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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2012, 08:42 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 5,222
Posted By John_Ottawa
That's been the hardest part... She moved 85 km...

That's been the hardest part... She moved 85 km away so didn't even give me the chance of a 50/50 option with my kids. Wrong, but i have to be thankful that i do get to see them 3 times a month fri...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2012, 04:33 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 5,222
Posted By John_Ottawa
Actually she doesn't live in Ottawa and rent and...

Actually she doesn't live in Ottawa and rent and utilities aren't much at all. She'll also be receiving tax credits for the kids so don't kid yourself she's not hurting any. Yes she is getting money...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2012, 04:16 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 5,222
Posted By John_Ottawa
Ex won't work and simply wants to live off me

I'm paying my ex 1100 in CS and 750 in SS. Married 13.5 years i worked full time she did work from home teaching online but never really earned a salary. I tried to get her to get a real job...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-05-2012, 11:39 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,298
Posted By John_Ottawa
I love my kids and I tried to fight to keep...

I love my kids and I tried to fight to keep them.. as a father i don't have a right to my kids 50-50.. she just moved far enoguh away for that to not work. I do see them each weekend so perhaps i won...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-05-2012, 10:51 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,298
Posted By John_Ottawa
I missed a few of these replies but I've since...

I missed a few of these replies but I've since added to my SA a few clauses to try to make this issue go away at some point. Firstly, the calculation that was first provided they were looking for...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-02-2012, 11:16 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,553
Posted By John_Ottawa
That's my issue.. i'd love to get her off the...

That's my issue.. i'd love to get her off the title and mortgage but to be reapproved i don't qualify as they use the CS and SS payment as if it was the same as any other debt payment.

I have a...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-02-2012, 10:58 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,553
Posted By John_Ottawa
Initially i was planning on leaving the existing...

Initially i was planning on leaving the existing mortgage in place as it's at 2.25% for another 4 years, simply have her name removed and take out a 2nd loan for an additional 25k to pay her out....
Forum: Financial Issues 10-02-2012, 09:05 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,553
Posted By John_Ottawa
In my example I make 75k a year and ended up...

In my example I make 75k a year and ended up paying my ex 1100 in CS and 750 in SS. Yes 1850 so those paying less consider yourselves lucky!! They were initially looking for 925-1250 SS ontop of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2012, 03:33 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,553
Posted By John_Ottawa
Even on a good salary and no debt the numbers...

Even on a good salary and no debt the numbers make it impossible to get a mortgage as the ratio calcuation is too high. I've been paying for almost 18 months but apparently i can't afford it and...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2012, 01:42 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,553
Posted By John_Ottawa
Mortgage Qualification Woes!

My ex has agreed to a lower payout so i can continue to keep the family home. However, I have to now re-qualify for the mortgage on my lower income after CS and SS. Fine that all makes sense although...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-17-2012, 02:34 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,298
Posted By John_Ottawa
I hear you but I'm being told right now that...

I hear you but I'm being told right now that asking for a review won't get me very far based on everything which has been discussed to date.

We'll be asking for spousal support to end in Jan 2018...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-17-2012, 02:06 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,298
Posted By John_Ottawa
She is unemployed and doing nothing at all to...

She is unemployed and doing nothing at all to look for work or to further her education.

She has a university degree and is computer literate. She worked from home teaching online courses and...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-17-2012, 01:51 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,298
Posted By John_Ottawa
Enforce Spousal Support Self-sufficiency

I'm in the final stages of completing a final seperation agreement with my ex. We were married for 13.5 years and have 2 children together. I fought for full custody but after hitting so many brick...
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