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Forum: General Chat 01-08-2018, 05:31 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 330
Posted By billm
Finally divorced after 10 years!

I separated in August 2007

I joined this forum in September 2008, posted thousands of times, but have not been here for years. Thought I'd post what is likely the conclusion.

3 Kids, 50/50. I...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2014, 01:58 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 478
Posted By billm
Anyone have advice on this?

Anyone have advice on this?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2014, 01:33 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 478
Posted By billm
Sharing health benefits insurance costs after employer contribution

Need to know what is normal for sharing health insurance costs.

My kids are covered by my ex's health and dental insurance plans.

We want to share in the cost of this.

I know the family vs...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-04-2014, 01:09 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,274
Posted By billm
To the OP. You seem like you are capable of...

To the OP.

You seem like you are capable of understanding the numbers (being a book keeper and all). Determine a lump sum and end the marriage and the connection. If you fight, the lawyers will...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-02-2014, 11:12 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,258
Posted By billm
One line of reasoning, though it may not be the...

One line of reasoning, though it may not be the best to use as it may be irrelevant.

She has no income from a job. Her husband is supporting her. She is a package deal - he can't support her and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-26-2014, 11:23 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,667
Posted By billm
Moon, Are you saying she is getting paid...

Moon,

Are you saying she is getting paid more under the table, or just that she could work elsewhere and make more?

I think imputing income to what they could make, when they are full time...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-17-2014, 10:59 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,057
Posted By billm
She needs reasonable proof of her stocks and...

She needs reasonable proof of her stocks and their value at time of marriage and now.
Forum: Introductions 05-21-2014, 10:51 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,566
Posted By billm
If you ever want 50/50 access for your kids, then...

If you ever want 50/50 access for your kids, then you have to start today. If you just want them every other weekend and maybe a weekday, then that is easy to get at any time.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-20-2014, 12:40 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,458
Posted By billm
Were the RESP values at the time of separation...

Were the RESP values at the time of separation part of equalization, or were they simply not mentioned?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-20-2014, 12:29 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 294
Posted By billm
How are they paying for living expenses?

How are they paying for living expenses?
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-20-2014, 11:22 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 723
Posted By billm
Why don't you ask her to text you when she is in...

Why don't you ask her to text you when she is in the car and leaving?

Then you can use google maps with their traffic predictor to estimate the eta.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-19-2014, 10:31 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 574
Posted By billm
The increase of the retirement account is split...

The increase of the retirement account is split though, you subtract the value at time of marriage.

All debt before separation is joint debt. That's marriage.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-16-2014, 06:41 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,447
Posted By billm
I want to fill in the divorce order for my motion...

I want to fill in the divorce order for my motion to order a divorce separate from the issues. There is an active case, but there is a temporary order for CS. We have been separated 7 years with no...
Forum: Introductions 05-15-2014, 02:06 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,968
Posted By billm
You DEFINITELY wont get less access than every...

You DEFINITELY wont get less access than every other weekend and Wednesdays.
Forum: Introductions 05-15-2014, 01:29 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,968
Posted By billm
Fair enough, but if you continue on your path -...

Fair enough, but if you continue on your path - you will not raise your own kids. That is not good for them, especially considering their hysterical other parent.

Some pain now, for gain later...
Forum: Introductions 05-15-2014, 01:22 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,968
Posted By billm
Document all that. And start recording your...

Document all that. And start recording your interactions with her.

I personally like the idea of you paying offset - and being very very clear that 50/50 is the access schedule you are assuming...
Forum: Introductions 05-15-2014, 12:18 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,968
Posted By billm
Look, you have done NOTHING wrong. Your ex...

Look, you have done NOTHING wrong.

Your ex is using the kids for money and abusing them and you by restricting access.

Yes, in hind sight you should have gone to court right away.

You can...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-13-2014, 04:05 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,127
Posted By billm
Mental or physical disability? Physical -...

Mental or physical disability?

Physical - she should have filed charges and left him then
Mental - she should have left him then
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-13-2014, 04:01 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 974
Posted By billm
Stop caring about things that don't matter and...

Stop caring about things that don't matter and get divorced.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-13-2014, 10:52 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 700
Posted By billm
He should be getting information from the school...

He should be getting information from the school anyway, not his ex.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2014, 10:39 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,447
Posted By billm
I don't want spousal

I don't want spousal
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2014, 02:28 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,447
Posted By billm
I have not heard the 'basket' term. By chance...

I have not heard the 'basket' term. By chance does B stands for Basket in 14B?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2014, 12:48 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,447
Posted By billm
If I am filing a motion for divorce severed from...

If I am filing a motion for divorce severed from the corollary issues and it is not on consent, can I use the 14B form? It says I can use form 14B if "You are requesting the court to make an order...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2014, 12:09 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,447
Posted By billm
Peace of mind, peace of mind.

Peace of mind, peace of mind.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2014, 11:11 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,447
Posted By billm
Get divorced while there is an active court case

Okay,

I give up. I'll never get an agreement signed by my ex.

It's been 7 years since separation, all assets are split, kids are 50/50 and CS has been paid all along. There is a court order...
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