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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2020, 02:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 335
Posted By Gilligan
I couldn't agree more... I wish judges would deal...

I couldn't agree more... I wish judges would deal with this behavior more, it seems that it's rewarded in family court unfortunately.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2020, 10:36 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 98
Posted By Gilligan
Swearing of documents

I need to update CS and having getting no response from my EX about her 2019 income. (Joint Custody / Equal access).

I'm guessing there is a reason that it's not being shared and thinking that I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2020, 10:18 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 335
Posted By Gilligan
Maybe I'm jaded... and I fully agree with the...

Maybe I'm jaded... and I fully agree with the point the judge makes here.

But... the difference of a day IS about winning and loosing when you look at financial consequences of support as a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-02-2020, 07:46 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,916
Posted By Gilligan
I would add... be a model parent and be very...

I would add... be a model parent and be very careful with your communication with your ex. Minimize anything and expect anything you say to be twisted by her lawyer trying to discredit you.

I had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2020, 04:55 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 494
Posted By Gilligan
I'm sadly of the view that there wouldn't be much...

I'm sadly of the view that there wouldn't be much of a family law practice if it wasn't so financially lucrative. I know that's a pretty harsh statement, but many of the court room battles are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2020, 04:49 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 230
Posted By Gilligan
Likely this was wise advice, and you both may...

Likely this was wise advice, and you both may have benefit from this, as would your child. I find the "primary residence" pure non-sense and all about control.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2020, 04:47 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 230
Posted By Gilligan
I wouldn't be so quick to call this insurance...

I wouldn't be so quick to call this insurance fraud. I run into this often and have had to deal with private insurance companies who I'm really surprised as to how they see it.

If you are in a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2020, 08:08 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 763
Posted By Gilligan
Having a similar ex, all i can say is the best...

Having a similar ex, all i can say is the best advice is to not provide the information. "Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law".

It is unfortunate and the father...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-09-2020, 07:10 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 499
Posted By Gilligan
I am / was somewhat in your very same...

I am / was somewhat in your very same predicament.

In my case, my ex was able to present a doctor's note from a clinic & LTD letter for temporary LTD. Not only was CS adjusted, I was also on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-02-2020, 02:18 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 273
Posted By Gilligan
For a child who goes away, would the following be...

For a child who goes away, would the following be an expected outcome?

Child Support:


Pay offset during the summer months (on the basis that child returns during summer OR Average this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-02-2020, 12:42 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 273
Posted By Gilligan
Advice on timing for adjusting Child Support (Post Secondary Education)

Hoping to get some advice on my circumstances and possibly what I should expect.

I have 1 son (50/50) who will be starting post secondary education in the fall of 2021. I pay offset CS, but my ex...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-04-2020, 09:59 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,019
Posted By Gilligan
Hundred percent agree... feel OK signing it since...

Hundred percent agree... feel OK signing it since it's a non-enforceable clause and you can literally go file a motion on the same day and be awarded offset CS and nobody will look twice.

It seems...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-02-2020, 11:27 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,254
Posted By Gilligan
OK, but to be clear, we are 50/50 but her income...

OK, but to be clear, we are 50/50 but her income is substantially less because she is on LTD. Historically, I've been on the hook for CS as well as pro-rated section 7. I'm expecting my ex to pay...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-02-2020, 11:08 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 792
Posted By Gilligan
Sadly, after about a year of back and forth and...

Sadly, after about a year of back and forth and no action, I had to get my MP involved. It finally got resolved because of that, but seriously... it should take the involvement from your MP to get...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-02-2020, 10:58 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,254
Posted By Gilligan
Something I struggle with in these cases is that...

Something I struggle with in these cases is that calculations always seem to be based on a child living with one parent. In my case, it's 50/50 and there is significant support paid because of...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-02-2020, 10:49 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,254
Posted By Gilligan
Thank you! Will bookmark this

Thank you! Will bookmark this
Forum: Financial Issues 03-02-2020, 10:32 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,254
Posted By Gilligan
I agree, looking for the info now as I'm...

I agree, looking for the info now as I'm embarking on this journey myself and appreciate the advice and guidance provided
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2020, 10:27 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,114
Posted By Gilligan
I wish I had good advice, I only had one child...

I wish I had good advice, I only had one child and had many clear breaches of my order. Although I brought them up... absolutely nothing was done. Maybe I am just a complainer, but I'm of the opinion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2020, 10:06 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 505
Posted By Gilligan
Really not sure that this is a procedural motion...

Really not sure that this is a procedural motion type of situation. My understanding is that procedural motions are more about "process", such as disclosure or missing documents. You are really...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2020, 05:31 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,245
Posted By Gilligan
I went through a very simillar process. In my...

I went through a very simillar process. In my case, it is my firm belief that my ex created the situation in order to get custody. It's slimy and unfortunately a tactic that many lawyers take... but...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-31-2019, 12:19 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 928
Posted By Gilligan
Couldn't agree more, the who system promotes...

Couldn't agree more, the who system promotes conflict and need a serious overhaul. The problem is that it's often the lawyers / judges who have a financial interest in this racket who are supposed to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-31-2019, 12:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,548
Posted By Gilligan
That is sad but unfortunately not surprising. I...

That is sad but unfortunately not surprising. I also am of the firm belief that this is a self-governed group (judges and lawyers) and they all support their own interests on not necessarily those of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-18-2019, 02:55 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 389
Posted By Gilligan
I'm really sorry, it sounds like you made a lot...

I'm really sorry, it sounds like you made a lot of progress and that you had made many concessions to move things along. I am no expert on these matters so, I wouldn't take a lot of stock on my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-09-2019, 04:28 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 544
Posted By Gilligan
Understood, just looking at the legislation and...

Understood, just looking at the legislation and wondering why it is what it is.

Disclosure in my particular case has been very difficult and the courts have not been willing to compel my ex to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-09-2019, 03:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 544
Posted By Gilligan
Don't think that's gonna happen... support payors...

Don't think that's gonna happen... support payors have a bad wrap and aren't going to get much love.

Put a different non-intentional consequence...

Ex spouse marries rich... quits job and now...
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