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Forum: Financial Issues 03-25-2011, 03:42 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,444
Posted By singlemama
Mess, NBDad, and dadtotheend: thank-you for the...

Mess, NBDad, and dadtotheend: thank-you for the info! :)
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2011, 01:55 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,444
Posted By singlemama
Ex isn't claiming tips on taxes to avoid paying CS..

Hi All,

I will try my best to keep this short:

Ex currently has order for CS enforced through Family Maintenance based on 40k income. He makes minimum wage and works 3-4 nights per week in a...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-27-2010, 04:56 AM
Replies: 131
Views: 28,488
Posted By singlemama
I wasn`t married or even common law with the...

I wasn`t married or even common law with the father of my child. But we lived together. The best part....not having to sleep beside a man who won`t have sex with me, but will with other women. I can...
Forum: Political Issues 02-26-2010, 06:17 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 9,266
Posted By singlemama
You're absolutely right. My point, which I failed...

You're absolutely right. My point, which I failed to communicate, was that if it were a man's body, they would have the right to make the choice.
Forum: Political Issues 02-26-2010, 04:09 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 9,266
Posted By singlemama
If men had to squeeze a baby out of their penis,...

If men had to squeeze a baby out of their penis, they would have the choice as well.

I'm just saying.
Forum: Political Issues 02-26-2010, 04:05 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 9,266
Posted By singlemama
Please open your eyes to the fact that when you...

Please open your eyes to the fact that when you have sex, there is a chance you will become a parent. Sex and babies: the two are inextricably linked. You have a choice to have safe sex so you won't...
Forum: Political Issues 02-26-2010, 03:39 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 9,266
Posted By singlemama
Amazing. You are a lucky woman. Not everyone does...

Amazing. You are a lucky woman. Not everyone does snap out of it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-26-2010, 03:35 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,874
Posted By singlemama
Thank you for your responses! You all definitely...

Thank you for your responses! You all definitely reaffirmed my initial thoughts on this.

I actually don't know him that well, it's been less than 2 years since we met. But I do feel it will make...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2010, 05:20 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,874
Posted By singlemama
Restraining order?

Hi there,

My lawyer has advised me to include a restraining order in my pleadings, as my ex is very volatile and aggressive (has psychological and addiction issues). I have only ever been yelled...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2010, 04:11 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 687
Posted By singlemama
Safety issue??

I believe my ex was drunk at 6pm tonight when I spoke with him. He was slurring badly and nonsensical. He is working in a bar tonight and usually drinks or does drugs during/after his shift. He is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2010, 03:52 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,896
Posted By singlemama
Maybe if you approach the conversation as though...

Maybe if you approach the conversation as though you want help from him? tell him she is being a fussy eater, and ask him what works for him? This way he won't feel like you are being critical. Maybe...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2010, 03:41 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,938
Posted By singlemama
I feel for you! About 30 mins after my infant...

I feel for you! About 30 mins after my infant comes home from her visit she has a fit for about an hour. It's the only time she gets that upset, worse than her teething. It's heartbreaking. I'm sure...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2010, 03:34 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,789
Posted By singlemama
billiechic, maybe you can ask him if the two of...

billiechic, maybe you can ask him if the two of you can agree on allowing the other to be first choice "babysitter"? Not to interfere with grandparent time, but just in good will, offer the time to...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2010, 03:18 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,658
Posted By singlemama
I tried coming to an agreement with him ie) you...

I tried coming to an agreement with him ie) you make a minimum of x in tips plus wage = yearly =X for CS, but he has decided that he is only going to base cs on his wage (if at all? he isn't paying...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-15-2010, 03:44 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,658
Posted By singlemama
His rent alone is $1800 a month, so to say he...

His rent alone is $1800 a month, so to say he made $20k is clearly untrue. We had come to a verbal agreement that he made $2000 a month in tips minimum, add that to wages adn it worked out to about...
Forum: Introductions 02-15-2010, 03:31 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,069
Posted By singlemama
Both of our names are on the lease. I'm hoping...

Both of our names are on the lease. I'm hoping under the circumstances he won't have a leg to stand on. As I said, he owes me a chunk of money that I leant him as well. I'm not counting on seeing...
Forum: Introductions 02-15-2010, 01:06 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,069
Posted By singlemama
Thank you for responding both of you! My...

Thank you for responding both of you!

My name is on the lease. His roommate moved in this month, but I didn't not pay rent for the last couple of months I lived there becasue I was on maternity...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-14-2010, 07:00 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,658
Posted By singlemama
Ex is a bartender how will unclaimed income be determined?

My ex is a bartender. On paper he says he made $20k last year, in 2008 he made $36k, but the rest of his income is in unclaimed tips and bonuses. Do I need to gather info about his lifestyle?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2010, 06:56 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 2,020
Posted By singlemama
Wow, what a terrible situation. It's in the...

Wow, what a terrible situation. It's in the daughter's best interest to have a relationship with her father. I believe the courts will take what she says into consideration now that she is 12, but...
Forum: Introductions 02-14-2010, 05:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,069
Posted By singlemama
New here, looking for feedback

I will sum this up as quickly as I can. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!
Our daughter is 4 months old, I am mixed feeding. My relationship with her father was extremely tumultuos due to...
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