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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-26-2020, 10:33 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 434
Posted By HardWorkingDad
I have my kids 39% of the time. EOW, plus two...

I have my kids 39% of the time. EOW, plus two over nights one week and one over night the following week. We switch to 5050 next year when D turns 4.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2020, 09:17 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 434
Posted By HardWorkingDad
For me, it was either wait 2 years as we agreed...

For me, it was either wait 2 years as we agreed in our SA or go MAJORLY into debt and emotional fatigue battling it out for 2 years.
I chose to wait the 2 years. That money I would much rather go...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-25-2020, 03:24 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,836
Posted By HardWorkingDad
There's no benefit to stalling. All matters have...

There's no benefit to stalling. All matters have been settled between us. I have her in writing saying to send tyem and she will sign them. I think its a control thing. She signs them on her...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-25-2020, 08:32 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,836
Posted By HardWorkingDad
I am sending registered mail along with Form 6. ...

I am sending registered mail along with Form 6. It states that if I have to have her served afterwards then I can charge back the costs. So its really upto her how she wants to play this out.
Forum: Divorce Support 08-25-2020, 08:18 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,836
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Sure but if she refuses to answer the door...

Sure but if she refuses to answer the door because its not how she wants?
Forum: Divorce Support 08-24-2020, 11:00 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,836
Posted By HardWorkingDad
I was going to. Process server was going to drop...

I was going to. Process server was going to drop them off. But now my ex wants it mailed.
Forum: Divorce Support 08-24-2020, 10:15 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,836
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Stalling a divorce?

I am divorcing my ex.
I have filed my documents with the courthouse and now need to serve my ex. She had initially told me to text or email and give her a heads up when she would be served and to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-11-2020, 01:57 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 360
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Decisions regarding the childrens health and education

My SA states that both Mom and Dad will both make decisions on the kids education and health.
I expressed a concern in an email about our kids returning to school and daycare and was replied with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2020, 04:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 563
Posted By HardWorkingDad
I too am waiting on a divorce however all the...

I too am waiting on a divorce however all the courts are closed and judges are only taking emergency cases. You would have to prove your divorce is an emergency. Best you can do now is fill out the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-02-2020, 04:00 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,110
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Every night I call my S7 and D3. Ex calls them...

Every night I call my S7 and D3. Ex calls them when they are here. It's in our SA. Quick, 5min call. It goes a long way both ways and it's something I look forward to doing every day I dont have...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-22-2020, 12:49 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,037
Posted By HardWorkingDad
I think if she would have to go through the court...

I think if she would have to go through the court system if I was to stall enough.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-22-2020, 12:48 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,037
Posted By HardWorkingDad
She could but having recently brought in a...

She could but having recently brought in a roommate that the kids dont know, to watch over them while she goes to work I think is a strong argument in my favor should she try to back out of 50/50.
I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-22-2020, 11:08 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,037
Posted By HardWorkingDad
I have emails where I have reached out offering...

I have emails where I have reached out offering to help with kids more. The ex is denying time with their father over and over banging the "kids mental health drum". I will continue to reach out...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-22-2020, 09:58 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,037
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Then the 50/50 schedule continues until we both...

Then the 50/50 schedule continues until we both agree on a suitable arbitrator.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 06:48 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,037
Posted By HardWorkingDad
It must be one that we both choose. I think...

It must be one that we both choose.

I think I would forgo mediation and go straight to arbitration.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 02:48 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,037
Posted By HardWorkingDad
It wont be court. We agreed to goto...

It wont be court. We agreed to goto med/arbitration if we dont agree to 50/50 when the time comes.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 08:15 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,037
Posted By HardWorkingDad
But we are not in court. We have an agreement...

But we are not in court. We have an agreement that we go 50/50 in 2021.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 07:41 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,037
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Back with another facetime issue. Tonight my D2...

Back with another facetime issue.
Tonight my D2 asked to speak to my step daughter and then my partner. This did not go over well with my ex who told me to stick to our agreement and that facetime...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-22-2020, 07:49 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 442
Posted By HardWorkingDad
More parenting time in Covid-19 times

I'm finding myself at home alot more these days with time on my hands. My ex is struggling with finding care for our two children past the March break. Her hours are flexible but on the days she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2020, 04:41 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,204
Posted By HardWorkingDad
If you have an agreement that states you will be...

If you have an agreement that states you will be moving to 50 50 and it's in detail, dont sweat it. Live your life and enjoy the time now you have with your kids.
When the switch comes and your ex...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-27-2020, 01:30 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 655
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Exactly why I am reaching out in the first place....

Exactly why I am reaching out in the first place. I dont know what shes doing.


I dont even know what page she is on hence my reaching out. Hard to do that when being met with radio silence.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-26-2020, 09:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 655
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Same page parenting

S7 report card came out. Overall very well done. Teacher requested phone interview to discuss a few slight things such as needing to improve on hand writing and some selfish behavior during recess....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 02:57 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,880
Posted By HardWorkingDad
No. We are not in court. We were in mediation...

No. We are not in court. We were in mediation but moved on to having our lawyers deal with it. I've agreed to everything and each time we wait 2 - 3 weeks for a reply. It took a whole week and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 02:15 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,880
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Its the other side's lawyer that takes 2-3 weeks...

Its the other side's lawyer that takes 2-3 weeks to respond to my lawyer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 12:31 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,880
Posted By HardWorkingDad
To give an update on this. My ex and I have...

To give an update on this.

My ex and I have yet to sign off on our SA.
I hired a lawyer and had him review the SA. He said it was good and recommended we make small changes like splitting the...
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