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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 08:53 PM
Replies: 4
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Posted By Janus
You could have declined to take them. ...

You could have declined to take them.



"I would love to, unfortunately I am busy tonight. Our regular exchange is tomorrow at 9am, I'll see you tomorrow!"
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-15-2019, 04:03 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 407
Posted By Janus
Fathers who have left the house and go to...

Fathers who have left the house and go to retrieve their stuff often face unfounded claims of violence or threats. It is a high-risk procedure.

If you go to pick up your stuff, bring a friend who...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-15-2019, 04:01 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,188
Posted By Janus
Are you suggesting self-help or a motion?

Are you suggesting self-help or a motion?
Forum: General Chat 02-15-2019, 03:59 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 283
Posted By Janus
I don't like the sound of hospitalized, that...

I don't like the sound of hospitalized, that seems like the beginning of an insanity defense. Urg.
Forum: General Chat 02-15-2019, 03:50 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 283
Posted By Janus
My heart sank when I read that this morning. As...

My heart sank when I read that this morning. As a father who tries so hard to be the best parent I can possibly be, this really cut to the bone. I'm not a capital punishment person, I think the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-14-2019, 10:25 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 585
Posted By Janus
I still think he should pay her off. I...

I still think he should pay her off.


I just wanted to point out though that many pension plans will not in fact allow you to reimburse the money that was taken out for a family law division.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-14-2019, 09:58 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,188
Posted By Janus
The opposite actually, she is trying to stop...

The opposite actually, she is trying to stop 50-50 and keep the kids full time so she won't have to pay offset.


She is painting it with the usual colours of course: Best interests of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2019, 05:11 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 585
Posted By Janus
I agree, and I'm shocked that she would agree to...

I agree, and I'm shocked that she would agree to anything other than an immediate payment for equalization. She must not have a lawyer.

Warning: If she doesn't have a lawyer then your agreement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2019, 05:08 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 338
Posted By Janus
Lots of people pay child support to a house with...

Lots of people pay child support to a house with a higher standard of living even though they have shared custody. It isn't fair, but it is hard to fight.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-13-2019, 05:06 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,188
Posted By Janus
You of course don't care about money... ...

You of course don't care about money...



You clearly do not care about money...



Of course you do not, you have a high paying job. It sounds like he needs a loonie or two from you though.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2019, 04:53 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 407
Posted By Janus
In family law, sadly the old adage of "possession...

In family law, sadly the old adage of "possession is nine tenths of the law" strongly applies. You get to keep what you have, and she gets to keep what she has.

The value is of course addressed...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-07-2019, 06:04 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 321
Posted By Janus
You donít need another order. You already have...

You donít need another order. You already have an order. The link was ideas on how to get the money :)

That said, based on Canlii, it seems people often do not pay costs. Thatís why the idea...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-06-2019, 03:12 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 350
Posted By Janus
Yeah, that's even better. They might say they...

Yeah, that's even better. They might say they haven't started to pay it off yet, but a key feature of a loan (vs. a gift) is a concrete expectation of repayment.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2019, 03:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 380
Posted By Janus
This seems like a poor choice of hill to die on. ...

This seems like a poor choice of hill to die on.

I would respond: "Of course! I think that is a wonderful idea! I was always hoping that we would be able to have the kid on our birthdays, it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2019, 02:54 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 349
Posted By Janus
Readnotify is trivial to work around if the...

Readnotify is trivial to work around if the target is aware.

Even if target is unaware, (I believe) gmail for example scans mail for such things and will either disable them automatically or ask...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2019, 02:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 144
Posted By Janus
Usually if you try to hijack another thread you...

Usually if you try to hijack another thread you try to make your post at least marginally relevant to the original.

That said, if your offer is equivalent in every way (and I mean EVERY SINGLE...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2019, 02:39 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 144
Posted By Janus
Entitled as in "can A and B agree to do this?" or...

Entitled as in "can A and B agree to do this?" or entitled as in "can A do this even though B vociferously disagrees?"

I think the answer to the first case is "sure!" and the answer to the second...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-06-2019, 02:35 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 350
Posted By Janus
The alleged loan could have been granted during...

The alleged loan could have been granted during the marriage, and now the ex is looking for repayment. Robert might be trying to show that there was no loan.

The alleged loan could have been...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-06-2019, 12:37 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 321
Posted By Janus
https://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/...

https://www.attorneygeneral.jus.gov.on.ca/english/courts/guides/After_Judgement_Guide_to_Getting_Results_EN.html
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2019, 02:51 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,392
Posted By Janus
Similarly, it is not ALWAYS the case that going...

Similarly, it is not ALWAYS the case that going to school is useful for a child. However, it is reasonable to say that a child should go to school unless there is a good specific reason why they...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-05-2019, 02:39 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 585
Posted By Janus
Why not offer to split the pension at source, or...

Why not offer to split the pension at source, or at least part of the pension so that you do not have to come up with the cash?

For example, if you owe $30k, you can get 30k paid out from your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2019, 01:14 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 349
Posted By Janus
At first I was blown away as well. It was...

At first I was blown away as well. It was Trump-level lying, factual events were being denied. It almost made me feel crazy, because I could not believe that she would lie like that, so it made me...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2019, 09:31 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 630
Posted By Janus
My feeling as well. I still don't have a good...

My feeling as well. I still don't have a good grasp of summer's situation.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-05-2019, 09:29 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 585
Posted By Janus
What asset do you have that is causing you to owe...

What asset do you have that is causing you to owe this equalization payment?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 12:11 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 380
Posted By Janus
Maybe the lawyer does not like to work for free. ...

Maybe the lawyer does not like to work for free. I have a side job with customers, some who pay and some who think that they can get my services for free. I'll still engage with the latter (hoping...
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