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Forum: Parenting Issues 04-29-2012, 03:34 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,606
Posted By CCB
My husband is in the military, he does not sit on...

My husband is in the military, he does not sit on the computer and ask for advice.

Anyway, thank you to those who have replied to my requests for advice. Unfortunately, as of late and because...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2012, 02:26 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,230
Posted By CCB
I would tell her to contact a lawyer first thing...

I would tell her to contact a lawyer first thing Monday morning!

I just do not understand people, why make the situation worse for himself?
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2012, 01:48 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,606
Posted By CCB
Thanks May_May, that does make a lot of sense. ...

Thanks May_May, that does make a lot of sense. He has felt that same sense that they have turned on him. But I guess hè will just have to hang in there.

S9 might start wanting to spend more...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2012, 01:39 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,606
Posted By CCB
He knows he cannot force her as she would just...

He knows he cannot force her as she would just hate him and hate being here. We experienced that with the older daughter already.

She did not give any reasons other than she was old enough to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2012, 01:34 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,606
Posted By CCB
She's just following the same path that her older...

She's just following the same path that her older sister did, so we're not surprised. I suppose maybe my husband should be happy that his two teenage daughters are living more with their mother and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2012, 01:25 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,606
Posted By CCB
Thanks Tayken, that's pretty much what he...

Thanks Tayken, that's pretty much what he figured. It upsets him and it's an unfortunate situation for him, it's lose, lose.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2012, 01:05 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
Thanks BillieChic! :) And once again, thanks...

Thanks BillieChic! :) And once again, thanks everyone for the great advice!
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2012, 01:02 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,606
Posted By CCB
From a Dad's perspective

What does a Dad say to his 14 year old daughter who texts him and tells him that she doesn't have to visit him on a fixed schedule anymore, that she will decide her own schedule?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2012, 06:31 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,211
Posted By CCB
She can't just sign the kids up and then ask you...

She can't just sign the kids up and then ask you to pay for it. She has to consult you first. Sometimes we just simply can't afford things, that's life for parents of kids and/or divorced kids.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-27-2012, 06:29 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
Sure Arabian, everyone else is wrong and you are...

Sure Arabian, everyone else is wrong and you are right.

Anyway, thanks Blink and CMac, much appreciated!! :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2012, 08:48 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,152
Posted By CCB
Lawyers usually put in the part about you having...

Lawyers usually put in the part about you having to pay for costs if it goes to trial because they want to settle before then. But if they are being unreasonable, you won't have to pay their costs.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-27-2012, 08:34 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
Seriously Arabian, most of your comments on...

Seriously Arabian, most of your comments on everyone's posts are adversarial and not helpful in the least.

It's bad enough I have to put up with my husband's bitter ex-wife, I don't need to put...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-26-2012, 01:07 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 2,422
Posted By CCB
Canary, take whatever offer he has last tabled...

Canary, take whatever offer he has last tabled and sign it off. It is more fair than anything the courts would ever give you.

Move on with your life and let him live his life.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-26-2012, 01:05 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
Unfortunately he doesn't have a regular GP. She...

Unfortunately he doesn't have a regular GP. She moved away a few years back and his mother has been taking him to various walk-in clinics the few times he's needed to go since then.

How about...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-26-2012, 12:49 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
I see what you are saying, but in all honestly...

I see what you are saying, but in all honestly she would read something like that (because it is so unlike anything he's ever written) and freak out saying "I know your wife or your lawyer wrote...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-26-2012, 12:39 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
How does this sound? Dear Satans life coach...

How does this sound?

Dear Satans life coach (I love that one!),

I have noticed a change in S9 lately and I suspect it has something to do with the recent disagreements between you and I.
...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-26-2012, 12:15 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
Thanks Tayken, I never thought about it this way....

Thanks Tayken, I never thought about it this way. I think we should send the first article to his ex-wife LOL, and then I think we should follow the advice of the second article!
Forum: Financial Issues 04-26-2012, 11:33 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 2,422
Posted By CCB
You need to cut the emotional ties you have with...

You need to cut the emotional ties you have with your past. In family court, it doesn't matter what your ex "did to you" and it shouldn't matter to you anymore at this point. Move on with your life...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-26-2012, 10:24 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
Thanks for the reply. We don't need a...

Thanks for the reply.

We don't need a doctor's referral for the therapy as at the beginning of each year I keep a blanket one on file for our family for the insurance company.

My husband...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-26-2012, 09:52 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,497
Posted By CCB
Family Therapy

I'm looking for suggestions for a nicely worded, no-emotion email asking permission from my husband's ex to take their 9 year old son to a family therapist.

He is concerned about a recent...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-26-2012, 09:10 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 947
Posted By CCB
There should be no reason he would have to come...

There should be no reason he would have to come to the door to pick up your teenage kids.

Could you send him an email, no emotion, very business like to tell him that from now on pick-ups and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-26-2012, 08:32 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 595
Posted By CCB
How do you know so much about your ex's ex? I...

How do you know so much about your ex's ex? I don't know if I'd bring that into your case.

If I understand correctly, there is an order in place that she drives because she moved away. But now...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-26-2012, 07:20 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 947
Posted By CCB
My oldest step-daughter started the "rescue me"...

My oldest step-daughter started the "rescue me" game when she was 13. And her mother always "saved her". Eventually she just stopped coming altogether, so I do understand your frustration with...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-25-2012, 07:01 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 694
Posted By CCB
Wow, how can he argue that it's in the best...

Wow, how can he argue that it's in the best interests of the kids to NOT LET THEM GO TO DISNEY????

He's picking a dumb battle in my opinion!
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-23-2012, 08:23 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 677
Posted By CCB
You can put anything you want in your SA so long...

You can put anything you want in your SA so long as you both agree to it.

Why don't you just travel for a week during the winter on "your week"?

You could put a clause in that says...
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