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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2020, 12:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 245
Posted By ReFrame
Yes, totally normal to meet with the mediator,...

Yes, totally normal to meet with the mediator, separately, ahead of the mediation. And, not to be to pessimistic, but part of the purpose of the meeting is to give the mediator a chance to assess...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-01-2020, 09:05 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 326
Posted By ReFrame
If your bank does it correctly (and they don't...

If your bank does it correctly (and they don't always), the PSE portion (capital contributions) are made directly to you, and the EAP (grants and accumulated earning) go directly to the student and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2020, 01:45 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 217
Posted By ReFrame
If you have both signed the lease, you are both...

If you have both signed the lease, you are both liable for the entire amount. The landlord can choose to go after either one of you, both of you, or neither of you as they see fit. The landlord...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-16-2020, 05:06 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 316
Posted By ReFrame
And, if you go on the FRO govn't page, they are...

And, if you go on the FRO govn't page, they are suggesting that you can find a lawyer or paralegal to commission documents virtually, so that documents can continue to be processed.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-14-2020, 07:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 859
Posted By ReFrame
Someone else will have to answer about stock...

Someone else will have to answer about stock options, but keep in mind the debt that will be split, is only debt that still exists at the date of separation; if either of you accumulated debt during...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-14-2020, 11:09 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 859
Posted By ReFrame
Assets and debts that were brought into the...

Assets and debts that were brought into the marriage will be taken into account when you do equalization, but those that were accumulated during the marriage will be considered joint (some exception...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2020, 10:17 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,504
Posted By ReFrame
You are correct that when using the calculators,...

You are correct that when using the calculators, you do not include the amount of spousal you received in the previous year as part of your income. You would use your income (not including the...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-04-2019, 09:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 527
Posted By ReFrame
Thank you! So nice to hear a voice of reason!

Thank you! So nice to hear a voice of reason!
Forum: Financial Issues 11-04-2019, 08:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 527
Posted By ReFrame
Thank you for the response Rockscan. The...

Thank you for the response Rockscan.

The expenses we are expected to share are explicitly stated in the separation agreement. University tuition is one of those expenses, and it is laid out...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-04-2019, 07:16 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 527
Posted By ReFrame
FRO enforceablity

There have been previous posts regarding FRO's inability to enforce collection of section 7 expenses when the separation agreement states that each parent will pay a certain proportion of percentage...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-23-2019, 01:17 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 750
Posted By ReFrame
A motion to enforce is not the same as a motion...

A motion to enforce is not the same as a motion to change is it? What forms are used for a motion to enforce?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-20-2019, 12:46 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 348
Posted By ReFrame
Have you completed your Net Family Property...

Have you completed your Net Family Property Statement yet? Our 13B included notional taxes as outstanding liabilities. Not the exact situation you are describing, but perhaps a possibility?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-19-2019, 05:42 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,172
Posted By ReFrame
There is also a form you can complete, a joint...

There is also a form you can complete, a joint election under section 74.5(3)(b) you can complete (both parties have to sign) to NOT have section 74.5 of the act apply. If I recall correctly, there...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-19-2019, 05:34 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,696
Posted By ReFrame
I wasn't really trying to point out that all...

I wasn't really trying to point out that all sides need to be flexible, just reminding that the mediator just wants to get the job done. If the other side has some off the wall notion and the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-18-2019, 09:22 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,696
Posted By ReFrame
My problem is that the agreement dictates how...

My problem is that the agreement dictates how support is to be adjusted as specific circumstances occur, and the payor will not make the adjustments; we already accounted for several material changes...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-18-2019, 08:55 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,696
Posted By ReFrame
We had a one day mediation where both sides were...

We had a one day mediation where both sides were required to pre-submit briefs and include detailed financials. The other side brought neither. It was a shuttle mediation and I was family law...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2019, 10:19 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 516
Posted By ReFrame
In our case, the pension administrator did the...

In our case, the pension administrator did the valuation as at the date of separation, and that was the amount used for equalization purposes. When the transfer actually occurred (approx 2.5 years...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-02-2019, 01:38 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 943
Posted By ReFrame
I have received contradictory information on...

I have received contradictory information on this; one lawyer said yes, included, the other said no, not if it was a one time occurrence, especially if the
asset had been included in equalization.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-30-2019, 07:32 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 788
Posted By ReFrame
Lemongirl, was it done as a motion to change?

Lemongirl, was it done as a motion to change?
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2019, 05:22 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,018
Posted By ReFrame
Our SA specifically lists car insurance as a...

Our SA specifically lists car insurance as a section 7 up until the point at which all of the children finish schooling, BUT, had it not been specifically listed I understand it would not have been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2018, 11:28 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 851
Posted By ReFrame
Agreed! I have verified by phone that FRO will...

Agreed! I have verified by phone that FRO will not do that. I am in a similar (but more complicated) predicament and have been advised by lawyer that if all the adjustments are already specified in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2018, 09:50 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 703
Posted By ReFrame
Hi Janus, I would like nothing more than to...

Hi Janus,

I would like nothing more than to file with FRO, but the problem is that the amount FRO could enforce takes into consideration decreases in child support (because there are amounts and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2018, 09:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 703
Posted By ReFrame
Thank you Banico, that's the info I'm looking...

Thank you Banico, that's the info I'm looking for! Mine originated as a separation agreement, but it is on file with the court, so I believe that's the same thing?

I do not want to change any of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-16-2018, 06:19 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 703
Posted By ReFrame
Motion to Change?

I am considering filing a Motion to Change, but am confused whether it is the right vehicle. Our agreement dictates certain recalculation upon triggering events. Some triggering events have...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-24-2018, 03:30 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 666
Posted By ReFrame
Thanks Rockscan, it specifically does give an end...

Thanks Rockscan, it specifically does give an end date for support or the eldest, and continues on to say that spousal gets adjusted upward at that same date, but not an amount, and that post...
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