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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-01-2013, 08:43 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,307
Posted By E-Gal
That is true you don't know my history regarding...

That is true you don't know my history regarding the relationship between the two of us. Suffice to say that OCL recommended sole custody because of the facts before them.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-01-2013, 01:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,307
Posted By E-Gal
OCL Recommendation & Ex's Offer to Settle

OCL's recommendation during Disclosure Meeting is sole custody with final decisions to me.
Ex's lawyer was to draw up Minutes of Settlement. It's been 2 months, and because I sent OCL a letter to...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-01-2013, 09:46 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,128
Posted By E-Gal
Divorce and Net Equalization of Assets

This might be a silly question..but I'm not sure....
Will getting a divorce speed up the process in dealing with the financial issues ?
I've got the custody and access portion settled.
It's been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2013, 09:43 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,996
Posted By E-Gal
OCL Disclosure Meeting & Minutes of Settlement

We had our OCL Disclosure Meeting beginning of March. It was agreed in the meeting that Ex's lawyer was going to prepare the Minutes of Settlement based on the recommendations of the OCL.
OCL...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-27-2013, 11:38 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,903
Posted By E-Gal
Hi. It was recommended by the OCL during our...

Hi. It was recommended by the OCL during our Disclosure meeting. It was to help reduce the conflict and disputes and to put our daughters schedule on the calendar. (with my ex he was making...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2013, 05:54 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,854
Posted By E-Gal
We have the Minutes of SEttlement that's being...

We have the Minutes of SEttlement that's being drafted re: our OCL Discolosure meeting, and I asked that the Travel Consent Letter be included as part of the settlement otherwise I would file. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-22-2013, 05:42 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
Hi Mess - yes you are correct. I never thought...

Hi Mess - yes you are correct. I never thought about it that way. Point taken. I never thought about it that way. However, we do have a written contract taking care of the future payments between...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2013, 02:46 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,854
Posted By E-Gal
great thanks.

great thanks.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2013, 02:40 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,854
Posted By E-Gal
"With Prejudice"

I'm sending ex's lawyer a letter to ask him to reconsider signing a travel consent form and gave him up to March 27th

1. Do I have to write "with prejudice" because I've asked for a certain date...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-22-2013, 02:29 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
UPDATE: The RESP has now been taken care of. He...

UPDATE: The RESP has now been taken care of. He paid 2/3rds and 1 paid 1/3 giving him an opportunity deduct some of the debt he owes me when we take care of our financials. The good news is...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-18-2013, 02:13 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
Well, he signed the RESP :-) that's in writing as...

Well, he signed the RESP :-) that's in writing as we both signed the contract when our daughter was a baby, - so it should by all intents and purposes be considered a Sec 7 as far as I;m concerned. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-18-2013, 12:47 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
Also should I put it in a "OFFER TO SETTLE FORM"...

Also should I put it in a "OFFER TO SETTLE FORM" to make it official ? And do I have to file that with the courts.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-18-2013, 12:19 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
LATEST UPDATE: Ex has said that he will pay...

LATEST UPDATE: Ex has said that he will pay half of the RESP Contribution and that I will have to pay the other half. Also wants a guarantee that no attempt through courts for sole decisions on...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-16-2013, 10:34 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
I just spoke to him - he won't sign and he's told...

I just spoke to him - he won't sign and he's told me that he doesn't have the money to pay up. I offered to pay and continue the investment on my own but that it be signed over to me. I would pay...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-16-2013, 10:04 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
I have been telling him for months now that it...

I have been telling him for months now that it was going to happen.
I asked him to let me know by March 15th so that we could deal with this.

The plan terminates March 22nd.
I've been...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-16-2013, 08:49 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
Wretchedotis - no it was not a loan deposited to...

Wretchedotis - no it was not a loan deposited to RESP - it was our monthly contributions that he defaulted on. They give you a grace period of (3 years) to get caught up, and he always said he would...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-15-2013, 11:21 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
So did you lose your son's RESP ?

So did you lose your son's RESP ?
Forum: Financial Issues 03-15-2013, 11:00 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
Our RESP is on a monthly contribution. He...

Our RESP is on a monthly contribution. He defaulted in the monthly contribution and the grace period to make up the contribution is up.
It is inactive and in order to re-activate the account (do...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-15-2013, 09:53 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,709
Posted By E-Gal
RESP going to be lost

We have an outstanding RESP issue at hand.
We stand to lose everything as of Thursday March 22nd. (So I've only got till Wednesday to have this resolveD)
Both of us were paying into the plan and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2013, 02:58 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,831
Posted By E-Gal
If it is the best result for our child, why...

If it is the best result for our child, why wouldn't I ?
Hopefully that answers your question
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2013, 02:55 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,831
Posted By E-Gal
I agree - they will be their own demise. I...

I agree - they will be their own demise. I personally do not have time to waste on "making my ex look bad to his child" - he does it on his own.

If he does good - I am happy for her.
All I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2013, 04:28 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,831
Posted By E-Gal
There was physical abuse to both our child and...

There was physical abuse to both our child and myself, also that he had no interest in looking after the education, health, dental needs of our chid and refused to even communicate with me. Showed no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2013, 03:41 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,831
Posted By E-Gal
[QUOTE=wretchedotis;129150]Gratz! But...

[QUOTE=wretchedotis;129150]Gratz!

But remember it is simply a reccomendation. The final outcome may not reflect it.

Yes, I realize that and apparently his lawyer is going to write the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2013, 03:35 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,831
Posted By E-Gal
Yes I was Mr. Mom.

Yes I was Mr. Mom.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2013, 06:16 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,831
Posted By E-Gal
Great news ! Sole custody recommended

I thought I would share my great news about the meeting with the OCL today. She recommended sole custody to me for our daughter and that I would consult with her father and get his input but the...
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