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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 11:55 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
The summer access time is already in the court...

The summer access time is already in the court order.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 11:55 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
Yes. Parents and siblings

Yes.

Parents and siblings
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 11:54 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
Understood. Just trying to be active in my...

Understood. Just trying to be active in my daughters life.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 11:51 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
during school year 3 Am - 6 Am. Drop...

during school year
3 Am - 6 Am.

Drop off daughter at school for 9 AM. Back to sleep.

During summer ill have the support of multiple family members as well.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 11:42 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
This was intended to be my plan regardless of...

This was intended to be my plan regardless of finances. No financial pressures. New family for Ex although not a driving factor.

The intention is that any moneys is to be spent on my time with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 11:39 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
Considering my regular weekend access and school...

Considering my regular weekend access and school drop offs the hours would work out based on a two week schedule

100 Hours - Dad Mon - Fri 6 Am - 9 AM, Fri 6 AM - 9 AM, pick up school at 3...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 10:55 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
i work a night shift so the overnights during the...

i work a night shift so the overnights during the week arent possible. the mother starts work early which is the reason she will be dropping her off at the time and me driving her to school.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 09:10 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
Why was sole custody originally ordered? How have...

Why was sole custody originally ordered? How have you and mom got along in the past year? Is this something you could talk to her about? It sounds like shes been pretty flexible about increasing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 06:27 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 991
Posted By Dad1985
Motion Court Order

Hello Everybody,

First some background.

I took my ex to court for shared custody of our daughter, who at the time was a newborn and through the process roughly 2 years old. We were dealing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-19-2017, 03:38 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 765
Posted By Dad1985
The in house visit to view you with the child? ...

The in house visit to view you with the child?

Mine was 2 hours. The ocl sat in the kitchen on her laptop. She peaked up every 20 min or so just to view anything going on. We did not speak much...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-17-2017, 02:56 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,166
Posted By Dad1985
What would be considered enough delay to have the...

What would be considered enough delay to have the OCL dated?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2017, 05:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,166
Posted By Dad1985
I have received their offer. It asks for ...

I have received their offer.

It asks for

- more money
- travel without consent
- my access every other weekend Fri - sun starting 2019.
- sole custody
- no real way to revisit
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2017, 03:53 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,166
Posted By Dad1985
We had submitted a new offer which was more in...

We had submitted a new offer which was more in line with OCL gradual increases.
We asked shared parenting to be "revised" without need to submit material change of circumstances.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2017, 03:05 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,166
Posted By Dad1985
I can't help but think that all this money spent...

I can't help but think that all this money spent could we going toward my daughter.

The courts have not been generous in my fight so far.
The OCL heavily favors Mom with vague recommendations...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-13-2017, 07:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,166
Posted By Dad1985
Next Steps - Trial

Hello everyone

I posted a couple months ago regarding my OCL report. The report favored the mother and recommended sole custody to the mother. for me, 4 hours a week with increases after 6 month...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2017, 03:08 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
Do we have to come up with a final agreement or...

Do we have to come up with a final agreement or else go straight to trial?

I'm not really looking to agree on sole. Given my daughter is young the courts have not agreed to shared.

Is it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-30-2017, 08:58 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
I've been fighting it since my daughter was about...

I've been fighting it since my daughter was about 4-5 months when I realized things were going to go this way.


We are now waiting on a proposal offer that will counter our settlement offer. I'm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 05:11 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
As much as I can go and ask for things it's not...

As much as I can go and ask for things it's not happening. Were in the court process and she's being fully endorsed.

I started the court process about 4-5 months in and made my position clear I'm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 03:56 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
Right now I have every Sunday from 230 to 630 ...

Right now I have every Sunday from 230 to 630

The judge said she thinks I should get more time now.
So I asked for 12-8

Ex responded it won't work and responded with an extra hour. I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 03:39 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
My daughter recently turned 2. Her mother...

My daughter recently turned 2.
Her mother decided she didn't want to be with me 2 weeks after our daughter was born. She mentioned she wanted to live with her parents after our daughter was born. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 02:54 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
Errr NEVER AN ORDER FOR SUPERVISED ACCESS My...

Errr
NEVER AN ORDER FOR SUPERVISED ACCESS
My ex just chose to do this
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 02:53 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
There was never an order for unsupervised access....

There was never an order for unsupervised access. The mother came along during all the time given. During this time it was a take it or leave it from my ex. 3 hours a week. 2 hours at a playcentre 1...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 02:27 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
The judge also made a very stern comment saying a...

The judge also made a very stern comment saying a trial wouldn't happen until the new year.

Also, during this time of continue to pay full child support and hold on to a mortgage.

My lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 02:08 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
Sorry let me clarify about the moving The...

Sorry let me clarify about the moving

The judge essentially said she can move as she pleaaes...just give me 60 days notice. That there is really no reason I can hold her back.

The ocl...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2017, 12:06 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 10,800
Posted By Dad1985
Everything that has been requested has just been...

Everything that has been requested has just been a take it or nothing since.
During the offered supervised time it was bascislly this or nothing.
Now she feels the power from ocl and our...
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