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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 02:59 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 114
Posted By Janus
1) There is no official rule regarding how to...

1) There is no official rule regarding how to count for the 40%. The method of counting is not even standardized. Some judges do hours, some judges do overnights. The judges that do hours...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:18 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 573
Posted By Janus
As a heads up, arbitration is more expensive than...

As a heads up, arbitration is more expensive than court. You still need to pay for lawyers, but now you get to pay for a judge too. The benefit to arbitration is not cost, it is speed and privacy....
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 08:13 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 266
Posted By Janus
Swimming lessons are not an extraordinary...

Swimming lessons are not an extraordinary expense. They are extracurricular. Both words start with the same 5 letters but mean something entire entirely different.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-13-2018, 12:38 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 266
Posted By Janus
Two results: A) Father decides to see the...

Two results:

A) Father decides to see the kid more, and starts following the 2255 schedule. That's great for the kid!

B) Father decides not to see the kid, and starts paying child support. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2018, 02:53 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 573
Posted By Janus
1) Who did the laundry? Did you each do your own...

1) Who did the laundry? Did you each do your own laundry? Who did the kid's laundry?
2) Who cleaned the house? Did you take turns cleaning the common areas, and never cleaned the other person's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2018, 09:07 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 573
Posted By Janus
In family law, when you buy something for an ex...

In family law, when you buy something for an ex spouse, that is not considered to be support, that is considered to be a gift. You had control of the money, you decided how it was spent (or not...
Forum: Introductions 10-11-2018, 09:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 200
Posted By Janus
Hopefully your partner has a better reason than...

Hopefully your partner has a better reason than that, because alienation is hard to prove. Something along the lines of "I'm an awesome parent as shown by X, Y and Z so it is in the best interests...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-11-2018, 09:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 573
Posted By Janus
How much child support and spousal support have...

How much child support and spousal support have you been paying during this time?

If the answer is "none at all", then you might want to tread carefully. What is your income? What is her income?...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2018, 11:12 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 101
Posted By Janus
First step though is to get him to list his...

First step though is to get him to list his expenses, then you can start figuring out which ones are legitimate and which ones are not. Some expenses might seem high so you will also be asking for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-11-2018, 09:05 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 173
Posted By Janus
Day parent does not require rooms for the...

Day parent does not require rooms for the children, since they are not sleeping there. Day parent does not require most toiletries, since bedtime and morning routines take place with sleep parent.
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Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2018, 08:53 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 170
Posted By Janus
You agreed to pay. You didn't agree to pay "as...

You agreed to pay. You didn't agree to pay "as long as it doesn't go up by too much, "too much" being defined by me".

General rule of family law: Never offer to pay for anything. You will be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2018, 08:45 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 267
Posted By Janus
If the ex announced on social media that the moon...

If the ex announced on social media that the moon was made of green cheese, would that make it true?
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-07-2018, 10:01 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 392
Posted By Janus
Grandparent's trip during parenting time of...

Grandparent's trip during parenting time of "their" kid: Usually not an issue.
Grandparent's trip during parenting time of "other" kid: Usually a major issue.

...which mostly makes sense. If...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2018, 09:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By Janus
Aside from some fringe circumstances (eg....

Aside from some fringe circumstances (eg. recipient takes money and then pretends that you never gave it to them) a payor would have to be certifiably insane to think that they have anything to gain...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2018, 02:40 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By Janus
Why would it require the recalculation? ...

Why would it require the recalculation?

The order says that you must pay X. FRO will assume that you have to pay X, and will force you to pay X until you go to court.

Also, custody orders...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-07-2018, 02:26 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 337
Posted By Janus
If a parent is paying table CS, then that is...

If a parent is paying table CS, then that is supposed to represent 100% of the money they are obligated to spend on the child (excluding S7 expenses). To put it another way, that is how much they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2018, 05:56 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By Janus
Perhaps I misread, but I thought the issue here...

Perhaps I misread, but I thought the issue here is that he is looking to lower child support? This is not a simple "file with local enforcement agency" issue. His income took a hit when he moved...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2018, 01:22 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By Janus
How does the "West" order say that support is to...

How does the "West" order say that support is to be re-evaluated? What would you be doing on consent?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2018, 01:00 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By Janus
If you have an uncooperative ex, then she needs...

If you have an uncooperative ex, then she needs to be forced to do the things that she does not want to do. That is what courts do: they force people to do things that they do not want to do. Your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2018, 09:22 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 421
Posted By Janus
Nobody silly, it was a statement that should you...

Nobody silly, it was a statement that should you ever decide to look to the courts for assistance in the future, you should watch out for internal inconsistencies in your statements.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2018, 07:05 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 421
Posted By Janus
Karma, we all know it was deliberate. Your...

Karma, we all know it was deliberate. Your initial wording was quite clear to that effect.




SoS thinks your actions were evil or illegal, I think they were ok. We may differ on that, but...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-04-2018, 06:57 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 392
Posted By Janus
That changes things completely. Assuming...

That changes things completely.

Assuming they are not missing school and it is during your time, I cannot think of a reasonable objection the mother could raise. Is there some silly "right of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2018, 11:29 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 185
Posted By Janus
How about instead of paying for an initial...

How about instead of paying for an initial consultation, write up the entire thing yourself, and then hire the lawyer for a final "lookover"?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2018, 11:28 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 421
Posted By Janus
Unless the police suddenly have oodles of time,...

Unless the police suddenly have oodles of time, and unless they can track Karma to a specific individual, and prove that she wrote that message, and prove that she actually opened that letter... I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-03-2018, 11:24 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 392
Posted By Janus
Legally of course you have no options. Unless...

Legally of course you have no options. Unless your agreement has a clause that specifically states "grandparent trips can take place at will on mother's parenting time and she must give consent"...
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