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Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 04:49 PM
Replies: 4
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Posted By rockscan
From what I have read, expenses for running a...

From what I have read, expenses for running a business or owning a rental property are not as easily deducted for child support as they are for income tax.

Borrowing money to invest it is not a...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 01:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 110
Posted By rockscan
Line 150 is right. Unless your investment income...

Line 150 is right. Unless your investment income is one off and paid out due to job loss or taking it out for legal bills, its considered income.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 05:31 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 496
Posted By rockscan
BUT...what if it was simply an agreement not an...

BUT...what if it was simply an agreement not an order and that agreement has details in there about increased access upon agreement?

Number one is met because the needs and means have changed....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 04:27 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 496
Posted By rockscan
You want mom to admit it though...thats why. If...

You want mom to admit it though...thats why. If she makes it an issue it will make her look bad.

You have a material change in the sense that the child is somewhat self sufficient—can feed, bathe...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 03:30 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 496
Posted By rockscan
Well since the child has aged out of the original...

Well since the child has aged out of the original issues that could be considered a material change in circumstances. In which case, file a motion for additional time. The mother is never going to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 02:38 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 496
Posted By rockscan
Do you have an agreement outlining parenting...

Do you have an agreement outlining parenting time?

If yes, are you currently receiving said parenting time in the agreement?

If yes, has there been a material change in circumstances that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-23-2019, 07:08 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 139
Posted By rockscan
Unenforceable. His time his decisions. ...

Unenforceable. His time his decisions.

Daycare is section 7 if necessary for work.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2019, 10:00 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 139
Posted By rockscan
First, his partner is not a party to your...

First, his partner is not a party to your agreement and you can remind him of that. Ignore anything from her.

Second, if your agreement outlines the days then you follow the agreement and tell him...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-22-2019, 07:40 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 252
Posted By rockscan
Its 35 thousand a year. I lived on that and paid...

Its 35 thousand a year. I lived on that and paid rent, car lease, food, gas and student loans. In fact, I lived on 25 thousand a year and paid that.

Remember too that people get imputed less and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 08:57 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 268
Posted By rockscan
Probably because they realized they are fucked...

Probably because they realized they are fucked and are going to either wait to speak to OCL and put together an offer.

If she knows you have this info and isn’t going to break up with the bf, she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 08:44 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 252
Posted By rockscan
I will send you something. Its pretty...

I will send you something. Its pretty standard...hold x dollars in insurance, designate the children as beneficiaries, not borrow against the policy, set out in the will that the estate is to pay out...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 08:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 268
Posted By rockscan
You got thoughts. You have a lawyer. You are...

You got thoughts. You have a lawyer. You are doing the process properly. Have patience as the OCL process takes some time and only completes when all interviews are done.

There is nothing else you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 08:07 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 268
Posted By rockscan
Unless they were provided to you by court order,...

Unless they were provided to you by court order, you have breached his privacy and all of them could be thrown out.

Be smart. You had an agreed upon custody situation that was not in an order....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 04:54 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 268
Posted By rockscan
You said mom has lied and had her there. Call CAS...

You said mom has lied and had her there. Call CAS and advise that your child has been in the home. They will file a report when needed.

If the crux of your argument is that the living situation is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 03:52 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 268
Posted By rockscan
Have you called CAS? If not then do so. A report...

Have you called CAS? If not then do so. A report from them will provide you some backing.

In your response I would request supervised access at a specific location.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 03:10 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 252
Posted By rockscan
They are getting into the weeds. That’s where the...

They are getting into the weeds. That’s where the “the mother will make day to day decisions for the children” clause comes into play.

That clause is completely unreasonable. He lives out of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 10:56 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 252
Posted By rockscan
You are never going to settle on a college clause...

You are never going to settle on a college clause that is enforceable because you don’t know how much it will be or what the circumstances are.

I would simply put in there that 1/3 will go to the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 10:47 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 363
Posted By rockscan
I would take all that stuff out of the boxes and...

I would take all that stuff out of the boxes and hide it.

My husbands ex made him give back everything anyone in her family gave him claiming they were all on loan. She also changed the locks and...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-21-2019, 09:09 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 252
Posted By rockscan
Ya he’s not a student. He’s a full time employee....

Ya he’s not a student. He’s a full time employee. CS is not applicable. If his mom is worried about expenses she can charge him rent.

Your friend needs to simply tell her he is not in school full...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-21-2019, 08:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 252
Posted By rockscan
All of the case law I read said that cs is not...

All of the case law I read said that cs is not ordered for a child who is earning money and can contribute to their living expenses. Its ordered for summer as they are working to contribute to their...
Forum: General Chat 08-20-2019, 10:45 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 496
Posted By rockscan
Remember its an offer. Just because he says it...

Remember its an offer. Just because he says it doesn’t mean it will happen. You could have offered no access, more money and all decisions on you. The point of an offer is to insulate you against...
Forum: General Chat 08-19-2019, 03:18 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 496
Posted By rockscan
More than likely its sadness from the end of the...

More than likely its sadness from the end of the entire thing and your adrenaline through it all.

You did good. Get some rest and find something positive to focus your energy on. In a week or so...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 09:01 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 232
Posted By rockscan
Than would it be safe to put in the case...

Than would it be safe to put in the case conference brief:

When the agreement was signed, the Respondent’s income was $xx,xxx which resulted in an equal split of section 7 expenses. Since that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 07:37 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 232
Posted By rockscan
I think the incomes were the same when they split...

I think the incomes were the same when they split but since then (16 years) ex has made more. Friend was ok with 50/50 but ex wants all the RESP funds that they both paid into (friend paid 4x more)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 01:50 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 232
Posted By rockscan
Self employed income reporting

Question for a friend...

Ex is a non-medical “doctor” who owns their own clinic in addition to rental property resulting in an income. The gross income of this person could be in the $90,000 to...
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