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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-16-2018, 09:43 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 717
Posted By Beachnana
Well technically there are not 2 Saturdays in a...

Well technically there are not 2 Saturdays in a week. If the order specified Noon on pick up day to noon on drop off day. But the order states 4 weeks which is 28 days. So I guess midnight on day...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-16-2018, 04:40 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 717
Posted By Beachnana
8 days a week!

Situation agreement states that access shall be 4 weeks. No mention of hours or definition of a week.

So 1 week is 7 days therefore 4 weeks equals 28 days.

If pickup of child is on the 1 July...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-30-2018, 01:39 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 705
Posted By Beachnana
Fro has its own lawyers. Once you have an order...

Fro has its own lawyers. Once you have an order registered with FRO they will enforce it.
But they have procedures and threashold
$3000 in arrears will initiate the enforcement process
...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-14-2018, 01:43 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 462
Posted By Beachnana
If the fees are specifically for you to get CS or...

If the fees are specifically for you to get CS or section 7 paid then itís allowable. If itís to get your amount changed then itís not
CRA told me only a recipient of CS can claim
Forum: Divorce Support 02-15-2018, 06:09 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,406
Posted By Beachnana
I think itís a common tactic. Throw some mud to...

I think itís a common tactic. Throw some mud to detract from the real issue.

My daughters ex did this. He had been under reporting his income and had refused to pay daycare proportionate to...
Forum: General Chat 02-03-2018, 04:20 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,072
Posted By Beachnana
Deal with the picky eaters. Have everyone...

Deal with the picky eaters.

Have everyone assist in planning the meals. Everyone takes something from all the meal parts. Donít eat the. You can wait for the
Next meal.

Stop enabling picky...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2018, 05:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 431
Posted By Beachnana
You need to deal with the secret move now. If...

You need to deal with the secret move now. If your order states the children shall reside in a certain school district then thatís where they reside. The other parent can live in Timbuktu. But the...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-19-2017, 02:54 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 695
Posted By Beachnana
How did you let it get to this level of...

How did you let it get to this level of enforcement. It takes at least 3 months for FRO to secure an order of garnishment. They have to contact you and then give you a full 30 days to respond for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-15-2017, 10:22 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
Thank you. Good advice which I have decided to...

Thank you. Good advice which I have decided to take
I bid you all farewell and good Luck to you all.

This site has given me lots of support, some harsh reality and some useful information.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-14-2017, 01:17 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
Tayken believe me we have made that suggestion....

Tayken believe me we have made that suggestion. But the damage was done with the first Nasty demanding email the ex sent at start of the conversation.
His email started with a threat and then went...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2017, 06:49 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 427
Posted By Beachnana
If you are already using FRO one of the parties...

If you are already using FRO one of the parties needs to complete a Motion Of Consent and they Sign it And the other party signs it. Then take it to the court house and get the judges signature etc....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-30-2017, 09:25 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 531
Posted By Beachnana
Have you checked at the courthouse that they have...

Have you checked at the courthouse that they have not filed a response and mailed your copy.

My daughters ex did that. His lawyer filed the response at court and apparently mailed a copy to her,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-23-2017, 01:21 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
Janus there is a lot of truth in what you say. ...

Janus there is a lot of truth in what you say. Both parties are so intent in their hate for each other they are both unable to deal civil on any occasion.

We had wanted an order which spelt out...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2017, 11:50 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
I should also say that there has not been one...

I should also say that there has not been one visit arranged that Dad has not,attempted to change the agreement to suit his needs.

This summer even though it was not his year to have first choice...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2017, 11:45 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
I suggested a drop off at the airport on Dec 22...

I suggested a drop off at the airport on Dec 22 1hour prior to flight. This has been the,previous practice on all visits.
Then return on the evening of the 30 th and pick up from the airport again...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2017, 11:23 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
So in the past itís been the 8 days each starting...

So in the past itís been the 8 days each starting on the first Sat of the Christmas holidays and counting 8 days then transitioning on the evening of the evening of the the 8 day.

This year the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2017, 09:24 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
She did and he then called to speak with the...

She did and he then called to speak with the child (age 6) and preceded to tellhim he was going to come and get him for Christmas directly from school at which point the child looked at Mom and asked...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2017, 08:28 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
Not the situation. Dad lives 1000 k away and has...

Not the situation. Dad lives 1000 k away and has access on a schedule. No weekends
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-21-2017, 11:30 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,664
Posted By Beachnana
Interpreting Christmas

Order states Christmas vacation shall be shared equally

Last day of school is Dec 22. First day back is Jan 8.
So Christmas holidays are 23Dec to January 7. 16 days so 8 days each.

Dad is now...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-05-2017, 11:56 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 352
Posted By Beachnana
Send her a traceab,e $1000 per kid on January 1....

Send her a traceab,e $1000 per kid on January 1. A cheque or a money order. Then if she wants more than a $1000 per annual she will need to give you proof -receipts etc to show she has paid it.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-05-2017, 09:58 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 352
Posted By Beachnana
I think only the recipient can register with MEP....

I think only the recipient can register with MEP. Why not just give her the $1000 on January 1 and thatís it for the year.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2017, 09:47 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,804
Posted By Beachnana
Perhaps this thread needs to get back on track. ...

Perhaps this thread needs to get back on track.

I believe somewhere down the line Trinton had asked whether he was wrong to claim that he was more entitled to look after his child while Mom is at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-27-2017, 09:49 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 427
Posted By Beachnana
He is going to be 6 this year. Santa often needs...

He is going to be 6 this year. Santa often needs to come any time during December. Always has done.

We have always pushed ď seasonal time of yearĒ. ď the magical time of yearĒ. Not focusing on ď...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-26-2017, 03:29 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 427
Posted By Beachnana
When I was a child I remember sitting in a car...

When I was a child I remember sitting in a car for hours on Christmas Eve and then again on Christmas Day travelling from my dads parents to my Moms parents so we could have equal time with each...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-26-2017, 09:00 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 427
Posted By Beachnana
Christmas is such an emotional time. Itís also a...

Christmas is such an emotional time. Itís also a 2 week school holiday so just split 50/50, alternating each year. So this year December 23- 30 for one parent and Dec 31-Jan 7 for the othermparent. ...
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