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Forum: General Chat 05-10-2022, 02:57 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,610
Posted By iona6656
I think there has to be. I think a lot of this...

I think there has to be. I think a lot of this stems from the fact that I have a lot of decision making authority over our daughter - and at the sessions he even tried to play stupid when our PC...
Forum: General Chat 05-10-2022, 12:47 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,610
Posted By iona6656
Update- back we go

I thought I would update this thread- as I don't see a lot of discussion of the use of co-parent counsellors/parenting coordinator post-settlement.

In our final parenting agreement- we agreed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2022, 05:58 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 534
Posted By iona6656
totally agree. Go for 50/50. Unless there is...

totally agree.

Go for 50/50. Unless there is really something wildly unique about your situation- I don't see why you shouldn't get 50/50.

Offer a VERY FAST graduated parenting schedule. Move...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 03:43 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 654
Posted By iona6656
don't take the bait. ignore it. This place...

don't take the bait. ignore it.

This place is a wealth of advice and information. but it can also be off-putting if you are a victim of intimate-partner violence, in any form.

There is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 01:28 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 654
Posted By iona6656
+1 additionally- make sure your separation...

+1

additionally- make sure your separation and parenting agreement is very detailed. less room for interpretation = less arguing. Also- I don't know how you all make decisions now- but with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 01:25 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 654
Posted By iona6656
ignore this. all of it.

ignore this. all of it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2022, 02:12 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 352
Posted By iona6656
what about setting up a virtual visit with the...

what about setting up a virtual visit with the kids family doctor to talk about it?

it doesn't sound like she's attending FREEDOM! rallies- so, as you said, she's not vehemently anti-vax, but...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-20-2022, 06:43 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 670
Posted By iona6656
I was told FRO won't enforce section 7 without...

I was told FRO won't enforce section 7 without actual amounts in the agreement. And when you need to update the percentage paid- you have to go back and update your order. But maybe that's not true?
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2022, 06:21 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 751
Posted By iona6656
eh. Disagree. one thing our PC said to us early...

eh. Disagree. one thing our PC said to us early in the process- "most parents can have flexibility in the process- how you apply the parenting agreement. Timing, etc....you guys cannot". So no- he...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-20-2022, 06:09 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 303
Posted By iona6656
This is a broad strokes interpretation. Overly...

This is a broad strokes interpretation. Overly so.

Were you subject to a supervised visitation order?

There are a lot of reasons supervision is in place. Yes- they are *usually* meant to be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-14-2022, 01:09 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 751
Posted By iona6656
Yes- it's being documented. Through email mostly-...

Yes- it's being documented. Through email mostly- but also there's a lot of other screwy shit that he's doing that is actually affecting her health- so I've asked to return to our Parenting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-13-2022, 01:11 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 751
Posted By iona6656
He's trying it again on Monday. Our...

He's trying it again on Monday.

Our agreement says that on easter- parenting is split from Thursday after school to Sat at 6pm, then to Tuesday drop off. HOWEVER, her school- since it's private-...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-12-2022, 12:10 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 751
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- it is, the parenting agreement reads that...

Yeah- it is, the parenting agreement reads that his parenting time is from Fridays after school to drop off on Monday morning.

the clause reads as follows.:

"The child shall be in Applicant's...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-12-2022, 10:25 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 751
Posted By iona6656
Can Non-Residential Parent decide whether to send kid to school?

Mom is primary resident parent, and has sole custody.

Dad has twice kept kid home on a Monday because he "planned" other activities. He didn't tell me beforehand- nor the school, who called me to...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-30-2022, 02:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 241
Posted By iona6656
I'm going to disagree with Rocksan on this- I say...

I'm going to disagree with Rocksan on this- I say put it in as a bargaining chip.

I was successful in getting my ex to pay my mom his s7 share of her watching our daughter after school in our...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-01-2022, 03:41 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,787
Posted By iona6656
In my opinion Pazaratz overstepped in his...

In my opinion Pazaratz overstepped in his commentary on the father's view. I get that his rulings can be a bit kooky. But he seemed to take real issue with the dad's evidence- which, if it wasn't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-01-2022, 03:34 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,787
Posted By iona6656
Is it really unclear though? I think there's been...

Is it really unclear though? I think there's been 5 cases on this in Ontario? and Pazaratz is the only one who didn't find in favour of erring on the side of caution with the vaccine.

Also- can...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-28-2022, 02:47 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,787
Posted By iona6656
I'm waiting. I'm also waiting for a true...

I'm waiting.

I'm also waiting for a true battle of the experts.

While I kinda agree with the Pazaratz ruling ^....my concern is that it reads as if he was ruling *against* the father rather...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-02-2022, 03:15 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,603
Posted By iona6656
I always feel sad for the kids in these type of...

I always feel sad for the kids in these type of divorce battle situations.

But also- I really REALLY want to see the decision on this case reported if it ever makes it to court. Sheeit- I want to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2022, 02:53 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 575
Posted By iona6656
my ex is dumb too. and likes to contradict me for...

my ex is dumb too. and likes to contradict me for fun...BUT our agreement still says i have to consult with him on everything- and that I do. He won't see the PC anymore either.

BUUUUT- as to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-01-2022, 11:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 430
Posted By iona6656
first thing- paragraphs are good. second-...

first thing- paragraphs are good.

second- this is your adult daughter, yeah? Is she the one offering up advice on his living arrangements or are you thinking of making the suggestion? Or has she...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-31-2022, 08:39 AM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,787
Posted By iona6656
It took me 2 seconds to google the doctors you...

It took me 2 seconds to google the doctors you listed and figure out their licenses have been suspended or their under sanctions.

Legitimate doctors are not opposing the vaccine.

So to your...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-27-2022, 05:11 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,787
Posted By iona6656
Disagree. It was not offensive- actually I...

Disagree. It was not offensive- actually I thought it was a rather rainbows-&-sunshine of Janus to phrase it that way.

I would've said anti-vaxxers are stupid and frankly deserve to lose custody...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2022, 06:25 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 877
Posted By iona6656
Also- based on the shit you've posted on here-...

Also- based on the shit you've posted on here- you better settle. You don't sound like you're going to come off well in front of a judge. But then again- we are internet people, flinging around...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2022, 06:19 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 877
Posted By iona6656
You're lucky af that you didn't have the OCL-...

You're lucky af that you didn't have the OCL- they would've nailed you for the next part of the information you are telling us below- ESPECIALLY not disclosing to your therapist that you were...
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