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Forum: Divorce Support Yesterday, 09:29 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,572
Posted By arabian
Don't do facebook. My ex's g/f was pretty awful...

Don't do facebook. My ex's g/f was pretty awful years ago. Social media will simply suck you into their drama and make you feel terrible.

With regard to his belongings. Call a moving company and...
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 11:27 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 243
Posted By arabian
If you want to give her money then do so through...

If you want to give her money then do so through a 3rd party on condition you remain anonymous.

I really think what you are trying to do is a nice thing. Remember, however, that "nice guys finish...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-14-2018, 03:38 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 648
Posted By arabian
My ex and I were business partners for several...

My ex and I were business partners for several decades. At the time of our separation I needed to send and receive information regarding our business. His girlfriend wasn't knowledgeable about our...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-13-2018, 02:10 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 483
Posted By arabian
You pay or FRO or MEP will take steps to garnish...

You pay or FRO or MEP will take steps to garnish it from you (your employer, your bank). You can also have your drivers' license suspended and passport cancelled.... and your fishing and hunting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-13-2018, 02:06 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 648
Posted By arabian
... my son tells me that nowadays nobody uses...

... my son tells me that nowadays nobody uses faxes but instead take photos and email or text. Okay my age is showing. I still liked the fax cause I knew it was a hassle for them (they had to buy...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2018, 01:55 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 306
Posted By arabian
You can't force someone to work. You impute...

You can't force someone to work.
You impute income.
A step-down approach is something like this:

year 1 (take Sept 1 separation date) - income imputed 35k
Year 2 - income imputed 45k
Year 3...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2018, 01:02 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 306
Posted By arabian
You're a relative newbie. Fortunately. Good you...

You're a relative newbie. Fortunately. Good you have a CA. Your wife hasn't been out of work for too long then. That is a good thing. It shouldn't be too difficult for her to become...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2018, 12:57 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 306
Posted By arabian
Hope you are using spread sheets supported by...

Hope you are using spread sheets supported by documentation. You certainly do not have to respond to every point your ex has stated. You can simply state N/A - not applicable or not relevant. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2018, 12:49 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 306
Posted By arabian
BTW I work for a specialist. Stubborn, type-A...

BTW I work for a specialist. Stubborn, type-A who did his own taxes for years... paid mega taxes (way more than top wage earners make a year). Finally, after a few decades, hired a CA. Thing with...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2018, 12:41 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 306
Posted By arabian
A brief is supposed to be.....brief, not a...

A brief is supposed to be.....brief, not a manuscript. Hopefully the bulk is primarily exhibits? (My lawyer used to reassure me when my ex presented huge submissions: all the more for them to hang...
Forum: General Chat 12-13-2018, 12:26 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 814
Posted By arabian
A very good post Stillbreathing. I agree that...

A very good post Stillbreathing. I agree that Iceberg is a caring friend. I wonder if the hospital did end up doing an investigation?
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2018, 07:24 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 306
Posted By arabian
perhaps I'm missing something... If your...

perhaps I'm missing something...

If your wife spent a gaggle of money AFTER separation date then I believe that is her problem and would be considered depletion of matrimonial assets would it not?...
Forum: General Chat 12-10-2018, 03:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 116
Posted By arabian
Thanks Berner - daughter is 10 y.o. Son is 19...

Thanks Berner - daughter is 10 y.o. Son is 19 but severely disabled. I asked the mother and she has received no money for either child. Yes she legally adopted both children. Mother has always...
Forum: General Chat 12-09-2018, 11:09 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 116
Posted By arabian
Caucasian people adopted the two Native children...

Caucasian people adopted the two Native children (thought I'd clarify).

Would she go through Indian Affairs to set things in motion?

I know absolutely nothing about Child Tax Credit.

She...
Forum: General Chat 12-09-2018, 08:58 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 116
Posted By arabian
Advice needed for friend - Govt Child Tax Credit - adoptee parent First Nations

Woman I met (lives in Ontario) adopted 2 children. The youngest she adopted in 2013. Biological father was killed in traffic accident. Mother is not around (drug addict who stated in...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-09-2018, 07:07 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 331
Posted By arabian
People who work in oilfield as "consultants" have...

People who work in oilfield as "consultants" have this situation happening right now. It's no fun and putting many people out of business, jobs and homes.

Unless he was a reasonable individual, I...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-08-2018, 10:01 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 651
Posted By arabian
While you say she "chose not to work" a court...

While you say she "chose not to work" a court would view this that you acquiesced and therefore yours was a traditional marriage. She will argue that she put her career on hold to stay home and look...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-08-2018, 09:51 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 651
Posted By arabian
Where is she going to live after March 1st? Her...

Where is she going to live after March 1st? Her position will be that the kids deserve to be raised in same lifestyle that they have always enjoyed. If she has an addiction you have another...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-08-2018, 09:35 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 651
Posted By arabian
You realize spousal support is different from...

You realize spousal support is different from child support?
Child support has tables based on income. Spousal support does not.

Good you have kept records. You can save yourself some money...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-08-2018, 08:48 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 331
Posted By arabian
How your friend decides to calculate his income...

How your friend decides to calculate his income tax is irrelevant to things (corporation, partnership, sole proprietorship). Income - reasonable business operating expenses = $$$$ is what it is all...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-08-2018, 08:41 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 651
Posted By arabian
Something you will learn as you go along is that...

Something you will learn as you go along is that you have to "instruct" your lawyer.

Look through the threads on this forum. There is much valuable information for you.

A person's shopping,...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-08-2018, 06:08 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 651
Posted By arabian
Welcome! I read your post and it brought up some...

Welcome! I read your post and it brought up some memories of days-gone-by when I did have some friends who would scam their spouses. Favorite was something to do with purchasing gift cards at...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-02-2018, 01:22 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 924
Posted By arabian
Disgusting that this is even an issue. ...

Disgusting that this is even an issue.

Grandparent is actually wiling to look after children (high-needs at that)?
Minimum wage is ridiculous and demeaning.
Hard-line negotiation between...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-02-2018, 01:16 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 288
Posted By arabian
A 4-year undergraduate is first step for someone...

A 4-year undergraduate is first step for someone who wants to be a doctor, veterinarian, architect (to name but a few).

If a child of the marriage has done well in their undergraduate 4-year...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-02-2018, 01:07 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 439
Posted By arabian
I believe you have to deal with child custody and...

I believe you have to deal with child custody and support SEPARATELY from equalization (assets such as property, pension, bank accounts, vehicles etc.).

You will be "on the hook" so-to-speak why...
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