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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-27-2020, 01:11 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 650
Posted By Janus
You have just unilaterally changed a custody...

You have just unilaterally changed a custody situation that has been in place for years with no justification or court order, and your biggest concern at the moment is...

...child tax benefit?
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 10:10 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,363
Posted By Janus
After you pick up the kid, send a message saying...

After you pick up the kid, send a message saying that, while you do not believe it is necessary, you are willing to keep the kid 100% of the time until the pandemic is over.

Keep her response...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 09:53 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 592
Posted By Janus
To be fair, they argued against a presumption of...

To be fair, they argued against a presumption of shared parenting, not shared parenting itself.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 09:50 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 257
Posted By Janus
Dear ex, Due to the pandemic, my income has...

Dear ex,

Due to the pandemic, my income has been reduced by 20%. Normally, I would apply to the courts to change the support payments, but that may not be possible for the next few months.

In...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 09:41 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 487
Posted By Janus
Do you feel that what you post is pure quality? ...

Do you feel that what you post is pure quality? I'm honestly curious.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 09:39 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 484
Posted By Janus
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Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 09:35 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 163
Posted By Janus
Normally I would say that you would have to pay...

Normally I would say that you would have to pay it eventually. If you don't pay it now it would be trivial for your ex to order that your share of the payments be taken from the equity when the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 09:22 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 484
Posted By Janus
Very few people would volunteer for a pay cut. ...

Very few people would volunteer for a pay cut.

Even if I did volunteer for a pay cut, I feel that my car loan will likely not be cut. Groceries do not seem to be cheaper, insurance companies have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 09:17 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 487
Posted By Janus
You must be new to the internet if you think that...

You must be new to the internet if you think that you get to control who responds to you on an open forum :)

Especially after you have just necro'ed an old thread with a mostly irrelevent addition.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2020, 09:02 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 905
Posted By Janus
The court system keeps track of the number of...

The court system keeps track of the number of times you lose. Judges see "oh, this guy brings cases that he keeps on losing, he is probably a crackpot", and they start off assuming that you are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-19-2020, 12:24 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,363
Posted By Janus
Cough all over him. Then let the kids know...

Cough all over him.

Then let the kids know that if you are infected, their dad is infected, so they are screwed regardless. Best to just go with you as normal.

:)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-19-2020, 12:18 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 988
Posted By Janus
I bet a punch in the face would solve a lot of...

I bet a punch in the face would solve a lot of parenting-time issues.

"I was concerned that the other parent was not feeding our child the appropriate food so I withheld..."

KAPOW!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 10:42 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 988
Posted By Janus
Enforcement of what? If you want an order...

Enforcement of what?

If you want an order that can be enforced, you get a court order. What could a "coparenting enforcement agency" enforce that could not be enforced by the courts?

That...
Forum: General Chat 03-18-2020, 10:36 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 281
Posted By Janus
You can edit your post for a brief period of time...

You can edit your post for a brief period of time after you make the post, but then it is online forever.

People often say stupid things and then want to scrub those comments out of the forum. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 10:35 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,363
Posted By Janus
I think for divorced couples, both sides...

I think for divorced couples, both sides effectively become one household in two different locations. If one location gets infected, both will be infected, and there is no way around it.

Much...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-17-2020, 01:38 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 988
Posted By Janus
Impossible to create language around that. ...

Impossible to create language around that.

Mom has to buy boots? Maybe she buys boots at the local thrift shop that has holes in it. She has complied with the agreement. Dad has to buy...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-11-2020, 03:04 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 936
Posted By Janus
You are looking for a lawyer. I do not believe...

You are looking for a lawyer. I do not believe it is even allowed for a non-lawyer to "speak on your behalf" in family court.



Why are taxis not an option? How do you buy food?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2020, 10:24 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 242
Posted By Janus
It sounds like he will not contest it. However,...

It sounds like he will not contest it. However, if he does fight it, would it be that much of an issue? At worst you'll have to "consult" with the father before making decisions, and then you can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-09-2020, 02:13 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 774
Posted By Janus
Of course it would, why do you think the bar...

Of course it would, why do you think the bar association was against the reform?

Woman's groups were against it as well because, just possibly, family law is not gender neutral.

Almost 100% of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-09-2020, 08:28 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 774
Posted By Janus
The term you are looking for is "presumption of...

The term you are looking for is "presumption of shared parenting".

It has been brought up before but never made it far. Women's groups and the bar association were strongly against it. Make of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2020, 01:21 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 422
Posted By Janus
"My partner is not a party to these proceedings...

"My partner is not a party to these proceedings and has declined to offer this information".
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2020, 10:57 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 554
Posted By Janus
Lump sum spousal-support payments are not tax...

Lump sum spousal-support payments are not tax deductible.

When a judge orders a lump sum amount, they will usually explicitly lower the amount awarded to account for this.
Forum: General Chat 03-08-2020, 10:54 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 297
Posted By Janus
Have you already been approved for the mortgage? ...

Have you already been approved for the mortgage? Alternatively, do you have the cash lying around to buy him out?



Infidelity rates are fairly high. The bar when it comes to "bad enough to...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2020, 10:45 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 936
Posted By Janus
He never did. If he does, feel free to wale...

He never did. If he does, feel free to wale away. Until then, he hasn't tried to scam anybody here.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2020, 10:42 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 206
Posted By Janus
Yikes. Unless the dude is in his 70's...

Yikes.



Unless the dude is in his 70's that's probably not true.



You don't know that. It is likely that she has told the lawyer but the lawyer feels it will not help her case to discuss...
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