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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 11:36 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 140
Posted By Janus
Is any support being paid? It could be...

Is any support being paid?

It could be reasonably argued that your ex agreed to the housing in return for support considerations.

And rockscan's point is also important. Do you have any other...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:57 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 193
Posted By Janus
But OP is looking to rescind the original offer.

But OP is looking to rescind the original offer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:56 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 193
Posted By Janus
What does his misconduct have anything to do with...

What does his misconduct have anything to do with it?

You made an offer to settle. Presumably you were willing to accept that settlement. Why are you no longer willing to accept what you were...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:08 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 140
Posted By Janus
Do you plan on hiring a lawyer?

Do you plan on hiring a lawyer?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:06 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 193
Posted By Janus
To recap: 1) You are weary of the long...

To recap:


1) You are weary of the long fight
2) You have made offers to settle
3) You are currently concerned that one of your offers to settle might be accepted
4)...
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 08:22 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 725
Posted By Janus
That's my thought, but it is hard to be objective...

That's my thought, but it is hard to be objective because I'm reasonably geeky myself so even though I'm not familiar with most of the fanexpo stuff, I still find it interesting. I don't want to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 08:20 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 193
Posted By Janus
"I'll give you $3 for that chocolate bar." ...

"I'll give you $3 for that chocolate bar."


"Sure thing!"


"Woah, you agreed to that deal, just kidding, I lied. I'll give you $2 for that chocolate bar"


"Fine"
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2019, 01:36 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 635
Posted By Janus
Crap, I was going to retire with my earnings as a...

Crap, I was going to retire with my earnings as a forum influencer here. Guess I need to stick with my day job.

The Dream is over.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2019, 01:27 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 401
Posted By Janus
Sure but my children know not... ...

Sure but my children know not...



...errr, well. But it's true! I mean, they might complain, but at mom's house mom makes the rules. At my house I make the rules. At school the teacher...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 06:31 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 401
Posted By Janus
I thought we were talking about wifi, how did...

I thought we were talking about wifi, how did this segue into cats and dogs?



I've talked to a lot of kids. Many would love to have a missing parent back in their lives.



Again, where...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-12-2019, 06:24 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 253
Posted By Janus
Parents get to decide who is involved in the...

Parents get to decide who is involved in the lives of their children. Your ex has decided that stepmom is going to be involved in the lives of your children. He has the right to make that decision....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 05:08 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 635
Posted By Janus
You must be incredibly unlucky. I can't believe...

You must be incredibly unlucky. I can't believe that every time you make plans, your son overhears you on the phone and then relays the message to mom, who then sabotages your escapades.

Every. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 05:01 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 401
Posted By Janus
I don't think I had any thoughts? I was just...

I don't think I had any thoughts? I was just warning you that many people come here talking about how their lawyer says everything is going to be a slam dunk. Lawyers sometimes lie.



Judges...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-12-2019, 02:26 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 991
Posted By Janus
If only there was a way you could have known...

If only there was a way you could have known before you had kids with him...



I mean... umm...
Forum: General Chat 09-12-2019, 02:24 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 725
Posted By Janus
It just happened a few weeks ago.. alas. ...

It just happened a few weeks ago.. alas.

Also, I had the kids this year, couldn't go anyway. I desperately would love for them to love it, but I'm not sure if they are geeky enough. A clear...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2019, 02:22 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 401
Posted By Janus
What happens when he connects to dad's wifi? ...

What happens when he connects to dad's wifi?



Why on earth is he calling you during dad's parenting time to complain about dad? What did you say to him?

Kid has to learn to deal with dad. ...
Forum: General Chat 09-12-2019, 02:17 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 725
Posted By Janus
Heh. My first year post divorce, I wanted to...

Heh.

My first year post divorce, I wanted to go to fan expo and had nobody to go with, and I got all depressed about it.

I'm not even a major comic fan at all. I just used to go most years...
Forum: General Chat 09-12-2019, 02:13 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 725
Posted By Janus
Usually by that point they have seen me as a...

Usually by that point they have seen me as a person and as a parent. The antics of a third party over whom I have no control tend not to matter as much by that point. I haven't been in that many...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 11:52 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 832
Posted By Janus
I'm aware of the situation. I was just saying...

I'm aware of the situation. I was just saying that your later posts always had the feel of "Dad was always second in line, what are you guys talking about?".

"Always" however was a time frame...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 11:48 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 832
Posted By Janus
I knew you might appreciate the reference :) ...

I knew you might appreciate the reference :)

And yes, your quoted line does seem to sum up family law!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 09:08 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 832
Posted By Janus
The problem here is that the story changed...

The problem here is that the story changed mid-thread:


Beginning:





Later:
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 08:43 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 635
Posted By Janus
Just assume that the NCP will not be using their...

Just assume that the NCP will not be using their parenting time and plan accordingly. If they happen to actually pick up the kid, enjoy a good Netflix marathon or get caught up on chores.


Your...
Forum: General Chat 09-11-2019, 08:28 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 725
Posted By Janus
If I am dating somebody they generally just know...

If I am dating somebody they generally just know that I am divorced and that I share custody.


Inevitably, if they are with me long enough they get to witness first hand how my ex is an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2019, 01:33 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 635
Posted By Janus
Welcome to being a parent. You figure something...

Welcome to being a parent. You figure something out. Maybe you pay for babysitting, or you pay for somebody to pick kid up, or you get a friend to help out, or you don't go to work.

If this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2019, 08:42 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 832
Posted By Janus
...and your plan is to put him third instead...

...and your plan is to put him third instead after your mom. Clearly you are one of those people who desperately desire unnecessary drama. Instead of a complete non-issue, you are going to have a...
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