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Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2018, 11:52 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 196
Posted By paris
mafia, if you cut your kids out of your will they...

mafia, if you cut your kids out of your will they can contest it. Unless you leave them a smallish amount. Unless anyone chimes in to say that's changed?
Your estate must provide for your underage...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-06-2018, 11:44 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 820
Posted By paris
I'm going to chime in. I've worked for a family...

I'm going to chime in. I've worked for a family owned company for 30+ years. We used to get raises every year... anywhere from .25 cents to $1.00 per hour
Business died back and I didn't see a raise...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2018, 05:49 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 187
Posted By paris
Doubtful she did a registration and doesn't know...

Doubtful she did a registration and doesn't know the times. They probably fall on your time.
She needs your consent and agreement to pay before registering.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2018, 03:30 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 348
Posted By paris
Why didnít you just etransfer the overpayment...

Why didnít you just etransfer the overpayment back to him? Much easier than involving FRO to sort it out.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-02-2018, 12:25 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 587
Posted By paris
$20-30k down is $10-15k if you ask for half. It...

$20-30k down is $10-15k if you ask for half. It will cost you more than that to fight for that amount.
You didnít say how long you were married before you bought the house. If you hadnít used your...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-01-2018, 05:29 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 587
Posted By paris
From your first post here... We got our...

From your first post here...

We got our place recently (its on my name only so is the mortgage Ė but I did sign ďsomethingĒ during buying process that I can not sell it without her)
if we try to...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-01-2018, 05:10 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 587
Posted By paris
When did you buy it? How much did you pay and how...

When did you buy it? How much did you pay and how much down? What was the value on the day of separation? Toss in how long were you together?
Forum: Financial Issues 12-28-2017, 01:13 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 2,165
Posted By paris
Same. SS and CS was done and gone for my husband....

Same. SS and CS was done and gone for my husband. But then for awhile we paid cell phone bill (on our plan) for his youngest daughter (22) when she couldn't. When she started working full time, he...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-21-2017, 05:12 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 2,165
Posted By paris
Who has custody of the kids? If you do, his CS is...

Who has custody of the kids? If you do, his CS is 25k per year. That makes your incomes the same.
Forum: Political Issues 12-16-2017, 12:47 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,075
Posted By paris
From the article... They were also...

From the article...

They were also officially made parties to a custody dispute between their son and the girl's mother, even though they say they weren't present in court when a judge made that...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-09-2017, 11:04 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 841
Posted By paris
Even if he doesn't file taxes his employer is...

Even if he doesn't file taxes his employer is sending a copy of his T4 to the government every year. I don't know if FRO can retrieve info from the government though.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-03-2017, 10:14 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 751
Posted By paris
I think they had kids 1 and 2. Kid 3 came when...

I think they had kids 1 and 2. Kid 3 came when they were together but is not same dad as kids 1 and 2. And then kids 4 and 5 came along (not his).

I am concerned that they took all 5 kids when...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-02-2017, 12:08 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 751
Posted By paris
His family has kinship. Not good for you. He has...

His family has kinship. Not good for you. He has taken the other kids out of dance and put them in cadets. Heís causing conflict. You are trying to take his name off the birth certificate of one...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-01-2017, 07:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 694
Posted By paris
Kids at 14 often don't want to spend time with...

Kids at 14 often don't want to spend time with either parent in an intact family dynamic.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-01-2017, 07:39 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 751
Posted By paris
Your scenario is hard to follow. If the youngest...

Your scenario is hard to follow. If the youngest 2 aren't his then why does he even see them or have a say in what they do or treat either of them like shit? You said he has access to 3 of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-23-2017, 11:16 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 567
Posted By paris
You asked "Also, in case this ever goes in front...

You asked "Also, in case this ever goes in front of a judge, does taking stbx off look bad on me?"

She is asking for benefits so the answer to that question is yes.

You also said you have an...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2017, 02:17 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 593
Posted By paris
If you picked the child up at school you'd have...

If you picked the child up at school you'd have the backpack.

Her trying to schedule other appointments together with you is showing a pattern. My husband had the same problem with his ex showing...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2017, 09:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 566
Posted By paris
I didn't say they were? He filed for divorce. Her...

I didn't say they were? He filed for divorce. Her lawyer responded looking for SS.

I told him to have his lawyer respond with a big fat no.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2017, 06:49 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 566
Posted By paris
The letter said if he intends to rely on the...

The letter said if he intends to rely on the separation agreement that she signed without independent legal advice he needs to supply a copy to her lawyer. He can't find it. I told him it doesn't...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2017, 05:28 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 566
Posted By paris
17 years later

17 years ago he came home from work and she was gone with half the furniture. She left him with 2 kids in their early teens. The house had recently been remortgaged so there was no equity. She told...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2017, 04:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 221
Posted By paris
Sure why not. We've had trick or treating events...

Sure why not. We've had trick or treating events here all weekend. At the community centres, our children's safety village, the old age homes, even at the arenas. My neighbour took his son to 2 of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2017, 01:51 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 647
Posted By paris
She didn't say week about. She said on the week...

She didn't say week about. She said on the week with them. According to the posts from just a few months ago Dad would have kid for 2 weeks in the summer and 1 week at Christmas. There is several...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2017, 07:06 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 647
Posted By paris
Is the access through a court order? Are you...

Is the access through a court order?

Are you saying the other parent isn't doing homework with the child during that one week of the school year that he has access with the child?

I read your...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-14-2017, 08:37 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,744
Posted By paris
I have a young neighbour letting himself get...

I have a young neighbour letting himself get walked all over by an ex. It's distressing to watch as an outsider.

In this OP's case... I'm curious on the opinion of others... what would a judge...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-04-2017, 08:32 PM
Replies: 67
Views: 2,318
Posted By paris
Weekends are the fun parenting time, especially...

Weekends are the fun parenting time, especially once the kids are in school. Alternate the weekends to be fair to both parents. The rest looks AOK to me. Good luck.
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