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Forum: Financial Issues 08-18-2013, 09:45 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 3,057
Posted By momof4
Add to that, if he is claiming zero income, his...

Add to that, if he is claiming zero income, his wage will be imputed based on previous income and child support will be based on that amount.

EdmDad, my ex was the master at adjournments and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-10-2013, 08:58 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 7,864
Posted By momof4
Exactly what I do! I have my kids every other...

Exactly what I do! I have my kids every other week too (going on five years). I also call it 'my week' because I can focus on me when my kids are at their dads. Yes I have to make myself accept...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-19-2013, 11:00 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,681
Posted By momof4
Excellent suggestion SadAndTired. I have done far...

Excellent suggestion SadAndTired. I have done far more than that actually. Last May we discussed our daughters school-associated (this is what she said it was from) stress and I brought her to her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-19-2013, 07:36 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,681
Posted By momof4
We don't have OCL here in Alberta (we are like 20...

We don't have OCL here in Alberta (we are like 20 years behind Ontario when it comes to supporting children). I talked to both a lawyer and my daughters physician today. Her physician can refer her,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-17-2013, 01:30 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,681
Posted By momof4
Alberta and we don't have anything like that...

Alberta and we don't have anything like that here, that I know of. I have contacted legal aid and they said a lawyer has to be court appointed to a child, I can't just obtain one for her (even though...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-17-2013, 11:35 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,681
Posted By momof4
I am new to this forum, what does OCL mean...

I am new to this forum, what does OCL mean HappyDays?
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-17-2013, 10:55 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,681
Posted By momof4
Thank you for the articles Tayken and this is...

Thank you for the articles Tayken and this is very much my concern as well. One of the articles states:


I would very much like this approach, as the counselor truly needs to see both parents...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2013, 09:15 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,681
Posted By momof4
I was planning on taking all of your advice,...

I was planning on taking all of your advice, approaching the school counsellor as well as meeting with my daughters doctor. However both Monday and Wednesday evening my daughter called, extremely...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-13-2013, 07:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,988
Posted By momof4
Serving your ex or his/her lawyer is fine as long...

Serving your ex or his/her lawyer is fine as long as you do not feel threatened. I have been having a friend serve my ex but it certainly isn't necessary. Whoever serves your ex will have to swear an...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2013, 01:51 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,620
Posted By momof4
I am in Alberta and there are absolutely no...

I am in Alberta and there are absolutely no options for renting anywhere near her school. Not only are there no vacancies, rental costs are prohibitive even if I could find one. My options are living...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2013, 01:28 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,221
Posted By momof4
I have had eight years of experience with this....

I have had eight years of experience with this. My children were 14, 12, 6 and 3 when we separated and we didn't have Skype, it was simple phone calls. However, it was the same situation as you are...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2013, 01:11 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,620
Posted By momof4
Thank you so much for your thoughts and the case...

Thank you so much for your thoughts and the case law links Tayken. I was talking to Arabian last night and she too recommended I search case law on this and you have made that so much easier :-)
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2013, 12:16 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,969
Posted By momof4
That is my thought as well Oink. Thus the reason...

That is my thought as well Oink. Thus the reason for my request (thread: Counselling for Daughter). This is the third time the police have been called. The first was fear for my own safety after we...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2013, 12:02 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,681
Posted By momof4
Thank you cashcow4ex (I love your name and can...

Thank you cashcow4ex (I love your name and can totally relate! He currently owes me 26k of child support I paid him) and dad2bandm for your ideas. I will talk to the school first, as they are aware...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2013, 11:33 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,620
Posted By momof4
Thank you Mess, this is exactly the feedback I...

Thank you Mess, this is exactly the feedback I was hoping for.



I have thought of this and I won't be changing access, so there is no 'moving away' issue other than we will be much closer to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-12-2013, 11:13 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,651
Posted By momof4
Seriously? I had no idea I could apply for this...

Seriously? I had no idea I could apply for this and I was a SAHM for 14 years during our 20 year marriage (4 kids made it unfeasible for me to work). We are waay past the four year mark (separated...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2013, 02:00 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,620
Posted By momof4
Her father works 8 minutes away from the proposed...

Her father works 8 minutes away from the proposed new school. He could drop her off and pick her up on his way to/from work just as I have done for the last four years. This does not necessitate a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2013, 01:54 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,681
Posted By momof4
Counselling for Daughter

My daughter, age 10, is in need of counselling. Her dad and I have shared custody and equal access, every other week. She has been having a difficult time dealing with stress at school and in dealing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2013, 09:40 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,620
Posted By momof4
Moving to Metro - 30 minutes away

I would like some advise please. Background: Separated after 20 years in 2006, divorced 2010. Four kids from marriage with shared custody and equal access. Two oldest live with their dad and rarely...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2013, 08:57 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,969
Posted By momof4
I have been separated since 2006 and have shared...

I have been separated since 2006 and have shared custody of our four children. I have barely seen my two oldest sons since 2008 as they are too scared to visit me. I have court ordered equal access...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2012, 08:48 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,494
Posted By momof4
First of all, welcome! I am a fellow Albertan and...

First of all, welcome! I am a fellow Albertan and our stories are in some ways similar. I have two thoughts...

Please, please don't use legal aid, in Alberta at least. I learned this the hard...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-28-2012, 08:39 PM
Replies: 131
Views: 35,370
Posted By momof4
The number one thing for me is no panic attacks....

The number one thing for me is no panic attacks. It is heaven to feel normal again and have self esteem!
Forum: Financial Issues 05-28-2012, 08:16 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,166
Posted By momof4
Child support payments

I'm new here, this is my first post, and I hope this is the right category.

I have two sons who are primarily living with their father and I am paying him child support through MEP. My oldest...
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