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Forum: Parenting Issues 12-11-2014, 09:59 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,349
Posted By Pierre
Having dealt with the CAS for years now, here's...

Having dealt with the CAS for years now, here's what I believe is their SOP:

1. Make yourself available as little as possible. This means don't answer the phone, don't even have a front desk and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-02-2013, 02:21 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 5,874
Posted By Pierre
>> They pressured her to sign a temporary custody...

>> They pressured her to sign a temporary custody agreement with them awarding supervised custody to her ex husband.

Unfortunately, the CAS can make this permanent without your agreement at any...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-02-2013, 01:51 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 5,007
Posted By Pierre
>> does anyone have any insight on how to work...

>> does anyone have any insight on how to work with them?

I wish I could help. I know I'm writing over a year after your initial post but what I have to say may help others.

Basically, do NOT...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-24-2012, 09:17 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 3,051
Posted By Pierre
As pointed out, not much that can be done by CAS...

As pointed out, not much that can be done by CAS in my opinion. When the child is born and there's something not right, then you have a case. If they act now, your ex will be upset you called them...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-24-2012, 08:59 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,455
Posted By Pierre
A divorce can be as traumatic to kids as it can...

A divorce can be as traumatic to kids as it can be to the parents. Maybe even more so. Kids will also act differently in different settings. I think we probably all acted differently in school for...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-29-2011, 10:33 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,488
Posted By Pierre
It was her. Then it turned into physical with...

It was her. Then it turned into physical with other men much closer by. That's why I should have said something even though the initial emotional affair was with a guy at the other end of the...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-28-2011, 04:32 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,934
Posted By Pierre
Yes, perfectly normal. The feeling will pass as...

Yes, perfectly normal. The feeling will pass as you settle into your new life.

I have a one month per year together theory before you feel like yourself again. So if together 7 years, give...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-28-2011, 04:05 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,488
Posted By Pierre
I think you should discuss. Emotional affairs are...

I think you should discuss. Emotional affairs are not a good thing. Basically what happened to me. I should not have let it go. Emotional affairs often turn into physical ones, may not be with the...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-25-2011, 10:01 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 4,226
Posted By Pierre
I guess it depends on how the conversation went....

I guess it depends on how the conversation went. "I sleep with your best friend and I'm in love with her" is different then "I don't love you. BTW I sleep with your best friend".

In my mind,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2011, 12:54 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,907
Posted By Pierre
There should be no finger pointing. Just sit...

There should be no finger pointing. Just sit down, maybe best with a lawyer if you can, and renegotiate. Keep it civil. Mention you being uncomfortable with her being with his mom. If he cares about...
Forum: General Chat 07-25-2011, 12:36 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,473
Posted By Pierre
As mentioned, something physical I think helps....

As mentioned, something physical I think helps. Even if it's just a one-hour walk around the neighbourhood. Try to see people, I think that helps. Join a club or take a course at the local college....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2011, 12:16 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,907
Posted By Pierre
Renegotiate the agreement. Obviously things can...

Renegotiate the agreement. Obviously things can change. I think you'll both have to make concessions. I think it would be unfair for your daughter and your ex not to be able to see her dad for long...
Forum: General Chat 07-25-2011, 12:04 PM
Replies: 20
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Views: 3,260
Posted By Pierre
First, I think you made a mistake by showing up...

First, I think you made a mistake by showing up when you were not expected and outside your normal visitation time. Especially as she told you she was uncomfortable with you now going to her place to...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-25-2011, 11:56 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 4,226
Posted By Pierre
Gee, I think you're taking this comment way too...

Gee, I think you're taking this comment way too personally. Yes, a woman is more likely to say this, not a man. Rioe did realize she's generalizing and I accept her explanation. I on the other hand...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-25-2011, 01:28 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,170
Posted By Pierre
> She chose to leave, she took the car Was the...

> She chose to leave, she took the car
Was the car under your name, hers or both? Unless it was her car, I'd say she's unreasonable.

I have a potential solution to your problem. Not sure if you...
Forum: Political Issues 07-25-2011, 12:31 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 8,892
Posted By Pierre
Fireweb, I feel your pain. My situation is not...

Fireweb, I feel your pain. My situation is not quite as dramatic as yours but I'm fed up with the CAS. Being told different things by different people, talked to in a condescending way, actually lied...
Forum: General Chat 07-25-2011, 12:05 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,598
Posted By Pierre
Anyone with CAS Issues?

Hi, new here and I hope I can share and learn a lot.

My situation is long and complicated. What it boils down to is that the CAS is legally my kids guardian.

What I'm wondering about is if any...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-24-2011, 11:58 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 4,226
Posted By Pierre
Spoken like a woman. You know, it's not just...

Spoken like a woman.

You know, it's not just men. My ex-wife was sleeping around with other men while we were married. The strange thing is, she said when we got engaged that I better not be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2011, 11:39 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 5,647
Posted By Pierre
I'm new here (this is my first post) but what are...

I'm new here (this is my first post) but what are the details?

Never liked the FRO. Only a couple of times dealt with them but once on phone years ago I felt they treated me like dirt. I had not...
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