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Forum: Financial Issues 09-06-2021, 08:48 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,242
Posted By Mom2414
Offset child support in equal/shared parenting...

Offset child support in equal/shared parenting situation is the biggest racket ever. If I knew then what I know now, I would have gotten a donor instead my boob of an ex.


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Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2021, 04:46 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 855
Posted By Mom2414
@rockscan how about if ex work closed due to...

@rockscan how about if ex work closed due to COVID-19 from April to September 2020, exs income is now $20K less than other years - do we pay offset based on 2020 income statement despite the year...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-23-2021, 10:27 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,295
Posted By Mom2414
Theres an entire sub-culture happening of...

Theres an entire sub-culture happening of common-law or married partners that choose to live apart. Just because you havent educated yourselves on different living arrangements doesnt make it...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 09:35 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 4,900
Posted By Mom2414
My husbands ex has been through several...

My husbands ex has been through several relationships since they separated. Every time she couples, its as if her separation/divorce from my husband just happened and not 10 years ago. So we...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-08-2021, 10:01 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,178
Posted By Mom2414
The only choice you had was whether to have...

The only choice you had was whether to have children with the ex or not. Children deserve both parents in their lives, period. The crap the adults put one another through is their baggage and the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-27-2020, 03:08 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,178
Posted By Mom2414
There is no level of coparenting conflict that...

There is no level of coparenting conflict that would ever deserve revoking parental access to their own children (with the exception of abuse but that isnt considered coparenting conflict). Get...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-22-2020, 06:02 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,178
Posted By Mom2414
No, children deserve two parents regardless of...

No, children deserve two parents regardless of situation. The Facebook groups are rampant with these bio mom vs. step mom dumpster fire dramas. Children should have equal access to both parents....
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-21-2020, 01:54 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,178
Posted By Mom2414
Just bc you think that YOUR co parenting...

Just bc you think that YOUR co parenting relationship isnt working doesnt mean that dad deserves to lose time with his children. Theres too sides to every story and punishing dad and children...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-30-2020, 11:08 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,388
Posted By Mom2414
Agreed. The OP should consider strong likelihood...

Agreed. The OP should consider strong likelihood of it not being considered capital gain bc its a primary residence. A judge however may see it differently if theres a pattern. Not to mention...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-30-2020, 10:56 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,388
Posted By Mom2414
Check out CanLii Ewing v. Ewing The short...

Check out CanLii Ewing v. Ewing

The short answer is that in most cases the non-recurring Capital Gain should not form part of your income for the purposes of calculating child support. The...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-16-2020, 08:09 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 621
Posted By Mom2414
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Forum: Financial Issues 08-16-2020, 07:59 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 621
Posted By Mom2414
Ex sold primary residence and now lives with partner

I am the higher earner and pay offset child support in a 50/50 shared agreement. Ex sold their primary residence and moved in with a new partner. Is there any impact to reducing child support...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-23-2020, 01:14 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,698
Posted By Mom2414
$1000 for the almost adult child + $x for the 15...

$1000 for the almost adult child + $x for the 15 year old + spousal! Geesh! Thats more than I pull in monthly working a 44 hour week!!!


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Forum: General Chat 06-25-2020, 10:12 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 4,243
Posted By Mom2414
As long as my name is on title, I would be paying...

As long as my name is on title, I would be paying for half of everything and ensuring that everything is up to date. During settlement I got credits applied to the division of assets for anything...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 05:00 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 3,704
Posted By Mom2414
Three contempt motions won and not financially...

Three contempt motions won and not financially driven. Custody Schedules, health, education, name changes and religion are real family court matters.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 02:16 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 3,704
Posted By Mom2414
If all the above is documented in your decree and...

If all the above is documented in your decree and the HCEX is in violation, and has declined mediation, I would be filing contempt and representing myself. If the facts show a clear violation of the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 09:53 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 3,704
Posted By Mom2414
It is near impossible to co-parent with a HC ex. ...

It is near impossible to co-parent with a HC ex. Heres what I don

1. Make sure you have a very detailed separation plan and be committed to following it closely and enforcing the plan in return...
Forum: General Chat 05-11-2020, 08:43 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,640
Posted By Mom2414
You mentioned that the CS payments were through...

You mentioned that the CS payments were through FRO until they were 18, and you requested FRO termination.

He is also unilaterally paying for their university.

Ummm, ok...


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Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2020, 05:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,616
Posted By Mom2414
If CS is recalculated yearly, and we pay CS based...

If CS is recalculated yearly, and we pay CS based on previoustax return year, why would we be in arrears? Wont he get the benefit of more CS next year when we recalculate?


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Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2020, 07:20 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,616
Posted By Mom2414
Covid-19 Crisis and Child Support

If ex loses job and I am still employed and we typically adjust offset yearly, can ex legally ask for an immediate recalculation based on new income? Am I obligated to increase child support?

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Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2020, 06:59 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 911
Posted By Mom2414
Layoffs and Child Support

Lots of government programs out there for those affected by this worldwide crisis and an unusual situation. I am an essential worker and my job has not been impacted but I risk my life in the front...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-20-2020, 09:31 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,076
Posted By Mom2414
This is exactly how our mediator approached...

This is exactly how our mediator approached division of property and assets!

If you did have stocks, vested or otherwise would you recommend delaying mediation until we are over this world crisis...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-20-2020, 06:44 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,076
Posted By Mom2414
Pension Payout

Date of separation is typically the date used for all calculations. If you can negotiate a pay out - do it! My ex spouse wanted half my pension worth 250k at separation. I gave him 40k...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2020, 12:56 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,902
Posted By Mom2414
You cant signs away but you dont have to take...

You cant signs away but you dont have to take CS either. My ex loves our children as much as I do, we have always since day 1 shared 50/50 and he makes significantly more than I do, but I bust my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-27-2020, 06:40 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,240
Posted By Mom2414
A Canadian travel advisory is pretty serious. No...

A Canadian travel advisory is pretty serious. No judge will consent to travel to parts of the world were the government has a high risk level.


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