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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 11:49 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 103
Posted By Berner_Faith
Not a hill to die on. There are no rules on that....

Not a hill to die on. There are no rules on that. You can always set up your own appointment with just the teacher and you. Highly doubt your ex is going to respect your request so best just to...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-13-2019, 11:00 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 125
Posted By Berner_Faith
Sell the house and she can get her equalization...

Sell the house and she can get her equalization out of that. Then she can buy her own house and hold the mortgage


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Forum: Financial Issues 11-13-2019, 10:58 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 137
Posted By Berner_Faith
Wouldnít that be lovely for his children eh? As...

Wouldnít that be lovely for his children eh? As long as he ends up with nothing and your gf gets it all thatís a bonus for you right?


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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-13-2019, 09:53 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 289
Posted By Berner_Faith
Youíre probably right and itís similar to kids...

Youíre probably right and itís similar to kids going to daycare when the other parent is available. Personally, with how hard daycare spots are to find, I wouldnít be giving up a spot... what happens...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2019, 08:13 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 176
Posted By Berner_Faith
Just go to court... it will take probably a...

Just go to court... it will take probably a couple years but it could take just as long to get an agreement. At least once you file if he decides to be reasonable you can always cancel the court...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-12-2019, 06:01 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 289
Posted By Berner_Faith
What is the parenting agreement? Do you share...

What is the parenting agreement? Do you share custody? Do one of you have majority access?


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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-12-2019, 04:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 219
Posted By Berner_Faith
I agree with this... I have a friend whoís...

I agree with this... I have a friend whoís daughter was burnt just before school started... she wasnít allowed to be in the sun... which meant her mom had to drive her to school instead of her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 11:25 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 274
Posted By Berner_Faith
Sheís your ex for a reason... she doesnít want to...

Sheís your ex for a reason... she doesnít want to stand in your house, she doesnít want to be near you. I never understand the argument of losing time over travel... is your child with you? Can you...
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-06-2019, 05:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 217
Posted By Berner_Faith
What exactly are you hoping waiting for the new...

What exactly are you hoping waiting for the new legislation will do for you? If youíre in an abusive relationship leave, especially if you have kids


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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-03-2019, 02:36 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 927
Posted By Berner_Faith
It is not invading a teens privacy to make sure...

It is not invading a teens privacy to make sure they are safe. You cannot have conversations if you donít know situations are happening. You parent your way, but Iíll continue monitor my childrenís...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-03-2019, 12:30 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 927
Posted By Berner_Faith
Still disagree... how many 15/16/17 year olds end...

Still disagree... how many 15/16/17 year olds end up in the sex trade or wrapped up in illegal behaviour? They cannot get a cell phone in their own name until they are an adult, social media dictates...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-03-2019, 11:52 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 927
Posted By Berner_Faith
My children donít have a choice. They are not...

My children donít have a choice. They are not adults and therefore we will always check through their phones and social media. Itís about keeping children safe.


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Forum: Financial Issues 11-02-2019, 03:38 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 146
Posted By Berner_Faith
Put a waiver regarding SS in the agreement. If he...

Put a waiver regarding SS in the agreement. If he isnít entitled to it now, he isnít entitled to it then... if you taking $100K less is in lieu of SS then have that written in the agreement. CS is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-02-2019, 03:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 504
Posted By Berner_Faith
I agree with Standing.. nothing you have said...

I agree with Standing.. nothing you have said shows you should have sole custody. You claim he was abusive yet the court gave him unsupervised access, so he canít be that bad. I donít blame him for...
Forum: Introductions 10-31-2019, 07:45 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,012
Posted By Berner_Faith
Well was equalization ever done? Even if the home...

Well was equalization ever done? Even if the home is just in your name itís still a marital asset that needs to be split. If you never did a separation agreement and the house has never been dealt...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-28-2019, 11:56 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 220
Posted By Berner_Faith
How to you just lose $12k? Where did you put it...

How to you just lose $12k? Where did you put it that itís just gone?

Separation date will be based on different factors depending on how you guys have been living your life


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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-24-2019, 12:43 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 298
Posted By Berner_Faith
Itís only a legitimate source of income for...

Itís only a legitimate source of income for grandma if sheís claiming it as income. Cash jobs are not legitimate so if you want help with paying Grandma she has to claim it and give you receipts.
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Forum: Financial Issues 10-23-2019, 07:55 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 193
Posted By Berner_Faith
Like rockscan said... your ex will pay him with...

Like rockscan said... your ex will pay him with his share of the equalization... and if he doesnít... well thatís between the ex and his lawyer... but no the lawyer canít dip into your share

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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-23-2019, 06:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 298
Posted By Berner_Faith
Iíd say no seeing as neither of you claim it as...

Iíd say no seeing as neither of you claim it as income what proof does the ex have youíre actually paying her? You could send her the money and she could easily give you cash back. 4&7 are in school...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-23-2019, 08:43 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 298
Posted By Berner_Faith
How do you pay more than table if you only pay...

How do you pay more than table if you only pay when you can? Are you saying if your CS is $1000 a month and you only pay every three months you pay her $4000 rather than the $3000 youíd owe?

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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-23-2019, 08:37 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 298
Posted By Berner_Faith
So if youíre agreeing to everything sheís asking...

So if youíre agreeing to everything sheís asking for why not just reply and say so? FYI a judge wonít accept ďI pay when I canĒ... whether you go or not expect to be ordered full Cs


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Forum: Financial Issues 10-20-2019, 04:12 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 244
Posted By Berner_Faith
Unless itís a special program that needs a...

Unless itís a special program that needs a special laptop a $500 one will do... I bought my own for college but my parents werenít separated so they werenít forced to pay for things


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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-18-2019, 02:08 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 746
Posted By Berner_Faith
I feel like a child that young really doesnít...

I feel like a child that young really doesnít have a choice... I mean if we have to leave a store and my 2 year old is having a fit, well I pick her up, carry her to the vehicle, strap her in her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 04:46 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,314
Posted By Berner_Faith
Depends... a lot depends on circumstances, what...

Depends... a lot depends on circumstances, what created status quo? What change has occurred to upset status quo? What does your agreement state as far as reviews go?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 04:45 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,314
Posted By Berner_Faith
Youíre reasons will most likely not hold up in...

Youíre reasons will most likely not hold up in court. Is CAS involved? Has mom been charged with anything making her a threat to the children? Do the children have any special requirements that only...
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