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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-22-2019, 03:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 451
Posted By bluewater
tilt, This is the tack I'm taking right now....

tilt,

This is the tack I'm taking right now. My ex refuses to consent to let our son go and refuses to go herself, so I am going to go on my own to see if there are any strategies I can use to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-22-2019, 03:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 451
Posted By bluewater
Selfrepmom, Thanks for your reply! There is...

Selfrepmom,

Thanks for your reply! There is nothing in our order about dispute resolution. I do not have any documentation about his anxiety, but his teacher has mentioned it. We have been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2019, 12:00 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 451
Posted By bluewater
Consent for child to attend therapy

Hello All,

I am trying to get some mental health therapy for my son, aged 6 for anxiety. he seems to have a lot of anxiety about school and going back and forth between his mother and I. I found...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-09-2019, 02:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 318
Posted By bluewater
Janus, Thank you for your response. I may...

Janus,

Thank you for your response. I may be able to sever the two issues, but do I need to seeing as there is a court order stating that the pensions are to be equalized?

She has never put...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-09-2019, 12:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 318
Posted By bluewater
Ex won't sign FSCO forms to move ahead with divorce

Hello All,

My ex and I have a final order on consent (Aug 2016) that lays out our schedule, our son's school and all of the custody arrangements. It also states that our pensions shall be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2018, 11:39 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 751
Posted By bluewater
Tayken, Thank you for the article. That...

Tayken,

Thank you for the article. That did in fact answer my question wrt support!


rockscan,

Yes, she did have independent legal advice, the final order was negotiated using lawyers on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-30-2018, 02:39 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 751
Posted By bluewater
Revisiting this issue after letting it lie for...

Revisiting this issue after letting it lie for much too long. I recently brought up the issue of finalizing the divorce since the X and I have been separated for 3 years and are both living with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-20-2017, 05:43 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,315
Posted By bluewater
Trinton, Right now I favour sucking it up as...

Trinton,

Right now I favour sucking it up as best I can. The drive is a bit of a pain logistically, but well worth it for the extra time. If the lateness and change of plans w/o notice continues...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-20-2017, 05:39 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,315
Posted By bluewater
Tayken, Just to clarify I am 3km from S4's...

Tayken,

Just to clarify I am 3km from S4's school. Mother is about 40km away from this area (30 min drive) and insists on me doing the driving which so far has been fine. As is right now when...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-20-2017, 03:50 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,315
Posted By bluewater
PeacefulMoments, I agree with you entirely,...

PeacefulMoments,

I agree with you entirely, that would be much easier. His mother insisted on this schedule to accomodate her gym routine. I do my best to make things as consistent as possible...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-20-2017, 03:18 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,315
Posted By bluewater
Our Final Order states that we share Section 7...

Our Final Order states that we share Section 7 expenses 60/40, with the exception of child care. It specifies that we each pay for child care on our days if we require it. There is nothing about...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-20-2017, 02:00 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,315
Posted By bluewater
Trinton, There is nothing in the order about...

Trinton,

There is nothing in the order about driving at all or pick-ups/drop offs from school. Just that he is to go to this school. Plus joint custody, 50/50 access.

The problem is that I do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-19-2017, 12:17 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,315
Posted By bluewater
Access driving to and from school

Good Morning All,

More issues with my ex, just wanted some of your opinions on my most recent situation. Those of you who have been kind enough to respond to some of my previous posts will see...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2017, 03:45 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 593
Posted By bluewater
Trinton, Thanks for your prompt reply! ...

Trinton,

Thanks for your prompt reply!

We both had legal representation as well as mediation for for almost a year. I do not think she could argue duress, especially since she is the one who...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2017, 02:35 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 593
Posted By bluewater
Final Order on consent

I have a Final Order on consent from August 2016.

I was just speaking to my lawyer and she seemed to think that a Final Order on consent does NOT require proof of material change of circumstances...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2017, 03:05 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 751
Posted By bluewater
Trinton, -Married 7 years before the...

Trinton,

-Married 7 years before the separation.
-She asked for spousal support in mediation, but was told by her lawyer to not bother so never in a court document.
-We are both teachers, she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2017, 10:00 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 751
Posted By bluewater
Finalizing divorce after Final Order in place

I have a Final Order on consent from Aug 2016 that deals with custody, access, and child support. Shared custody, 50/50 access and school in my area.

I am now wanting to finalize my divorce, and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-30-2017, 04:39 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,207
Posted By bluewater
Tayken, I apologize, I think my intentions...

Tayken,

I apologize, I think my intentions in that post may have been unclear. I have no intention of trying to get primary residence or full custody as I want my son to have a good relationship...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-30-2017, 02:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,207
Posted By bluewater
PeacefulMoments, I see what you mean and...

PeacefulMoments,


I see what you mean and these were issues that I struggled with during the initial settlement discussions. IMO it would be detrimental as he would be removed from his extended...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-30-2017, 01:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,207
Posted By bluewater
Thank you both for your advice, and I'm relieved...

Thank you both for your advice, and I'm relieved to hear it!


With the issue of the short length of time between the order on consent and the present, would it not be easier for her to try change...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-30-2017, 11:42 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,207
Posted By bluewater
Changing a Final Order for child's school

Hello,

First time poster, looks like a ton of great support and advice so thank you all in advance!

I have a final order signed Aug 2016 that gives my ex and I joint custody, 50/50 access on a...
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