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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-14-2020, 09:22 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 268
Posted By blinkandimgone
This seems to be going a bit off topic here so...

This seems to be going a bit off topic here so let's bring it back to the OP's question...



I believe Kinso gave a very detailed response, does that answer your question?
Forum: Financial Issues 05-14-2020, 09:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 577
Posted By blinkandimgone
Valuation date accounts for anything jointly...

Valuation date accounts for anything jointly accumulated (debt or asset) between the date of marriage and the date of separation. Anything after the seperation date, including RSP, is excluded.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2020, 12:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 442
Posted By blinkandimgone
Her emails do not require a response if they are...

Her emails do not require a response if they are not telated to the kids. You do not need to defend yourself.

If you did feel the need to reply to her, a simple "None of this happened" is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 10:54 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 763
Posted By blinkandimgone
The simple answer: We don't. We tune out the...

The simple answer:

We don't. We tune out the noise until something relevant comes up and respond only to that.



She is. The goal is to bring you down when you and the kids are content....
Forum: General Chat 03-28-2020, 07:12 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 582
Posted By blinkandimgone
I didn't receive anything so it must have been...

I didn't receive anything so it must have been only Jeff that you messaged. We do not edit people's posts by request, with the exception of removing identifying information.

We do encourage giving...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:55 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,981
Posted By blinkandimgone
Exactly this. Only one person can claim the...

Exactly this. Only one person can claim the eligible dependant, and if you both try to claim and cannot agree, neither parent gets it so just randomly making changes online without discussing and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:20 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,981
Posted By blinkandimgone
Child support payments is very relevant, and the...

Child support payments is very relevant, and the wording of your order is very relevant. You need to stop giving bad advice on things you clearly are not aware of.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 09:52 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,981
Posted By blinkandimgone
The point isn't that your agreement says who...

The point isn't that your agreement says who collects tge benefits. The issue arises when you apply and they demand proof that you have shared custody, the wording in your agreement on the parenting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-23-2019, 12:19 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,027
Posted By blinkandimgone
Simply explain to the child that mom does things...

Simply explain to the child that mom does things her way at her house and you do things your way at your house, and it's ok.

Maybe you sort your laundry by colours, and mom doesn't. Or mom makes...
Forum: General Chat 02-19-2019, 09:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,427
Posted By blinkandimgone
I'm so sorry, Kate. You and your little one are...

I'm so sorry, Kate. You and your little one are in my thoughts.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-10-2019, 10:54 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,022
Posted By blinkandimgone
I would 100% ignore this. It is irrelevant, and...

I would 100% ignore this. It is irrelevant, and does not require a response to the ex in any way.

If the kid asks about it, simply explain that it was purchased by you for him to use at your home....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2019, 12:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 564
Posted By blinkandimgone
https://www.ottawadivorce.com/steps-negotiation/

https://www.ottawadivorce.com/steps-negotiation/
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2019, 12:09 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 403
Posted By blinkandimgone
This wouldn't be considered abandonment, in any...

This wouldn't be considered abandonment, in any way. Depending on how often it happens that the other parent isn't available during their parenting time, it may be appropriate to seek a change in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2019, 12:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 881
Posted By blinkandimgone
https://www.ottawadivorce.com/parallelparenting/

https://www.ottawadivorce.com/parallelparenting/
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-24-2019, 07:25 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 685
Posted By blinkandimgone
You may also want to mention that his request for...

You may also want to mention that his request for joint is in response to your request for updated financials and appears to be solely financially motivated. The judge would likely come to that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2019, 05:31 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 531
Posted By blinkandimgone
The lawyer can request whatever he wants, doesn't...

The lawyer can request whatever he wants, doesn't mean he will get it. What did the judge order and what was agreed to at court?

On what evidence did the applicant base their claim that the judge...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2019, 07:03 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,011
Posted By blinkandimgone
If he's ripping into you in person, can you not...

If he's ripping into you in person, can you not record the incidents, bring them up in counseling and explain that you ste concerned that these behaviours are undermining the positive steps being...
Forum: General Chat 01-10-2019, 10:29 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,549
Posted By blinkandimgone
Driveway drop off is perfectly fine if the child...

Driveway drop off is perfectly fine if the child is old enough to get themselves and any bags they may have from the house to the car.

If mom chooses to walk the child to the door that's up to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-06-2019, 01:27 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 892
Posted By blinkandimgone
Our Family Wizard. It's irrelevant who pens...

Our Family Wizard.

It's irrelevant who pens the communication, just that it was sent and received by the parties. If he chooses to allow his partner, or Marty the Moose write his emails it is...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2019, 01:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 700
Posted By blinkandimgone
A financial statement is a representation of...

A financial statement is a representation of facts, not about adjusting numbers and randomly putting in info based on what people say you should put it. You put down the actual costs, not "What do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2019, 02:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 707
Posted By blinkandimgone
If you're looking for the value of a car for...

If you're looking for the value of a car for equalization purposes, you would use the dollar value if whatever you could sell it for. Look it up on auto trader, kijiji etc, find a few different ones...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-02-2019, 02:47 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 455
Posted By blinkandimgone
They will enforce ant orders for arrears and...

They will enforce ant orders for arrears and ongoing support.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-31-2018, 09:19 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 884
Posted By blinkandimgone
https://www.scarymommy.com/this-is-9-year-old/?utm...

https://www.scarymommy.com/this-is-9-year-old/?utm_source=FB

All about 9 year olds!
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-29-2018, 03:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 884
Posted By blinkandimgone
If it makes you feel any better...this is normal...

If it makes you feel any better...this is normal behaviour fo4 a kid that age, and for a few years to come. Especially when it comes to electronics, video games etc. Almost every parent I know has...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-29-2018, 03:40 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,450
Posted By blinkandimgone
I assume the reason putting him on notice hasn't...

I assume the reason putting him on notice hasn't worked is because there has been no follow through. It's kind of like parenting, you really can't keep saying there will be consequences and then...
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