissist, or petty. Don't be surprised by anything, and learn to expect the opposite...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2022, 01:18 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 396
Posted By Brampton33
Any advice on what KKC (and others) can do...

Any advice on what KKC (and others) can do regarding grandparents who over-insert themselves in the affairs of parents? Where you are aware that grandparents are petty and bashing the other parent,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2022, 06:49 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 396
Posted By Brampton33
I guess a bigger all-encompassing question is:...

I guess a bigger all-encompassing question is: What, if anything, can be done with respect to meddling grandparents? Seems to be a growing theme where grandparents make it their retirement projects...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-16-2022, 09:09 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 396
Posted By Brampton33
KKC: I feel your pain as I am in the same...

KKC: I feel your pain as I am in the same situation. My former in-laws are the primary point of all conflict. Many have suggested I was actually in court against my in-laws and my ex was just a...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-11-2022, 09:43 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 404
Posted By Brampton33
You can have 2 kids together in early years (ie:...

You can have 2 kids together in early years (ie: aged 3 and 5). A litigant can severely restrict access, and the law permits them to drag their heels as long as possible, so that by the time the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-10-2022, 09:17 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 551
Posted By Brampton33
If your current lawyer is not confident they can...

If your current lawyer is not confident they can get you 50/50 with kids, consider looking for a lawyer who is.

Like we said, 50/50 is quite common. Unless you live 200km away or there is a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-09-2022, 02:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 189
Posted By Brampton33
I'm with Rockscan on this one. My ex hinted at...

I'm with Rockscan on this one. My ex hinted at the possibility of moving in the future across the country. I said "Go ahead, but the kids stay here".
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-09-2022, 10:38 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 113
Posted By Brampton33
There is no timeline. Your best bet is to go to...

There is no timeline. Your best bet is to go to the counter and politely enquire with one of the clerks at the front desk. They might be able to tell you where you re in the order of things.

For...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-09-2022, 09:10 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 113
Posted By Brampton33
I am sure Jeff is better versed than I am on this...

I am sure Jeff is better versed than I am on this topic, but just my 2 cents. Judges are SUPER busy. The court system has a very strict schedule. You will see when you look how the court schedules...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2022, 08:47 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 551
Posted By Brampton33
Don't agree to anything less than 50/50, its hard...

Don't agree to anything less than 50/50, its hard to get out of something you agreed to. And I'll repeat, having 5/14 is financially crippling because you are literally doing double-duty. You are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2022, 06:53 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 551
Posted By Brampton33
Unless there is a legitimate reason for you not...

Unless there is a legitimate reason for you not to have 50/50, such as there be potential harm to kids or you live 200km away, you should be fighting for 50/50 and be successful. Moreover, your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-06-2022, 01:35 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 551
Posted By Brampton33
5/14 is a high conflict ex's dream and a horrible...

5/14 is a high conflict ex's dream and a horrible situation to be in financially. You basically have children enough to require you to spend as though you have 50/50, BUT you must also pay Table CS....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2022, 10:26 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 208
Posted By Brampton33
At times, for high conflict cases, judges...

At times, for high conflict cases, judges purposefully don’t award costs. Doing so would add gas to an existing fire. Goal is to heal and move on after a court case concludes, rather than add...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-26-2022, 04:12 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 657
Posted By Brampton33
Doesn't sound like money is a large issue here,...

Doesn't sound like money is a large issue here, but based on the issues at play, this separation/divorce will run you anywhere between $1,500 and $500,000. All depends on how much you want to bicker...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2022, 04:34 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 357
Posted By Brampton33
I would not conflate the two separate and...

I would not conflate the two separate and distinct issues into one. My ex being absent on payment of any 'other' items is a totally separate issue than the issue raised in this thread regarding my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2022, 02:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 357
Posted By Brampton33
It was a lengthy, high conflict court case where...

It was a lengthy, high conflict court case where I fought hard for joint custody and 50/50 parenting. My ex is one of those who wanted me to have 38%... She still does not accept 50/50 and is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2022, 01:53 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 357
Posted By Brampton33
Thanks for the response. I have read the threads...

Thanks for the response. I have read the threads on the topic. Early on, there was a decision that 100% sided with vaccination. Now, the decisions pretty much leave it in the hands of the parents...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2022, 01:16 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 357
Posted By Brampton33
Vaccine for Covid

I have joint custody of kids (grade 2 and 4). I approached ex about vaccinating kids before Christmas when it became available to them. She said she was not an anti-vaxxer but would rather 'wait...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-20-2022, 01:20 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 305
Posted By Brampton33
Lots of "what ifs" in the correspondence. What if...

Lots of "what ifs" in the correspondence. What if he doesn't show up? What if this? What if that? All speculation. What if he is an amazing parent who steps up?

Work out a separation agreement...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-20-2022, 10:48 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 305
Posted By Brampton33
Litigants place far too much emphasis on...

Litigants place far too much emphasis on supervised access. Claiming that it is an outright necessity because the other parent is so unfit. Remember this, supervised access is always meant to be a...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2022, 10:31 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 672
Posted By Brampton33
I will bring this up at the next exchange of...

I will bring this up at the next exchange of financial info. Which she will berate me over, or deny she owes me anything altogether.
That is my fear. It was a high conflict court battle where she...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2022, 09:04 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 672
Posted By Brampton33
The court order states that a 3% post-judgement...

The court order states that a 3% post-judgement interest rate applies. Not sure what that means. With regards to taking off of CS, the issue is that at first, my ex would berate me for asking her to...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-18-2022, 04:16 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 672
Posted By Brampton33
If an ex owes a few thousand dollars in back s.7...

If an ex owes a few thousand dollars in back s.7 expenditures, do you charge interest? How does that work?

I have been notifying my ex periodically of the debt owed, yet those go ignored. I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-13-2022, 01:33 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 758
Posted By Brampton33
So she is supposed to be in school that day. He...

So she is supposed to be in school that day. He is putting his desire to spend day with her, above her best interest of being in school. I would have a field day with him in court. However, be...
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