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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-30-2009, 01:14 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,072
Posted By smadax
Does Not Wanna Live With Parents

I'm posting on behalf of a friend; we need advice please!

She is the Maternal Grandmother of the 12 yo male in question.
June 2003 - Dec 2005 Grandmother had custody.

There has been ongoing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2009, 07:22 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
Update: June 2009 we FINALLY attended a hearing...

Update: June 2009 we FINALLY attended a hearing and the Judge granted interim order for supervised visitation and telephone access.

About 4 years in and out of the courts to get the order we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-02-2008, 11:47 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
Thanks LV... as time has continued to progress...

Thanks LV... as time has continued to progress I've been getting more worried about being in breech of our Order by not allowing visitation and access.

I do feel for the children, as a Mother and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-02-2008, 12:17 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
Question Dilemma

That's my inquiry... we'd filed with the Court re: supervised visitation & access. During first appearance Judge suspended everything until terms could be negotiated with original Judge, which was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2008, 11:26 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
We've maintained the suspension for telephone...

We've maintained the suspension for telephone access, which she has accepted. There has been attempted visitation, our Order says we're to recieve 24 hrs notice which she's ignored. At first we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2008, 08:21 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
** UPDATE ** Jan 2, 2008 Biological Mother...

** UPDATE **

Jan 2, 2008 Biological Mother had visitation & access suspended with the understanding we'd be back in court by April to renegotiate.

9 MONTHS LATER... we have not attended court!...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-30-2008, 12:25 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
That is what I've been doing, recording telephone...

That is what I've been doing, recording telephone calls with her knowledge. But, it hasn't helped because we don't find out she's misbehaved until AFTER the access has ended and damage is done ... we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2008, 09:48 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
telephone access

I forgot to mention that I did find two private companies that do offer supervised telephone access via three-way conference calling, at a fee of course. Just wanted to point out that it is a viable...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2008, 09:45 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
court date

Our appearance today was uneventful, although we'd been scheduled for 1 hour we were in front of a Judge for about 5 minutes! :confused:

As previously stated I was confident the Judge would grant...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2008, 09:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,138
Posted By smadax
research

I've used CanLii to find simular cases to give me guidance, here is the link...

http://canlii.com

Good luck in your endevour!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2008, 01:48 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,138
Posted By smadax
self represented

I've been self represented for Provinicial Family Court.

In my particular case there are so many pieces of the puzzle that I feel our story is told best, by me. Therefore I'm also able to answer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-24-2008, 01:53 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
inevitable

The Judge will grant visitation and access because this is the biological Mother, as I understand the children have a right to remain in contact with her and they desire to do so.... therefore we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2008, 10:04 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 4,966
Posted By smadax
Access & Visitation Restrictions

I've had an ongoing battle with DH ex-gf ...Regretably she is a crack addict & alcoholic in an emotionally abusive relationship and there is ongoing RCMP & MCFD involvement associated with her young...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2007, 08:14 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,984
Posted By smadax
To my understanding it is possible for a spouse...

To my understanding it is possible for a spouse to go after a step-parent for child support if that person has supported the child(ren) in question for at least a year.

It may however be a 'gray...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-29-2007, 12:34 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,551
Posted By smadax
Access & Visitation Negotiation

Ex completed Treatment October 2006. I recieved confirmation yesterday that ex is still drinking and using drugs, an informant called me and said she was invited to use cocaine with ex February 2007....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2007, 12:03 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,551
Posted By smadax
Waiting Game

Recieved the first letter from SW and it spoke of the brother having criminal charges, I looked it up on public record and the man has been found guilty Nov 2006 for Trafficking, Possession and Theft...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-19-2007, 11:57 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,551
Posted By smadax
Action post Haste

Yes, SW said MCFD file is closed.

We were also advised that ex stated in her report that she intends to file a Motion for Custody in the summer. Although we have not informed her of such, she must...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2007, 01:12 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,551
Posted By smadax
No end in Sight

We got called in because of a false report of physical abuse to the local Ministry of Children & Families by the ex-gf on Monday :mad: SW called yesterday and said we need to bring the children in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2007, 11:26 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,551
Posted By smadax
Been there, Done that

We've done all this stuff and brought it to the attention of the Judge requesting supervised access, unfortunately he was sympathetic and she got scheduled visitation and access. Hopefully all this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2007, 10:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,766
Posted By smadax
Change of Service

I thought I'd throw a question on this thread, since it's opened ;)

When I file a Motion and want to make a request to change the method of service to registered mail, do I have to serve that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-11-2007, 02:38 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,551
Posted By smadax
Follow Up

Their 12 year old son has always been the favored child and has blinders on. She's especially pressured him to relocate because she knows the Judge would take his opinion into consideration because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-10-2007, 04:41 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,551
Posted By smadax
Tentative Action

Our Agreement from July 2005 states:

"(Defendant) shall refrain from using illicit drugs and alcohol during all access visits and shall not permit persons who are under the influence of or are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-10-2007, 12:58 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,551
Posted By smadax
Visitation & Access Nightmare

This was the first visit since we'd had custody (two years) after ex-gf finally completed alcohol & drug rehab program. We decided to allow Spring Break visitation, a short trial. She lives 1508 km...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-14-2007, 01:55 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,780
Posted By smadax
Your right LV, thanks again! I really appreciate...

Your right LV, thanks again! I really appreciate the time and effort you put forth in your answers. ;)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-13-2007, 12:45 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,780
Posted By smadax
They have not facilitated her in anyway, in fact...

They have not facilitated her in anyway, in fact she's attempted a visitation with the child and the stepmother was very unkind and controlling. A long list of rules was left at my sisters Hotel...
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