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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-13-2020, 11:52 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 247
Posted By dad2bandm
I think you're fine with the "on consent"...

I think you're fine with the "on consent" wording. Seems simpler. In writing seems too particular, but obviously you should document such agreements in writing even if it's just email.

"Hey other...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-07-2020, 10:01 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 362
Posted By dad2bandm
What is "support support"? Did you mean...

What is "support support"?


Did you mean to say child support? Or spousal support?


Child support would just be based on your income, so yes, it would be adjusted for an increase in income. ...
Forum: General Chat 04-23-2020, 01:04 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 352
Posted By dad2bandm
To the OP, I don't quite comprehend your clause,...

To the OP, I don't quite comprehend your clause, or who the applicant and respondent are. It sounds like your ex is the applicant?



It sounds like, your ex wants to have a clause that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 12:17 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 504
Posted By dad2bandm
That seems a reasonable approach, given the...

That seems a reasonable approach, given the circumstances. What was her reason for moving *away* anyway, and why did she not suggest something like that before?


How old is child?



Was...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 11:34 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,413
Posted By dad2bandm
What LovingDad1234 says... 2021 is awhile...

What LovingDad1234 says...

2021 is awhile off yet. I'm not sure how much you saved, on the "agreement", as I know that happened over the last few months, and it sounds like there was a mediator,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 08:22 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,413
Posted By dad2bandm
You will be. Count on it.

You will be. Count on it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 08:04 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,413
Posted By dad2bandm
Document this. Get her bat $hit crazy...

Document this.
Get her bat $hit crazy reasons/responses in writing when this happens.

Fuel for future fire (court).

Your ex is a c#nt. Plain and simple.
Forum: General Chat 04-14-2020, 12:03 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 486
Posted By dad2bandm
What specifically is in the agreement, regarding...

What specifically is in the agreement, regarding this? Specific wording. If only Mom actually has custody, then I doubt the school would allow the other parent to attend parent-teacher interviews...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2020, 04:46 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 269
Posted By dad2bandm
How long is "temporarily laid off" ? I guess...

How long is "temporarily laid off" ? I guess that depends. Do you think his income will change that drastically still, if he gets the COVID-19 emergency funds, or gets on EI?
Forum: Financial Issues 03-26-2020, 12:23 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 790
Posted By dad2bandm
Yeah, something is missing here A doctor...

Yeah, something is missing here

A doctor note for what? For which expense?
They can only enforce existing order. So it sounds like the note is for an expense covered in order?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-25-2020, 11:57 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,716
Posted By dad2bandm
Toronto Sun mentioned this ruling too. Nice...

Toronto Sun mentioned this ruling too. Nice exposure. Good endorsement.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 09:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 433
Posted By dad2bandm
For anyone considering this (and the banks have...

For anyone considering this (and the banks have to approve you), really do your homework first, and use it as a last resort (like, you've lost your job, and have no choice).


The mortgage...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2020, 01:19 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,388
Posted By dad2bandm
I can't wait until this passes. Everyone is...

I can't wait until this passes. Everyone is acting bat-$hit crazy in regards to COVID-19. It'll be nice to return to the normal level of bat-$hit crazy that comes with separated parenting.


I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-20-2020, 11:59 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,388
Posted By dad2bandm
My point was, if Dad is going out to buy...

My point was, if Dad is going out to buy groceries, or something like that, he could already be bringing virus into household with his elderly parents. But, people need food, so getting groceries is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-20-2020, 11:32 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,388
Posted By dad2bandm
To the OP; I am in exactly this...

To the OP;


I am in exactly this situation, as our child has been with me since all this stuff started. This weekend is child's weekend with Mom. Child was sent to Mom's.


Neither of us are...
Forum: General Chat 03-11-2020, 11:04 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 608
Posted By dad2bandm
Not directly, but the judge's name is in the...

Not directly, but the judge's name is in the records, so you can simply do a text search for the judge's lastname, and it does find those cases.
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-26-2020, 09:54 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,062
Posted By dad2bandm
Not to get on a tangent, but... There is...

Not to get on a tangent, but...

There is intent. And there is practice. lol.


Lots and lots of cases and situations where CAS did not protect the kids. Google it. Including mine, if the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-25-2020, 10:30 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 317
Posted By dad2bandm
Basically what Rockscan already said to you. ...

Basically what Rockscan already said to you.
You didn't provide any details, so we can only guess.



If it's the typical school field trips for the day, locally, or to nearby cities, it's...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-25-2020, 10:25 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,062
Posted By dad2bandm
Sorry Jackdivorce, I noticed you private...

Sorry Jackdivorce,
I noticed you private messaged me, and I don't often check there or respond there.


You mentioned your spouse is in "peace bond" with you, but I don't understand, are you...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-20-2020, 04:25 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,062
Posted By dad2bandm
CAS is never your ally. Especially if you're a...

CAS is never your ally.
Especially if you're a man. Probably depends on the agency, but the one in our area, is incompetent, or under-resourced. Probably both.



They bungled things very...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-20-2020, 02:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,239
Posted By dad2bandm
Hockey is a different beast - as it is *so*...

Hockey is a different beast - as it is *so* expensive even at house level. And for 3 kids? $$$


FRO may have just denied the "costs" as perhaps they deemed it to not be child support related,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 01:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 683
Posted By dad2bandm
If I was to use one, Our Family Wizard seems the...

If I was to use one, Our Family Wizard seems the best. They price it as such.

An app/site like OFW does simplify some things when it comes to *high/conflict parents*. Everything is in the one...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 01:18 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,517
Posted By dad2bandm
As an aside; I wonder how much of the awarded...

As an aside;
I wonder how much of the awarded costs WorkingDad has seen come his way though.



In my court process (it's been long), I've been awarded a few times, some costs, but haven't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 01:03 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,517
Posted By dad2bandm
I thought, you were already progressing through...

I thought, you were already progressing through court stages, given you said this:





So where in court process are you then, and what is her motion about? I thought it was just seeking more...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-20-2020, 12:47 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,239
Posted By dad2bandm
"sues" ? Do you mean, she filed a...

"sues" ?



Do you mean, she filed a motion seeking some money towards the activity in family court?



Or actually going after you in small-claims court?
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