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Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2021, 08:19 PM
Replies: 88
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Posted By 350 Mag
So I should get upset, call her out, get...

So I should get upset, call her out, get vindictive, be mean, air my dirty laundry to her friends and family or on Facebook?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2021, 11:41 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
I don't think there can EVER be a "termination"...

I don't think there can EVER be a "termination" date for Spousal Support because of her Age, years together, the fact she left her career....all works against me....I am hoping when I finally afford...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2021, 08:34 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
Agreeing to what? 50/50 of the assets of the...

Agreeing to what?

50/50 of the assets of the marriage?

Paying her substantially less than what a the MAX payment would be by courts. 30% vs 45-50% (what a ball busting lawyer of judge would...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2021, 07:46 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
I certainly will. If nothing else this...

I certainly will.

If nothing else this process will be an eye opener for my 2 boys on the lessons of life, and be careful who you marry, and make sure she has means and will to earn her own...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 11:31 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
The kids are both with me 100%. She visits...

The kids are both with me 100%.

She visits them almost everyday when I am working, but she tries to leave before I am home. Which is good because it does make it a little easier to accept the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 10:16 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
I am not stupid.....Nor am I worried about her...

I am not stupid.....Nor am I worried about her taking me for a ride $$$$ wise.

She is allready well aware that I could seek pension money from her.

She is happy with the amount we agreed upon....
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2021, 08:20 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
Alot of women have a change of heart? ...

Alot of women have a change of heart?

There's always a chance.

I still love her, obviously I would want her to come back.

But I don't want her back for the wrong reasons.

Still working...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2021, 02:34 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
Interesting, In my situation wouldn't have...

Interesting,

In my situation wouldn't have made much sense. That was the last thing I would have been thinking.


Maybe I am too traditional, maybe when I promised I do...forever I actually...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-01-2021, 02:20 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
I ain't gonna waste my time bitching anymore. ...

I ain't gonna waste my time bitching anymore.

It's done.

I got 28.5 years with her.

We are going to be able to hammer out a deal....

She isn't greedy, neither am I.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-01-2021, 09:03 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
Well.... I can pension off in 9 years. ...

Well....

I can pension off in 9 years.

Then my income drops to $50k -60K /year?

She has higher pension value than me right now so I am getting a Seperation Agreement that we are leaving each...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2021, 01:16 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
I am helping her move with my oldest son right...

I am helping her move with my oldest son right now....

We have kids together...

We cannot goto war and I will not be mad at her or cruel to her.

I hope to be able have a Christmas or...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2021, 10:08 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
Although I would like to be pissed off I cannot. ...

Although I would like to be pissed off I cannot.

I want to do right by my kids and that means being nice to their mother....and supporting her.

To be fair.

This isn't easy for her. She...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2021, 06:13 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
I will just add this. I married up in class....

I will just add this.

I married up in class. She came from a good home I came from a broken home.

In her defense I had some issues for sure....lower self esteem and excessive drinking at...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2021, 04:11 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
1) I BEGGED and PLEADED with her to keep her job....

1) I BEGGED and PLEADED with her to keep her job.

2) We had a NICE home. Because we were making combined 120,000

3). She insisted she didn't care IF we made less money or had as nice house. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2021, 01:47 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
So basically .... I will be lucky to come...

So basically ....

I will be lucky to come away with the clothes on my backside....and she will be with another guy.

Marriage is the ultimate SCAM!
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2021, 10:50 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
Well....I guess IF she isn't willing to...

Well....I guess IF she isn't willing to compromise....I will get "stressed" and have to take medical leave....

And possible end up with a minimum wage job?

That could very well happen.

Then...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2021, 10:42 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
No she left work in 2002. Went back to work...

No she left work in 2002.

Went back to work part time 2013.

She is almost full time now....but has 7 weeks off in Summer.

Ya I was complacent....BUT IF men complain they are azzholes....
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2021, 08:43 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
Had she kept her Govt Job....or went back and 1...

Had she kept her Govt Job....or went back and 1 kid could have been babysat or daycare.

She would be making $80k/year vs $37,000.

That job would have been a $800,000 pension indexed...by now......
Forum: Financial Issues 01-27-2021, 05:27 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
She quit her job against my wishes. We had a...

She quit her job against my wishes.

We had a nice home before we moved.

After we moved we were down to one salary

She constantly complained our new home wasn't nice enough, we didn't have...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-27-2021, 05:21 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
I did not want her to quit her job....she...

I did not want her to quit her job....she refused.

We had a nice home in a stable market we ended up moving to where I work which is now becoming unstable.

This is all in regards to spousal...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-27-2021, 01:22 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,186
Posted By 350 Mag
Can ex be compelled to switch careers?

My soon to be ex quit a Govt job 18 years ago. A job that would now pay around $75,000 per year vs the $37,000 she is making as a Secretary.

Is it a long shot to have court suggest she return to...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-27-2021, 09:19 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
It's a roller coaster for sure .... It is...

It's a roller coaster for sure ....

It is the worst feeling in the world to lose the one you still love.

I am NOT sure Love ever lasts past the "gaga" phase(the first 3 years)....after that you...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-26-2021, 06:08 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
Wife is moving out this weekend. We are...

Wife is moving out this weekend.

We are trying to keep communicating....but Its very hard....she can barely stand me around.

I am going to write her a letter before she leaves.

I will...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2021, 11:05 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
Thanks for that....

Thanks for that....
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2021, 04:50 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,955
Posted By 350 Mag
For better and for worse. In sickness and...

For better and for worse.

In sickness and health.

Blah blah blah blah.

Our own Catholic Priest recommended she leave IF she wasn't happy.

Unless there is adultery, documented abuse or...
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