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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-18-2018, 09:20 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 236
Posted By dad2bandm
Ahh okay. That explains it. Yeah, those group...

Ahh okay. That explains it. Yeah, those group RESPs have some pretty draconian penalties and limitations built to take your money. For any future RESP stuff, I would just look at one of the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2018, 11:21 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 236
Posted By dad2bandm
Do you have a normal bank RESP plan? You...

Do you have a normal bank RESP plan? You shouldn't lose anything and how can you fall behind? Do you mean on your savings goal expectations...or some plan that actually penalizes you if you don't...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-10-2018, 03:35 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 5,947
Posted By dad2bandm
You should probably post a new thread if you want...

You should probably post a new thread if you want more visibility and answers, in the appropriate forum section, as this thread you replied to was last touched 7 years ago.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-10-2018, 10:53 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 258
Posted By dad2bandm
As Janus said, I would also probably just...

As Janus said, I would also probably just followup with emailing the same settlement offer, saying that you're also emailing it, in addition to the other method you formally sent it. Maybe scan it,...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2018, 10:12 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 339
Posted By dad2bandm
For info about what expenses are actually...

For info about what expenses are actually considered section 7 "special or extraordinary" expenses, see this:



http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/child-enfant/guide/step7-etap7.html

...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 10:00 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 688
Posted By dad2bandm
As Rockscan already mentioned, it's generally...

As Rockscan already mentioned, it's generally line 150 for both parents tax returns, to use. That's the easiest.


Here's info on calculating child support in a shared custody situation, with...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2018, 12:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 289
Posted By dad2bandm
I find it's easiest for me, and that's all I care...

I find it's easiest for me, and that's all I care about. If my income went down (which it hasn't yet), I would simply send the same kind of notice ahead of time as much as possible, explaining why,...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2018, 11:24 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 289
Posted By dad2bandm
If it were me, given those circumstances, I would...

If it were me, given those circumstances, I would just update July 1st based on whatever income is current. If it happens to be lower, it is, what it is. This is originating from their employer -...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-27-2018, 10:06 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,390
Posted By dad2bandm
"Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry...

"Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men"?


I can think of many better suited books, if "co-parenting" is at the top of the list of things that can be improved.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2018, 10:01 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 265
Posted By dad2bandm
Good luck, and I hope your son recovers quickly. ...

Good luck, and I hope your son recovers quickly. I think given your situation, you will find that the court/judge will extend some leniency to you.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2018, 09:55 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 654
Posted By dad2bandm
That's what you get, out of the original poster's...

That's what you get, out of the original poster's info? Why not make it 3 degrees then, if that turns out to be the career plan?
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-15-2018, 11:18 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By dad2bandm
Some of this seems like terrible advice.

Some of this seems like terrible advice.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-15-2018, 11:14 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 441
Posted By dad2bandm
I don't think you understood what the original...

I don't think you understood what the original poster actually wrote. Go back and read it again. They said nothing about not wanting to spend time with the child.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2018, 10:55 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 441
Posted By dad2bandm
You need to pick your battles... If this...

You need to pick your battles...


If this was me, and if I didn't have any other plans that would conflict anyway, I would relent because it's something for the kids to do...


...but in doing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:54 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By dad2bandm
And if you're serious about it, offer them in all...

And if you're serious about it, offer them in all in writing (email if you wish, but then also mail them via registered mail too, signed and dated - keep copy of same for yourself).


You're...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:48 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By dad2bandm
To add to this, never *ask* of the other parent...

To add to this, never *ask* of the other parent in this kind of situation when it comes to sharing child's time with you more equally. Propose.



Asking is like you are looking for a yes/no...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:13 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By dad2bandm
This is true, and it's best to avoid, but...

This is true, and it's best to avoid, but sometimes court is necessary. Are you able to settle with things staying the same? If no, then you may need it, as it's been 4 years, and you don't seem to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:10 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By dad2bandm
They didn't put in some timeline or deadlines for...

They didn't put in some timeline or deadlines for the expanded access to be implemented? I would have insisted on that being in the order, instead of leaving it open-ended.


If Mom isn't willing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:01 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 209
Posted By dad2bandm
Kate brings up, the point, which I would also...

Kate brings up, the point, which I would also point out, that many after-school care programs, don't offer an ad-hoc or "I only need these certain days covered for care" program, so you would want...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-07-2018, 09:55 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,435
Posted By dad2bandm
What is your point? Unless I guess your point,...

What is your point? Unless I guess your point, is that your bitter about your own custody arrangement?



Your comments aren't even relevant to the topic of conversation.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-07-2018, 09:47 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,435
Posted By dad2bandm
Offset child support payments don't really come...

Offset child support payments don't really come into effect unless you share custody, and each parent has the child at least 40% of the time. This doesn't seem to be the situation here. Also, if...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2018, 02:14 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By dad2bandm
Was the parenting assessment something that came...

Was the parenting assessment something that came out of your last order, or something separate? You would think that would be done, and then your order be finalized partially based on those...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2018, 01:50 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By dad2bandm
By the way, yes, same issue with ex in my...

By the way, yes, same issue with ex in my situation - ignores emails, and does as much as she can (when she can control herself), to avoid communications that can be documented.
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2018, 01:48 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 499
Posted By dad2bandm
Your emailing her about it, is the discussion. ...

Your emailing her about it, is the discussion. She's just avoiding having the discussion.



If she continues to ignore emails, you could send a written letter about the subject too, via...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-05-2018, 12:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 262
Posted By dad2bandm
3 months later, and the question of a yes/no,...

3 months later, and the question of a yes/no, extra time on a Friday, is still an issue? Yes or no question. Be done with it, either way.
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