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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 02:06 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 196
Posted By iona6656
wow. I just noticed who the Judge is...he was a...

wow. I just noticed who the Judge is...he was a good friend and colleague when I practiced in London, ON.

We worked on many files together. He is exceptionally smart, measured, and practical in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-14-2019, 08:51 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 327
Posted By iona6656
Your wife is abusive. leave. let the kids see...

Your wife is abusive. leave. let the kids see your parents on your time.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2019, 05:33 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 233
Posted By iona6656
My best friend found out her husband slept with...

My best friend found out her husband slept with multiple prostitutes while they were married...cue separation/divorce.

Almost all the lawyers she consulted said it meant nothing in terms of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2019, 06:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 287
Posted By iona6656
What does your agreement say? If you have a...

What does your agreement say? If you have a graduated schedule (I have one too)- then your agreement surely has pickups and drop offs outlined?
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 08:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 287
Posted By iona6656
Your ex doesn’t like you. She doesn’t want to...

Your ex doesn’t like you. She doesn’t want to exchange pleasantries. Get over it.

As to the exchanges. Your bad. Or your lawyers. Should’ve asked to split the driving. Person who’s parenting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 07:58 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,263
Posted By iona6656
Please please do this. I’m so sorry your...

Please please do this.

I’m so sorry your kids are going through this.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-06-2019, 07:52 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 511
Posted By iona6656
Getting SIN copy- other parent refuses to give it

Yep. But of course he demanded a copy of the birth certificate before he’d give it to me. So sure. I had it ready to go. I was going to send it to his lawyer, but now I’ve fulfilled that obligation.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-06-2019, 06:22 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 511
Posted By iona6656
Thanks Rocksan- this is exactly what I did. I...

Thanks Rocksan- this is exactly what I did. I don't like pulling the ultimatum card. But I did it.

I told him if I didn't have it by the next exchange I would report it lost. He said then he...
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-06-2019, 03:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 248
Posted By iona6656
yeah, this. waiting is stupid. it...

yeah, this.

waiting is stupid.

it doesn't matter if the law enumerates "financial abuse" as a form of abuse. it's next to impossible to prove.

if your situation is bad, get. out. now.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 03:10 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 618
Posted By iona6656
Don't argue with us. Get a good lawyer- and let...

Don't argue with us. Get a good lawyer- and let them help present the evidence.

Rocksan is giving good advice of being very careful about how you frame things- and even the wording around...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-04-2019, 02:02 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,791
Posted By iona6656
this. If there was enough evidence that the court...

this. If there was enough evidence that the court felt supervised access was appropriate- your matter *should* have been referred to CAS. But a lot of times, these things fall through the cracks.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-01-2019, 11:41 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 146
Posted By iona6656
So just correct it and mosey on your way. Do you...

So just correct it and mosey on your way. Do you think taking a stand on this is going to magically get your ex to stop being petty and ignorant?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-01-2019, 11:30 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 146
Posted By iona6656
Per our settlement we're hyphenating our...

Per our settlement we're hyphenating our daughter's last name to be "Ex-Mine"...but her school has always called her "D3 My-last-name" not "D3 Ex's-last-name"...she thinks her name is "D3...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-01-2019, 11:26 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 146
Posted By iona6656
If you are bringing it up- knowing it sets off a...

If you are bringing it up- knowing it sets off a conflict- then you ARE making a big deal out of nothing.

Is it on your daughter's official documents? Is it on the school registration?

It's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2019, 03:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 151
Posted By iona6656
I would think the prep work required for a...

I would think the prep work required for a summary judgement is a lot? I'm not sure.

Could you ask your lawyer what is involved and what is the approximate amount required to prepare and attend...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-31-2019, 01:26 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 511
Posted By iona6656
the issue is that the money to be transferred to...

the issue is that the money to be transferred to the RESP from the sale of the matrimonial home is significant- and the goal is to not have the RESP drained by either party, or through their...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-31-2019, 01:03 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 511
Posted By iona6656
Which grandparent? His mom? Is old and would...

Which grandparent? His mom? Is old and would definitely drain the RESP, because his sister has POA over her affairs and she (his sister) helped him fuck me over financially (they're both...
Forum: Introductions 10-31-2019, 01:01 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,089
Posted By iona6656
6 years from date of separation. s 7(3) of...

6 years from date of separation.

s 7(3) of Ontario's Family Law Act
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-31-2019, 12:56 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,566
Posted By iona6656
Totally disagree. It depends on the PC and...

Totally disagree. It depends on the PC and whether the parties are willing to try to engage in getting to a parenting plan. And frankly- how much the lawyers for each party are pushing it.

My ex-...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 08:56 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 511
Posted By iona6656
Hijack away. I think CRA also keeps track...

Hijack away.

I think CRA also keeps track of this. I bet you could find out from them.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 04:25 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 511
Posted By iona6656
sorry- I missed this. Yes- it's a joint RESP. It...

sorry- I missed this. Yes- it's a joint RESP. It was part of our settlement- instead of arguing about how much he owed me in equalization- I agreed to a lesser amount to be put entirely into an RESP...
Forum: General Chat 10-30-2019, 04:04 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,389
Posted By iona6656
Update

He was found guilty.

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/andrew-berry-verdict-1.5296462

Every now and then, I google the trial...and read about the testimony. And almost every time...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 02:11 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 511
Posted By iona6656
The lower returns part is true- but the higher...

The lower returns part is true- but the higher fees part isn't totally accurate. Many bank RESPs have lower fees at the start- but it increases proportionately to the principle. Also with the CST-...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2019, 01:53 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 154
Posted By iona6656
yep- they're still a "child of the marriage" per...

yep- they're still a "child of the marriage" per the Divorce Act:

child of the marriage means a child of two spouses or former spouses who, at the material time,

(a) is under the age of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 01:39 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 511
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- we took care of that in the final order as...

Yeah- we took care of that in the final order as well- how RESPs are to be used and distributed. Settlement into joint- and remaining contribution room to be split evening so each parent gets 1/2...
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