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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-23-2019, 11:11 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 259
Posted By ele110
Yes I am very worried about 'jumping ship". So...

Yes I am very worried about 'jumping ship". So far we have 50/50 and I wish to keep it this way.
Good advise about aunts and uncles.
However, extended family is all overseas which makes it a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2019, 07:17 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 211
Posted By ele110
I would hate it but try to ignore and focus on...

I would hate it but try to ignore and focus on the kid.
On my end neither OP nor spouse attend interviews!
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2019, 07:03 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 259
Posted By ele110
Coparenting teen boy computer time marks dropping

Grade 9 boy smart kid but marks are going down. He spends an awful lot of time playing on the computer, does not do homework or study much, lies about it. I have tried to approach the situation in a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2019, 11:58 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 290
Posted By ele110
Not good for the kids to stay with two parents...

Not good for the kids to stay with two parents who are not together plus one who goes to adult clubs. It is toxic. And impossible to start a new life.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2019, 11:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 229
Posted By ele110
At 17, he would decide to go even without your...

At 17, he would decide to go even without your travel consent so nothing you can do.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2019, 11:49 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 222
Posted By ele110
How can overpaying for 4 months means paying no...

How can overpaying for 4 months means paying no C/S for one year?
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2019, 10:59 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 327
Posted By ele110
1- Pickups: have pick up the kid at your place...

1- Pickups: have pick up the kid at your place when you have the kid.
2- Courtesy at pick up times: at least ex is not screaming at you. Better this way as far as I am concerned.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2019, 06:19 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 794
Posted By ele110
My understanding is that it is the matrimonial...

My understanding is that it is the matrimonial home and he is entitled to half no matter who paid for it even if he is not on title. That's the law.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-08-2019, 07:33 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,334
Posted By ele110
I have travelled many times to Europe with my...

I have travelled many times to Europe with my children. I was never, ever asked for a travel consent letter. The kids do not even have my last name. Only once, the officer asked 'where is dad?". My...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-20-2019, 10:40 PM
Replies: 61
Views: 4,196
Posted By ele110
I know it is very stressful but the best is to...

I know it is very stressful but the best is to ignore and not engage yourself in any communication as this will lead to more nonsense
Lawyers use intimidation, bullying and scare tactics all the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2019, 08:15 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 487
Posted By ele110
Child tax benefit

Who should the Child Tax Benefit go to in a shared , 50/50 situation? Should it be split? How?
If CRA gives it to one parent only, should it be taken into account in the C/S calculation?
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2019, 08:12 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 628
Posted By ele110
For me, about 2k.

For me, about 2k.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2018, 09:42 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 4,161
Posted By ele110
Shame on your ex and the g/f for using the kids...

Shame on your ex and the g/f for using the kids to 'punish' you .
This said, there is little the court or you can do about this.
I know how upsetting this must be (I would be very upset too)....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2018, 08:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 929
Posted By ele110
FYI. I have travelled out of the country many...

FYI. I have travelled out of the country many times and was never required to show a travel consent letter from the PO, even when the kids were very young.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-16-2017, 10:21 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 5,231
Posted By ele110
FYI I was in the same situation with almost the...

FYI I was in the same situation with almost the same income spread. I am female, no work interruption, except for 3 mat leaves, and was the lower salary of the two. SS was not even a consideration,...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2017, 12:14 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,597
Posted By ele110
We do offset C/S. We split expenses agreed upon...

We do offset C/S. We split expenses agreed upon such as
sports, activities, school uniform, shoes, coats,school fee(that covers activities and trips for the year), sports equipment, cell phone...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-23-2017, 06:52 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,988
Posted By ele110
I would never ever consider picking up my bf's...

I would never ever consider picking up my bf's kids from his ex's home. Neither would he ask. From school or an activity...hmm.....maybe. From the ex's home never!
And we have been together over 6...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-04-2017, 11:15 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 3,523
Posted By ele110
Just curious, I have noted you have requested NO...

Just curious, I have noted you have requested NO access for your child's mother. Is there any reason for that?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2017, 08:04 AM
Replies: 54
Views: 3,790
Posted By ele110
Yep...and once the 'lazy ass' (!) is out of bed,...

Yep...and once the 'lazy ass' (!) is out of bed, the OP calls to say he is sick or can't make it or late or whatever and you will be the one stuck with the problem.Perfect.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-10-2017, 10:30 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 490
Posted By ele110
income for C/S small corporation dividend income

I am hoping to get help in order to review income for CS purpose.
Mine is straight forward (fixed salary), OP owns a small corporation(new ) and gets paid dividends only.

So far I have been...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-08-2017, 03:30 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,078
Posted By ele110
I cannot imagine how you 'bringing' (how?) this...

I cannot imagine how you 'bringing' (how?) this in a custody dispute would help you accomplish anything except looking gossipy, bitter, and resentful.
I would advise to ignore what your ex is doing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-22-2016, 09:58 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 3,217
Posted By ele110
I used to be very stressed out on Xmas eve...

I used to be very stressed out on Xmas eve without kids.
No more.When I am not with the children (every second year). I usually go to the movies and out for dinner with a friend. You'd be amazed...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-10-2016, 11:24 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,628
Posted By ele110
It is indeed a very difficult time and hurtful...

It is indeed a very difficult time and hurtful time for you. If it is any comfort my son was particularly rude and horrible to me in his teens and now at 20+ is considerate, reliable and a more and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2016, 09:02 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,790
Posted By ele110
Why would the child stop seing his mother and...

Why would the child stop seing his mother and stay only with you?
Is there any reason why he should be deprived from contact with his mother?
Why not a 50/50 custody schedule?
Is it because of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-27-2016, 10:54 PM
Replies: 76
Views: 5,058
Posted By ele110
I hope you said yes and will enjoy the time with...

I hope you said yes and will enjoy the time with your sons! And who knows they might end up staying?
Teenage kids of divorced/conflictual parents become extremely manipulative and will blackmail...
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