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Forum: Political Issues 08-11-2016, 07:05 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
Our definitions of financial independence are...

Our definitions of financial independence are different. A financially independent woman doesn't go on "stress leave", they go on vacation and get back at 'er.

A financially independent woman...
Forum: Political Issues 08-10-2016, 04:25 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
You pay spousal support? Or are you considering...

You pay spousal support? Or are you considering child support to be "life long support" to the mom like Links does?
Forum: Political Issues 08-07-2016, 09:46 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
I make no assumptions about you at all. I...

I make no assumptions about you at all.

I am merely stating that spousal support is a consequence of divorce. Divorce is a potential consequence of marriage. The mistake that was made was in...
Forum: Political Issues 08-07-2016, 07:08 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
You tremendously overthink accountability. It...

You tremendously overthink accountability. It isn't dollars and cents, it's a true understanding that you did this to yourself. Accountability for the crap-ass position you have found yourself in,...
Forum: Political Issues 08-07-2016, 04:16 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
The point was accountability for the decisions...

The point was accountability for the decisions you make instead of blaming the spouse, the system, the courts, the judges, the female gender as a whole.

Absolutely people change and evolve over...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2016, 06:39 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,969
Posted By MS Mom
No assumptions. You're bragging about not having...

No assumptions. You're bragging about not having to repay welfare for child support. I didn't accuse you of that, you stated it.

As someone who made themselves broke paying legal fees to get...
Forum: Political Issues 08-06-2016, 06:34 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
You were not forced to marry someone who was...

You were not forced to marry someone who was expecting $200G in return for nothing. You chose to marry this person. Gun to head was not present.

You lack acceptance that you got yourself into...
Forum: Political Issues 08-05-2016, 06:45 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
The child support you pay supports your children,...

The child support you pay supports your children, not her. As someone who receives child support it is highly aggravating to be told that I'm "paid" by the ex. I am not. The ex provides financial...
Forum: Political Issues 08-05-2016, 05:29 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
It isn't permanent, you've said so yourself. 4...

It isn't permanent, you've said so yourself. 4 years I believe you stated you paid spousal support for.

The reality is that you benefited greatly from her being at home and during that time she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-05-2016, 03:39 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 609
Posted By MS Mom
All my ex did was advise FRO that he did not...

All my ex did was advise FRO that he did not "agree" to these expenses and object to them. They won't enforce agreements that are worded "consent unreasonably withheld" and no fixed dollar amounts. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-05-2016, 03:25 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,969
Posted By MS Mom
This begs the question.... why was your...

This begs the question....

why was your child on welfare while you had the means and ability to pay child support?

why did it take welfare filing suit to collect arrears and on going support...
Forum: Political Issues 08-05-2016, 03:19 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
It isn't very funny. You have zero...

It isn't very funny. You have zero acknowledgement that you married an unskilled, unmotivated person who had zero intention of working. One can only assume that's what you wanted in a spouse,...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 09:25 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
I have no comment on the divorcemate calcs or how...

I have no comment on the divorcemate calcs or how it's calculated because it never even crossed my mind to request spousal support. Whether I was entitled to it or not, and not even knowing the...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 09:14 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
Accountability. Nobody tricks people into...

Accountability. Nobody tricks people into supporting them, people allow it to happen. Some even purposefully encourage spouses to be dependent, like some security blanket of desperate need that...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 08:18 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
I'm really not understanding how you married a...

I'm really not understanding how you married a stay at home mom and expected her to come out a self-sufficient person after divorce?

You bought a house next to the tracks and you bitch and...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 04:49 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
Your circle of people, and therefore, your circle...

Your circle of people, and therefore, your circle of experience is that women stay at home and live off the man. That isn't the experience of every Canadian woman - in fact, I'd estimate that it's a...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 04:36 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
My ex doesn't take her at all. Ever. Not since...

My ex doesn't take her at all. Ever. Not since he was successful in achieving 50/50 custody and reduced child support (2012). Two weeks later, he dropped her off and hasn't seen her since. Since...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2016, 02:43 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 925
Posted By MS Mom
Except the OP doesn't mention a child suffering....

Except the OP doesn't mention a child suffering. The OP only mentions the child is in daycare when the other parent is available. Unless daycare is a new word for prison, why jump to a conclusion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2016, 12:27 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 925
Posted By MS Mom
Generally speaking, you can't pick and choose...

Generally speaking, you can't pick and choose whether you go to (and therefore pay for) daycare on a day to day basis.

"If you can prove very clearly that the child is suffering due to going to...
Forum: Political Issues 08-02-2016, 11:21 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,058
Posted By MS Mom
So not true. I've always worked full-time...

So not true.

I've always worked full-time - didn't eve take a full 12 month mat leave and I've always taken care of the kids.

Come to think of it, so did my mother and her mother.

Where do...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-30-2016, 03:18 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,528
Posted By MS Mom
You'd think the CRA would want it split as well. ...

You'd think the CRA would want it split as well.

Equiv to spouse amount renders the ex in this case with essentially zero income, which means no taxes and higher benefits. For the other party,...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-30-2016, 02:10 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,528
Posted By MS Mom
Well, that makes no logical sense. One would...

Well, that makes no logical sense. One would think you could divide that credit somehow, each then taking the appropriate credit at the appropriate level of taxation.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-30-2016, 02:01 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,528
Posted By MS Mom
Is the case when the support payment is an offset...

Is the case when the support payment is an offset amount? Technically, both parties pay support in offset.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-30-2016, 01:00 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,528
Posted By MS Mom
Part of this issues is he hadn't filed his taxes...

Part of this issues is he hadn't filed his taxes since 2012. So, step one was getting him caught up on tax filing. The 2015 tax filing asked the question about shared parenting, the previous years...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-29-2016, 09:59 AM
Replies: 45
Views: 2,225
Posted By MS Mom
So, now you're quoting 2 year old American...

So, now you're quoting 2 year old American sources. I suppose that's better than a British tabloid, except this article discusses the best and worst places to find a marriage partner. It's all...
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