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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-08-2014, 01:25 PM
Replies: 43
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Posted By ByMyself
Curious, Serene, if an all-party meeting, with a...

Curious, Serene, if an all-party meeting, with a family therapist involved, has ever been attempted?

It has been suggested in my situation, and I think it can be helpful to bring out many of these...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2014, 02:00 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,830
Posted By ByMyself
Correct. The objective here is to keep them in a...

Correct. The objective here is to keep them in a forum (OFW) where they know they are being "watched/ witnessed" a bit more, and perhaps their behaviour will be a bit better - aka. communicating...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2014, 01:55 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,731
Posted By ByMyself
^^^^^ DunnMom beat me to it

^^^^^ DunnMom beat me to it
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2014, 01:54 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,731
Posted By ByMyself
Take a look here. Step 7: dealing with...

Take a look here.

Step 7: dealing with special expenses - The Federal Child Support Guidelines: Step-by-Step (http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/child-enfant/guide/step7-etap7.html#step_7)
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2014, 01:22 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,731
Posted By ByMyself
Not exactly. The first $100 of medical...

Not exactly.

The first $100 of medical expenses for the year, not covered by benefits plans, are not section 7 expenses. After the $100 threshold has been crossed, then the remaining amounts left...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-06-2014, 09:50 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,941
Posted By ByMyself
I think this is the whole point HD was making -...

I think this is the whole point HD was making - where do you draw the line and say "no, you shouldn't contact me about this petty stuff", and where do you say nothing, and just hope that it doesn't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2014, 09:32 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,830
Posted By ByMyself
This is moderately effective - sometimes I have...

This is moderately effective - sometimes I have had to hang up because the ex will not stop, and kids are present. Unfortunately, the kids get confused and think I am not wanting to talk to them.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2014, 09:15 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,830
Posted By ByMyself
The ex's parents, and friends of the ex. I...

The ex's parents, and friends of the ex.

I get along quite well with my ex's entire family. Unfortunately, they get drawn into the mix between my ex and I at times. I want to keep a good...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2014, 09:04 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,830
Posted By ByMyself
I have passed on to them the internet access...

I have passed on to them the internet access alternatives. For several years I didn't have a data plan on my iphone - and used Tim's, McDonalds, etc. to send/ pick up emails. It takes about 30...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2014, 07:59 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,830
Posted By ByMyself
We have a viable final order. There should be no...

We have a viable final order. There should be no need to return to court for this. But the other party refuses to budge, even mediate.

What are my choices?

Do nothing - and have my attempts to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2014, 07:23 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,830
Posted By ByMyself
The CAS social worker's notes indicate that my ex...

The CAS social worker's notes indicate that my ex stated they "felt like they were being set up" by using Family Wizard. The internet "problem" showed up right after our CAS investigation wrapped up,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2014, 04:36 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,830
Posted By ByMyself
Communication Book vs. Family Wizard

We have an existing final divorce order, obtained on consent, that states "parties are to communicate regularly regarding the children using Our Family Wizard". My ex insisted on us using it, and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2014, 01:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 790
Posted By ByMyself
For sms - you have a few options, that vary in...

For sms - you have a few options, that vary in providing different "strengths" to the evidence.

The easiest, is to type up a transcript, including sending and receiving phone numbers, dates and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-04-2014, 07:09 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,941
Posted By ByMyself
Understanding now that your daughter has gone to...

Understanding now that your daughter has gone to true dance competitions in the past, and you have split the accommodation expense then - you shouldn't really be questioning it now. Yes, you "got...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-04-2014, 03:54 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,941
Posted By ByMyself
Is she asking for you to cover 1/2 of daughter's...

Is she asking for you to cover 1/2 of daughter's hotel portion? I would just respond "I am not sure that the hotel is completely necessary, though I can understand your desire to save a bit of time...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-04-2014, 02:44 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 8,607
Posted By ByMyself
Probably for the best that you "exit", just in...

Probably for the best that you "exit", just in these bizarre postings become noticed by your partner, and become part of an OCL/ Section 30 assessment for your trial.
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-04-2014, 02:07 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 8,607
Posted By ByMyself
I picked up on that earlier today too... had a...

I picked up on that earlier today too... had a strong suspicion at least. But the events of today make it shockingly clear.

And the ironic part of this situation, like Tayken mentions, is that the...
Forum: General Chat 01-31-2014, 12:21 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 4,961
Posted By ByMyself
Got that right.

Got that right.
Forum: General Chat 01-31-2014, 12:14 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 4,961
Posted By ByMyself
Hello, Pot! It's me, Kettle. You're black. ...

Hello, Pot! It's me, Kettle. You're black.


I think that's the point being made here is don't come looking for others to reinforce your poor choices.

You can't expect to get away with calling...
Forum: General Chat 01-31-2014, 11:21 AM
Replies: 73
Views: 4,961
Posted By ByMyself
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Forum: General Chat 01-31-2014, 10:19 AM
Replies: 73
Views: 4,961
Posted By ByMyself
Mine "suddenly has no internet access, so can't...

Mine "suddenly has no internet access, so can't use email anymore", and insists that I call to discuss any issues.

So they definitely aren't watching me here then, lol.
Forum: General Chat 01-31-2014, 10:07 AM
Replies: 73
Views: 4,961
Posted By ByMyself
I think it is something every member on here...

I think it is something every member on here needs to be reminded of from time to time - make sure that you are willing to stand behind everything you say on this forum, the same as every other...
Forum: General Chat 01-31-2014, 09:55 AM
Replies: 73
Views: 4,961
Posted By ByMyself
And I am sure there have been a number who post...

And I am sure there have been a number who post here, and have ex's that watch their every move.

I've been through that before, which is why I have made efforts to change up my information about...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2014, 03:06 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,418
Posted By ByMyself
You have a 4 week turn around access schedule,...

You have a 4 week turn around access schedule, correct? Maybe just focus on that four week schedule to include in your order, as that should last until the order is changed.

I find it helpful to,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2014, 02:58 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,418
Posted By ByMyself
Here we go again... MS Mom and...

Here we go again... MS Mom and Pursuinghappiness... do you teach your kids to bully like that too? Lovely that we all get to be a part of this.

I turned to this forum, like many others, to gather...
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