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Forum: Financial Issues 02-14-2019, 08:53 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 98
Posted By arabian
I am not certain on how house purchasing works in...

I am not certain on how house purchasing works in your province. I think your ex very well may lose her deposit. (Time conditions in place?) That is, of course, assuming she put up a standard...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2019, 12:14 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 406
Posted By arabian
at 500 - 600.00/hr who in their right mind...

at 500 - 600.00/hr who in their right mind discusses dishes and used furniture with their lawyer?

Reality check is in order. Perhaps your lawyer is milking you?

Tell your ex to take what...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-14-2019, 12:08 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 585
Posted By arabian
[/B] So very true. I agree with...

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So very true.

I agree with Janus and Paris.
Pay her out asap.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-13-2019, 11:58 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,187
Posted By arabian
Money is a very big deal... to everyone whether...

Money is a very big deal... to everyone whether they admit it or not.

Realistically one has to weigh whether they are better off paying the ex some money without a fight. You say you are at...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-10-2019, 06:19 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,187
Posted By arabian
Huh? My bullshit meter is kind of wiggling now....

Huh? My bullshit meter is kind of wiggling now. In your other post you presented that you are a practicing dentist in early career. Now you indicate that you have 3 kids - one special needs. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-10-2019, 06:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 186
Posted By arabian
DISCLAIMER: Advice provided based on limited...

DISCLAIMER: Advice provided based on limited information poster provided. In another post she said she was not yet a certified board-licensed dentist.

First of all, the longer you and your...
Forum: General Chat 02-08-2019, 10:34 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 431
Posted By arabian
Great topic and I recall participating the last...

Great topic and I recall participating the last time this went around. So I've been living on my own now coming on 10 years this Summer. I agree with much of what you say above but I will add my...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2019, 02:58 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 321
Posted By arabian
In my situation costs were Ordered to be added to...

In my situation costs were Ordered to be added to arrears and collected by MEP.

I have heard of people retaining services of professionals to pursue civil collection procedures but I'm sure you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-08-2019, 02:52 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 471
Posted By arabian
Hi Ange - whatever your decision, I'd make sure...

Hi Ange - whatever your decision, I'd make sure you explain to your child unequivocally so child does not play parents against each other (kind of sounds like that might be happening here):
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2019, 03:59 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 630
Posted By arabian
A good first step for you is to learn (inside and...

A good first step for you is to learn (inside and out) the 3 basics types of Spousal Support.

Then look up differences in "traditional marriage", "short-term, medium, and long-term marriage" ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2019, 03:49 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 630
Posted By arabian
Spousal support is not like child support with a...

Spousal support is not like child support with a very specific monetary scale.

Spousal support is decided on the merits of the individual case and of course legal precedents and relative law. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-03-2019, 10:11 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 130
Posted By arabian
I believe it works out to 50% of increase of...

I believe it works out to 50% of increase of value of property from time of marriage to separation for equalization of assets. You mixed income from rental into your joint account.

Child support...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 10:05 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 630
Posted By arabian
I think you should focus on progress made to...

I think you should focus on progress made to self-sufficiency. Step-down spousal support with decreasing support, based on minimum wage to start, and a specific review date (3 years is reasonable). ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 05:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 218
Posted By arabian
"why wait for Spring? do it now" comes to my...

"why wait for Spring? do it now" comes to my mind. Some people schedule trial much earlier than you are contemplating.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 05:06 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 630
Posted By arabian
You cannot control someone who does not live with...

You cannot control someone who does not live with you (you shouldn't try to control someone who lives with you either).

Read up on "material change of circumstances"
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 12:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 218
Posted By arabian
Good to hear things are moving along. When...

Good to hear things are moving along.

When is trial scheduled? Sounds like judge is setting the table for change of custody?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 10:20 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 179
Posted By arabian
Lawyers make money when people fight. That is...

Lawyers make money when people fight. That is what it comes down to. Family court judges weren't born yesterday and understand "the game" of lying. Process is simple: one person lies on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 10:12 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 467
Posted By arabian
CanLii is a private entity and not all cases are...

CanLii is a private entity and not all cases are published. Actually, a very small amount of cases are published. Hopefully your friend's lawyer will provide her with a copy of decision. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 10:06 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 380
Posted By arabian
Did you pay the lawyer you had "consulted with...

Did you pay the lawyer you had "consulted with one off and on for past 4 months" who didn't require a retainer? No one should be expected to work for free. If you can't afford a lawyer then...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2019, 09:58 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 630
Posted By arabian
I would say "death" but then any arrears of SS...

I would say "death" but then any arrears of SS would be payable by deceased's estate to recipient. LOL.

You are best to look at CanII.org to get some ideas. Go to Ontario then Superior Court of...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-03-2019, 09:53 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 585
Posted By arabian
I personally believe that sooner, rather than...

I personally believe that sooner, rather than later, is the optimum way to handle this. Banks are in the business of lending. If someone can't scratch together available money then perhaps a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2019, 08:33 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 467
Posted By arabian
Hopefully you have done due diligence and can...

Hopefully you have done due diligence and can provide data/research on truck driver wages in your area (short haul) as well as long haul. Yes wages vary between owner-operator and driver but then so...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2019, 08:28 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 179
Posted By arabian
I think a justice would roll their eyes and order...

I think a justice would roll their eyes and order CS through FRO. Waste of taxpayers money if you can't see that. Unless you are one of those people who like to stay connected to their ex or...
Forum: Introductions 02-01-2019, 10:25 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 623
Posted By arabian
Good start. Hope you get more replies. ...

Good start. Hope you get more replies.

Keep in mind that you may not like responses. However, you might get some good advice. People on here have been through some part of legal process...
Forum: Introductions 02-01-2019, 09:50 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 623
Posted By arabian
See if you can put your situation in a similar...

See if you can put your situation in a similar condensed version (no longer than mine). Then you might get some responses.

Judges don't read lengthy submissions and neither do many on this...
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