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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:56 AM
Replies: 25
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Posted By arabian
Good points Janus. It is worth noting that...

Good points Janus. It is worth noting that Arbitration differs province to province. My divorce was in Alberta and arbitrator was a judge (paid for by tax payers). Arbitration was turned into...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2018, 11:10 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 573
Posted By arabian
blah blah blah "matrimonial home" - read up...

blah blah blah

"matrimonial home" - read up on that for a start
You are living in the matrimonial home.

Presumably your dear wife, who never paid for anything, by now has amassed a small...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2018, 06:45 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 573
Posted By arabian
Reality my friend. The only thing cold is...

Reality my friend.

The only thing cold is your conniving to cut your wife out of her share of assets. Home had equity in it when you bought it in 2007 (did the price drop?) You both work. You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2018, 12:09 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 573
Posted By arabian
meh..., your married. You have plenty of money...

meh..., your married. You have plenty of money now to divy up between the two of you and to pay for lawyers to set up a divorce.

Your description of your life sounds quite lonely. Many...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2018, 09:03 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By arabian
Perhaps you guys are correct, however, I believe...

Perhaps you guys are correct, however, I believe under the maintenance enforcement actMEP will be obligated to forward the file on to FRO anyhow. If MEP is aware both parties live in ON I'm kind of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-07-2018, 03:53 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 392
Posted By arabian
In intact families if kids go to stay at...

In intact families if kids go to stay at grandparents or go with grandparents on a trip it is considered a good thing. Why would it differ in instance of non-intact families?

I'm not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2018, 03:49 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 421
Posted By arabian
Child support is right of the child and this...

Child support is right of the child and this probably should have been filed for upon separation. There is much legal precedent about this.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2018, 03:47 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By arabian
He may, and should, register with FRO in Ontario...

He may, and should, register with FRO in Ontario (doesn't have to be the recipient, can be either party).

FRO will continue to enforce Order until he gets a new one or they agree on consent and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2018, 07:42 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By arabian
IF they are both living in ON then he files in ON.

IF they are both living in ON then he files in ON.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2018, 04:30 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 485
Posted By arabian
Registration in FRO is not mandatory if one of...

Registration in FRO is not mandatory if one of two parties live in Alberta. I can understand her wanting to stay with MEP as they are years ahead insofar as being online and obtaining instant...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-02-2018, 09:02 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 421
Posted By arabian
Is your husband self-employed? He might be well...

Is your husband self-employed? He might be well within standard guidelines to provide NOAs/tax returns.

If he is, now might be a very good time to assess the lawyer you currently have retained....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2018, 05:18 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 224
Posted By arabian
I receive a deposit every month from MEP Alberta...

I receive a deposit every month from MEP Alberta - garnished CPP & OAS. Believe it. I also receive any tax returns or GST/HST refunds - garnished thanks to the good folks at MEP Alberta.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2018, 11:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 374
Posted By arabian
Baby mother's mother is likely pissed that she is...

Baby mother's mother is likely pissed that she is looking at a future paying/supporting her daughter and granddaughter.

Perhaps the best thing that you could do at this point is to have your son...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2018, 10:51 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 157
Posted By arabian
Lawnmower parents

Just spotted this article:

http://www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/2018/09/18/lawn-mower-parents-are-new-helicopter-moms.html

So I guess we now refer to them as "lawnmower parents"

Times they are a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2018, 10:18 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 344
Posted By arabian
probably good to provide specific dates...

probably good to provide specific dates (timeline) for readers on here

confusing.. for example, you lived common law for 7 or 4 years?
When did you purchase the home?
Whose name was the mortgage...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 09:29 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,993
Posted By arabian
you have fought hard for 3 years now/ I...

you have fought hard for 3 years now/

I believe your ex capitalized on the domestic violence charge and made her move immediately.

I wouldn't give the lawyer another dime. Your kids are at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 09:18 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,993
Posted By arabian
yep they really like that home equity... they can...

yep they really like that home equity... they can lien the money in the trust fund is why.

Business is business. No pay no work.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 07:10 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,993
Posted By arabian
I don't understand why your lawyer was not on top...

I don't understand why your lawyer was not on top of this? If something was not filed by the other party in time your lawyer should have known that at the deadline date or shortly thereafter. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2018, 06:46 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,117
Posted By arabian
Sorry to hear about your situation. Regroup...

Sorry to hear about your situation.

Regroup and put "Plan B" into action.

Try to see your kids, even if just for an hour or so. When you do see them talk about exciting times ahead. If you...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-16-2018, 08:32 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 622
Posted By arabian
^great... he's racking up your legal bill. ...

^great... he's racking up your legal bill. That's something i endured for years when my ex was either not represented by counsel or represented by an incompetent lawyer.

If you are getting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 08:15 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 336
Posted By arabian
There is a "divorce support" section of this...

There is a "divorce support" section of this forum.

Reality of posting on a forum is that all anyone can do is offer opinion on what you post. It goes without saying that we don't know all the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2018, 10:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 141
Posted By arabian
Be careful. you are walking a fine line of...

Be careful. you are walking a fine line of appearing to be 'stalkerish' and this may be used against you if it was you who took the photographs.

Review everything. What you want to do is simply...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2018, 10:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 336
Posted By arabian
People 55 and 59 do meet other people and have...

People 55 and 59 do meet other people and have relationships. You are far from being at the end of your respective lives.

Very naive and short-sighted to not go through proper equalization...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2018, 11:48 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 184
Posted By arabian
yes Lawyers want to make sure they are paid....

yes

Lawyers want to make sure they are paid. Keep this in mind, particularly if you have large amount of equity in your home....lawyers will certainly help you spend it. Lawyers love it when...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 10:56 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 622
Posted By arabian
Sorry to hear of your nightmare. I have a...

Sorry to hear of your nightmare. I have a litigation-happy ex who takes me to court (thanks to the g/f who fills out all that paperwork because he is much too lazy to do it) every year just like...
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