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Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2011, 12:58 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,277
Posted By ANewLife
Have you seen a tax return from your Ex where she...

Have you seen a tax return from your Ex where she is claiming those expenses as deductions?

Is the Aunty an actual Day Care provider or just a relative - if the ex is claiming she is paying this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-04-2011, 01:24 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,675
Posted By ANewLife
Form 35.1 and Case Conference Brief

I am getting myself confused, so hopefully someone can set me straight.

I am the respondent and was served a motion to change a final order. I responded and her lawyer then asked for 2 months to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2011, 02:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,045
Posted By ANewLife
I would ask at the court house on Thursday about...

I would ask at the court house on Thursday about when you can file the affadavit of service. May not be an issue as it is not part of the continuing record.

I just do it myself so make sure all...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2011, 02:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,045
Posted By ANewLife
I would ask at the court house on Thursday about...

I would ask at the court house on Thursday about when you can file the affadavit of service. May not be an issue as it is not part of the continuing record.

I just do it myself so make sure all...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2011, 01:37 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,002
Posted By ANewLife
Good points....Yes I do speak with him about...

Good points....Yes I do speak with him about saying bad things about her and listen to his points. I do reinforce that she loves him even though it may not always feel like it and that they may have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2011, 01:30 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,045
Posted By ANewLife
I should also have added... You complete...

I should also have added...

You complete your documents (Form 15B in this case) and I go to the court to have them sworn (as I am self representing)...they also check for completeness.

They...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2011, 12:37 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,002
Posted By ANewLife
I guess I should have realized the history would...

I guess I should have realized the history would come into it - tried counselling and other programs for a number of years prior to divorce. One of the reasons for the divorce was the fact that these...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2011, 11:50 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,002
Posted By ANewLife
Perhaps I wasn't clear...the court order says ...

Perhaps I wasn't clear...the court order says her visitation is on Sundays...this has not occurred in the past: perhaps a visit occurs once every 3-4 weeks at her request.

It's not like I had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2011, 10:51 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,002
Posted By ANewLife
Sole custody and access prior

Without going into history (which has been covered in other posts/questions by me), I am seeking sole custody for my 10 year old son. Originally we were in court March 9th, but she prepared wrong...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-02-2011, 10:27 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,045
Posted By ANewLife
You complete Form 6B affadavit of Service and can...

You complete Form 6B affadavit of Service and can use Paragraph 4 for mailing it to his home address. He does not need to acknowledge having received it.

From a timing point of view you need to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2011, 03:34 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,524
Posted By ANewLife
Okay...it has been a year since I first created...

Okay...it has been a year since I first created this thread.


1. I received joint custody for both boys...the judge was adamant to my ex that she not interfere in the day - day aspects such as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-30-2010, 08:20 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,123
Posted By ANewLife
In my case, the judge re-iterated many times re...

In my case, the judge re-iterated many times re Spousal support that it is based on need and ability to pay. She didn't give my ex spousal support and encouraged her to get FT employment.

My case...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-29-2010, 09:11 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,090
Posted By ANewLife
Around thanksgiving he started spending a couple...

Around thanksgiving he started spending a couple of nights a week...I had to go one day and get him to take him to the hospital as well - she refused to do that and he had severe constipation!

A...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-29-2010, 05:56 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,090
Posted By ANewLife
Thanks for the replies...I wanted to work with...

Thanks for the replies...I wanted to work with her on a child support agreement as going through OW will a dollar for dollar reduction. I don't think she understands that and that is what I was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-29-2010, 02:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,090
Posted By ANewLife
Ignoring Final Orders

Trying to keep this simple...she was the applicant and stated the children will reside with me. This has been the case for 2 years and over the last few months my eldest has been spending more time...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-22-2010, 02:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,469
Posted By ANewLife
Thanks very much for the very helpful information...

Thanks very much for the very helpful information Mess
Forum: Financial Issues 11-21-2010, 05:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,469
Posted By ANewLife
I guess I should also have asked - what if she...

I guess I should also have asked - what if she doesn't indicate to OW that our son is now living with her - the court documents stated they were to reside with me - I don't know what they ask her to...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-21-2010, 04:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,469
Posted By ANewLife
Definition of 'Income'

I am not sure how to approach this...my ex is on Ontario Works and we have joint custody for the children (aged 10 and 15). They reside with me FT (as proposed by her in the Divorce application.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-30-2010, 03:18 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,203
Posted By ANewLife
I am representing myself - I was certainly more...

I am representing myself - I was certainly more prepared than her lawyer...she also wanted to speak and get emotional...I did follow the advice above about writing notes, letting the other party...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-30-2010, 02:43 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 822
Posted By ANewLife
Changes to Agreed and court documented agreements

This is going to get complicated so please bear with me and I hope I explain things clearly....

I am separated, she was the applicant in court and acknowledged the children reside with me. (This...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2010, 07:19 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,524
Posted By ANewLife
Mess wrote... You're basically correct, I...

Mess wrote...

You're basically correct, I would just add that it is possible to have Joint Custody/Shared Access or Sole Custody/Shared Access. It is possible to have Joint Custody but one parent...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-10-2010, 12:19 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,524
Posted By ANewLife
I realized I left out Joint Custody. Here is a...

I realized I left out Joint Custody. Here is a good summary for me: (answering my own question, but thanks for the response above...other opinions appreciated as well):

Sole custody means that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-10-2010, 11:39 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,524
Posted By ANewLife
Custody versus Access

I find in a lot of the posts people seem to confuse these two items - so I thought I would clarify to ensure I am not mistaken.

Background:

Separated without a formal agreement, sold the family...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-12-2009, 12:25 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,827
Posted By ANewLife
Personally, I would let the eldest children...

Personally, I would let the eldest children travel - it is a great experience for them!

Depending on the age difference travel can be very different for children of different ages and even harder...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2009, 03:32 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,947
Posted By ANewLife
Thanks for this reply and the one above. It...

Thanks for this reply and the one above. It really helps put some perspective on the situation as well. PS I said to both of them, they both don't seem to be considering my wishes as well!
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