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Forum: General Chat 09-13-2019, 07:46 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 627
Posted By Selfrepmom
I would say once it is clearly defined that you...

I would say once it is clearly defined that you are an item to slowly get into some details where necessary.

Just donít make the mistake I did and not say anything. I was in an abusive...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 07:07 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 332
Posted By Selfrepmom
To answer your original question: It ramped...

To answer your original question:

It ramped up conflict for me big time. But Iíll take some short term conflict over long term peace of mind any day.

For the Fall expenses.... I would go after...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 03:12 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 398
Posted By Selfrepmom
I understand that especially in cases where...

I understand that especially in cases where someone is asking for arrears based on failure to update that it could get confusing on how far to go back, when updates were asked for etc.
Iím hoping...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 03:06 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 398
Posted By Selfrepmom
Yes she said arrears usually take more time...

Yes she said arrears usually take more time because the judge likes to look back and see why it wasnít paid to begin with, when the recipient began asking for payment, etc etc.
She said still ask...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 02:53 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 398
Posted By Selfrepmom
Update: Forked over $300 and spoke to a...

Update:

Forked over $300 and spoke to a lawyer to make sure I am on the right path.

After looking over my material she had no issue supporting my original thoughts to ask for an order to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 09:16 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 719
Posted By Selfrepmom
Except she didnít ďlooseĒ sole custody....

Except she didnít ďlooseĒ sole custody. Tunnelight has been going off in this forum for ages, talking like he went all the way to trial and a judge ordered custody stripped from mom and he ďwonĒ.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 07:09 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 719
Posted By Selfrepmom
Hey guys I think we found tunnelightís newest...

Hey guys I think we found tunnelightís newest account!
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 02:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 393
Posted By Selfrepmom
No pretending here. This had zero malicious...

No pretending here. This had zero malicious intent.

Because her dad for some reason refuses to keep some belongings for our daughter at his house, I quite often end up with duplicates of things...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 01:27 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 393
Posted By Selfrepmom
No, I donít think so. At least I hope not. He...

No, I donít think so. At least I hope not. He wasnít like that to me when we were together, which is part of the reason I got with him. My relationship previous to him was very abusive-verbally,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 12:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 393
Posted By Selfrepmom
I think thatís the point heís trying to make. ...

I think thatís the point heís trying to make.

ďOh look at me buying my daughter things. This backpack makes up for the hundreds of dollars I am shorting her every monthĒ

The other great one...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2019, 12:18 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 472
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ew ya I would say the 4 way between you guys and...

Ew ya I would say the 4 way between you guys and your partners is wildly inappropriate in the middle of litigation. Tell him to hit the road.

The only time that would be appropriate would be once...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 393
Posted By Selfrepmom
Dealing With A Nutbar

Good olí back to school drama. This literally is going to sound too ridiculous to be true, but I promise you it is.

Ex bought a backpack for our child a few weeks ago. Ok, cool, thanks for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-30-2019, 08:37 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 398
Posted By Selfrepmom
Well jeez arenít we a bright ray of sunshine...

Well jeez arenít we a bright ray of sunshine today?

For the record:

1. I would LOVE to have a lawyer. Unfortunately I canít afford one, not even a little bit. I am putting myself through school...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2019, 09:14 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 398
Posted By Selfrepmom
I feel like because it is such a small town the...

I feel like because it is such a small town the court clerks/trial coordinators just have never seen or heard of a situation where a summary judgement is used for CS. Pair that with the fact that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2019, 03:54 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 398
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ya after talking to the trial coordinator I went...

Ya after talking to the trial coordinator I went back into FLICís office.... the lady who works the desk there has always been very nice and helpful. I explained the run around that the trial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2019, 03:26 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 398
Posted By Selfrepmom
Well Now Iím Confused

Went to the courthouse today to get my affidavit sworn to and book a motion date for a summary judgement.

First I went into the office where they file the applications etc to do my affidavit,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-26-2019, 10:56 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 207
Posted By Selfrepmom
Yes it took quite a while for me. You need to get...

Yes it took quite a while for me. You need to get a verification email (I think?). Tell them to check their junk mail too.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 07:15 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 510
Posted By Selfrepmom
Iíd be thinking these 3 days are an amazing...

Iíd be thinking these 3 days are an amazing opportunity to get your ducks in a row. Put the big girl pants on and take care of business
Forum: General Chat 08-20-2019, 04:52 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 586
Posted By Selfrepmom
Then reword it so it makes more sense to you, and...

Then reword it so it makes more sense to you, and include it in your next offer.

In your exís/his lawyerís eyes though, it probably already does make sense. Iím guessing the clause says...
Forum: General Chat 08-20-2019, 03:59 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 586
Posted By Selfrepmom
This one actually doesnít seem unreasonable.......

This one actually doesnít seem unreasonable.... My interpretation of it is that he knows that you have sole custody (and sole decision making powers) and wants to be able to make **emergency**...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2019, 06:53 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 694
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ya I actually just read that somewhere else too.

Ya I actually just read that somewhere else too.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 09:25 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 694
Posted By Selfrepmom
Oh and for further reference tunnelight: my...

Oh and for further reference tunnelight: my current partner pays over $800/month in CS. He got fucked HARD by his ex with access for the first two years after their separation. You know how he got...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 09:00 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 694
Posted By Selfrepmom
Thanks Arabian...My favourite case law so far is...

Thanks Arabian...My favourite case law so far is this one...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 08:01 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,442
Posted By Selfrepmom
Tunnelightís advice summarized: 1) Try to...

Tunnelightís advice summarized:

1) Try to change a 7 year status quo without any material change in circumstance, for the sole reason of trying to pay less support

2) Find yourself a new...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 03:20 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 855
Posted By Selfrepmom
What?!? Iím so confused now. Arabian wasnít the...

What?!? Iím so confused now. Arabian wasnít the first one to say this, she is not ďfeeding this into the OPís headĒ

That quote was literally the OPís own quote. You were the one who left out part...
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