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Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2021, 12:16 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 843
Posted By iona6656
but isn't there usually a basic income imputed...

but isn't there usually a basic income imputed into spousal support?

Also- it's more than just the "housewife's work" - it's the sacrifice that person (male or female) made in furtherance of a...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 02:59 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 843
Posted By iona6656
basically what rockscan said. length of marriage...

basically what rockscan said. length of marriage (mine was <5 years); if anyone's career took a hit from the marriage it was mine as I took the year mat leave, turned down a career advancing offer,...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 10:43 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 843
Posted By iona6656
I would be curious to see the case law around...

I would be curious to see the case law around this if it DOES stick.

For the OP, my ex used the threat of SS against me- I earned almost 2x as much as he did when we separated (155 v. 85) and at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-05-2021, 01:40 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,581
Posted By iona6656
Well....having dad's last name is completely...

Well....having dad's last name is completely arbitrary. And when you are no longer a family unit, many women want the child(ren) to have a name that reflects their own. Actually more and more, women...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2021, 02:34 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,581
Posted By iona6656
You still haven't answered "what's the big deal...

You still haven't answered "what's the big deal of the kids keeping her last name?"

Like everyone else in this thread has said "You have time with your kids. They know they are part of you". So...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2021, 02:10 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,581
Posted By iona6656
Here's a thought- why don't you just let them...

Here's a thought- why don't you just let them keep mom's last name?

Have you already changed their name? If not- why fight about this?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2021, 11:28 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,581
Posted By iona6656
It's so funny how things can change in 2 short...

It's so funny how things can change in 2 short years.

After we settled everything through court proceedings- our settlement agreement said we would change D5's last name to a hyphenated version: ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-10-2021, 02:32 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,475
Posted By iona6656
So I borrowed the "Mom's House, Dad's House" and...

So I borrowed the "Mom's House, Dad's House" and found it interesting. Sort of helpful.

We are in the first week of midweek overnights and it's been TOUGH to get a routine going between the two...
Forum: Political Issues 09-10-2021, 01:55 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,874
Posted By iona6656
He said "women need to start paying their dues"...

He said "women need to start paying their dues" and he's tired of carrying them. Not only is that wrong- but it's utterly laughable. If this pandemic has shown us anything is that the work that...
Forum: Political Issues 09-09-2021, 02:44 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,874
Posted By iona6656
Your posts always make me laugh. To be...

Your posts always make me laugh.

To be clear- it's at you. And your ranting.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-28-2021, 02:46 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,475
Posted By iona6656
Appreciate it. I'm going to try to find them at...

Appreciate it. I'm going to try to find them at the local library.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-27-2021, 10:29 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,475
Posted By iona6656
Nope, no buy in. If I say anything more to him-...

Nope, no buy in. If I say anything more to him- he'd probably go to the extreme and feed her candy + ipad at bedtime.

I feel like grandmas house v. dad's house is a bit different though? I mean-...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-27-2021, 10:26 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,475
Posted By iona6656
She definitely does get to use the ipad. I am not...

She definitely does get to use the ipad. I am not a "no screen time" household. Just not after wind down time....I find it keeps her up longer if she gets screen time in the 30min or so before...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-27-2021, 10:16 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,475
Posted By iona6656
Thank you both for the suggestions. I used...

Thank you both for the suggestions.

I used the ipad matter as an example really. I guess the bigger question is just how to help little kids- above toddlers, but younger than older kids (say...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-26-2021, 01:09 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,475
Posted By iona6656
Tips on Transitioning Young Kids between Two Homes?

Someone please tell me the transitions get easier?

D4 comes back from her dad's place strung out like a junkie finished a three day bender. By that I mean lack of sleep.

There are tantrums...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2021, 01:00 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,034
Posted By iona6656
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2021, 12:11 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 697
Posted By iona6656
Counter offer- but not with a straight 50/50 with...

Counter offer- but not with a straight 50/50 with graduated time. Make it more favourable to her- offer a graduated increase of parenting time to 60/40 and a chance to reassess without a material...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-07-2021, 01:30 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 802
Posted By iona6656
The other parent cannot withhold kids because of...

The other parent cannot withhold kids because of CS issues.

And you cannot withhold CS because of the summer schedule. I've never heard of anything such as a "summer child support payment...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 03:43 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 853
Posted By iona6656
I'm so incredibly sorry you had to receive such a...

I'm so incredibly sorry you had to receive such a ridiculous and hurtful offer, and confirmation that your ex is putting all this shit in the kids' heads.

Do you have a support system when things...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-23-2021, 11:40 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,101
Posted By iona6656
same. same.

same. same.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-23-2021, 11:34 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 893
Posted By iona6656
lol. never. I don't even see it as 'prestigious'-...

lol. never. I don't even see it as 'prestigious'- technically all preschools are "private" - and they're really childcare; which is just stupid expensive whether you call it Daycare or Montessori.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2021, 05:39 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 893
Posted By iona6656
if you took it to court- it probably would. The...

if you took it to court- it probably would. The whole point of CS and S7 is so the child(ren) don't have to live the lesser life because of the parents' divorce.

To all of you pooping on private...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2021, 12:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 539
Posted By iona6656
Going through this right now. D4 wants to play...

Going through this right now. D4 wants to play soccer so bad- but her dad doesn't want to take her on his time. Annoyed at first- but I guess he wants to spend one on one time with her during his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-11-2021, 12:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 468
Posted By iona6656
Steven Benmor- Benmor Family Law Group

Steven Benmor- Benmor Family Law Group
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-26-2021, 05:38 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 608
Posted By iona6656
edit: I removed my commentary on the commentary.

edit: I removed my commentary on the commentary.
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