Forum: Divorce & Family Law
11-16-2018, 10:50 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,797
Ongoing efforts to alienate (or a general...
Ongoing efforts to alienate (or a general complacency at best) continue to be my greatest concern.
Luckily, this counselor is one who had been recommended by the court and who we were guided to...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
11-16-2018, 10:15 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,797
Update,
Our Settlement Conference was quick...
Update,
Our Settlement Conference was quick and productive (I hope).
A reunification counsellor has been secured and the process will begin at the end of this month.
The judge seized...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
11-14-2018, 09:24 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,797
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
11-14-2018, 09:17 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,797
I apologize for not having replied sooner. The...
I apologize for not having replied sooner. The truth is, I think you're somewhat ahead of where we are in that you have already gone to trial and have stellar recommendations from the OCL.
The...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
10-10-2018, 11:54 AM
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Replies: 4
Views: 690
It's complicated.
In short, she is seeking...
It's complicated.
In short, she is seeking retro-active child support for a period last year where we were trying to re-integrate. During that time she filed for sole custody and our daughters...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
10-10-2018, 10:51 AM
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Replies: 4
Views: 690
Quality of time Vs. Quantity of time for CS
I am scouring CanLII etc. It is quite the process.
I am wondering, however, if anyone knows off-hand, of a legal precedent for considering the nature/quality of the time spent between parent and...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
10-01-2018, 09:21 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,086
Everything you here on this board is a mix of...
Everything you here on this board is a mix of legal, personal-legal, and personal opinion.
This most likely leans towards the latter of the three (though after years of being engaged in the...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
10-01-2018, 09:05 PM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,797
And I have, and it is disheartening.
I have...
And I have, and it is disheartening.
I have received three responses from the five potentials I have reached out to. Only two are psychotherapists and the first is available in December. In...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
10-01-2018, 08:23 PM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,797
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
05-11-2018, 09:01 AM
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Replies: 3
Views: 544
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
05-11-2018, 07:19 AM
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Replies: 3
Views: 544
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
05-11-2018, 06:17 AM
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Replies: 3
Views: 607
Ya, that`s absolutely true. I lost my temper...
Ya, that`s absolutely true. I lost my temper around my daughters and it was a scary thing for them. That was leading into the end of 2016.
In February 2017 our daughters were both coming home...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
05-10-2018, 11:16 AM
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Replies: 3
Views: 607
Hearts and Minds Vs. Legal
The Reality:
D11 and D13 stopped coming home September 2017.
OCL report is complete and now filed with court. There are things I can do to make things easier for our daughters, with primary...
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Forum: General Chat
04-03-2018, 06:45 PM
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,682
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Forum: General Chat
04-03-2018, 06:06 PM
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,682
How about: Why does it matter?
BDP or not,...
How about: Why does it matter?
BDP or not, the service to your own emotional state necessarily affects the emotional wellbeing and general mental health of the children.
I think it is a...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
04-02-2018, 01:26 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 863
Oddly, she mentioned reintegration type...
Oddly, she mentioned reintegration type counselling very early on, followed by "I don't think it will be necessary".
She then went on to describe her recommendation for immediate reintegration,...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
04-01-2018, 11:03 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 863
She seemed to throw a fair amount of snade in...
She seemed to throw a fair amount of snade in both directions.
When she discussed her concerns around my rigidity, she leaned over and said "face it, you're a control freak".like and paused.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
03-30-2018, 10:01 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 863
OP walked out of OCL disclosure
Been a long hard go for everyone involved.
Pretty much completely estranged from D13 and D11.
OCL disclosure from clinician yesterday (no OCL lawyer involved).
I need to work on being...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
01-09-2018, 10:55 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,675
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
01-09-2018, 10:28 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,675
I do appreciate the feedback. All I want is the...
I do appreciate the feedback. All I want is the opportunity to give our daughters some space to just do whatever. When you are suddenly cut off, that gets very difficult to do.
My affidavit was 17...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
01-09-2018, 09:53 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,675
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
01-09-2018, 04:36 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,675
Whereas I have also heard similarly that even...
Whereas I have also heard similarly that even Successful litigation is taxing and destructive to children where the is high conflict.
My older daughter is clinically diagnosed as Severely Anxious...
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
01-09-2018, 02:09 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,675
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law
01-09-2018, 11:53 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,675
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Forum: Parenting Issues
12-23-2017, 09:11 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,740
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