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Forum: Financial Issues 09-16-2018, 07:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 157
Posted By Rioe
She's entitled to half the change in value of the...

She's entitled to half the change in value of the pension from date of marriage to date of separation. Your pension administrator can easily calculate this for you if you ask. They do it a lot.

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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 06:48 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 289
Posted By Rioe
Get the divorce or things can go in completely...

Get the divorce or things can go in completely unintended ways when you die. Even if you have a will.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2018, 09:46 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 193
Posted By Rioe
If she barely making ends meet on a disability...

If she barely making ends meet on a disability pension, her CS to you would be a negligible amount, and it makes sense that you would not bother with pursuing it. However, her share of your pension...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-31-2018, 07:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 253
Posted By Rioe
Tell him you can't decide which separation date...

Tell him you can't decide which separation date option to go with until you have financial disclosure for both dates.


Because that's true. You can't make a good decision without all the...
Forum: Introductions 07-27-2018, 02:25 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 682
Posted By Rioe
So the order FRO has is that he pays $30 a month...

So the order FRO has is that he pays $30 a month in arrears till it's paid off, but for some reason he paid it in full, lump sum to MEP? MEP has given it to FRO, but FRO can't do anything but pay it...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2018, 06:42 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 233
Posted By Rioe
If either parent incurs a s7 expense that they...

If either parent incurs a s7 expense that they both agree on, they share it proportional to income. It doesn't matter who has the most access to the children or who has sole custody.


A lot of...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-15-2018, 08:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 343
Posted By Rioe
Without division of finances, and a clear...

Without division of finances, and a clear separation date you both understand (and can prove legally) you are NOT separated. If you are buying a 'family' car you are NOT separated!



Tell her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2018, 08:02 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 2,148
Posted By Rioe
You should show up to court with some great keto...

You should show up to court with some great keto snacks to share with the staff and judge! Bring examples of the sort of nutritious and healthy food you feed yourself and your children, and would...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2018, 02:58 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 434
Posted By Rioe
Well, I won't jump on the mom-bashing wagon quite...

Well, I won't jump on the mom-bashing wagon quite that badly, but she really is milking both the disability AND child support systems here from the sounds of it, having the child coast along...
Forum: Political Issues 06-15-2018, 11:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 274
Posted By Rioe
Dividing by three isn't any harder than dividing...

Dividing by three isn't any harder than dividing by two, unless you have a serious math allergy.




Now I know my system is robust!
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2018, 05:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 294
Posted By Rioe
Several observations about this: You...

Several observations about this:


You can't forgo CS. It is the right of the child to be supported by both parents.



If you have been offsetting CS and SS and calling it a wash up to now,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-24-2018, 10:16 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,139
Posted By Rioe
Two points: You are clearly prioritizing...

Two points:


You are clearly prioritizing your new relationship over your children. There's no other way to spin this. Can't you wait and marry your new girlfriend in a year or two, after things...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2018, 08:46 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,514
Posted By Rioe
Yep. He's a dick, and you aren't. He limits...

Yep. He's a dick, and you aren't. He limits device usage and communication, and you don't. The kids will learn that people are different, households are different, and lessons taught by parents are...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-23-2018, 08:41 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 456
Posted By Rioe
He could probably have brief initial consultation...

He could probably have brief initial consultation with a few lawyers for free, and get a feel for what could happen. However, he will likely run into lawyers who tell a potential client what they...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-22-2018, 09:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 360
Posted By Rioe
He has to do a version of gray rock, that keeps...

He has to do a version of gray rock, that keeps his pain hidden but shows his unconditional love for his child.


"Thanks for the photo ordering link, honey, I'm so proud of you! I wish I could be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-13-2018, 02:08 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,139
Posted By Rioe
Well, you kind of did leave a mess behind, even...

Well, you kind of did leave a mess behind, even if you didn't create it intentionally, or solely.


You have a mess of a separation agreement that blends equalization, child support and spousal...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2018, 10:55 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,139
Posted By Rioe
That's a lot of words that says one clear thing....

That's a lot of words that says one clear thing. You are trying to make a bunch of things top priority in your life: your needs, your children's needs, and your new girlfriend's needs.


You gotta...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-11-2018, 09:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 604
Posted By Rioe
Why didn't she get ALL her stuff when she moved...

Why didn't she get ALL her stuff when she moved out? Arrange a time with her to come get all the rest of her things once and for all.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-10-2018, 07:06 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 894
Posted By Rioe
It's not helpful to your case, but I'd like to...

It's not helpful to your case, but I'd like to add for the benefit of others perhaps looking back at this thread some day for answers that may apply to their own case, that it is a perfect example of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-10-2018, 06:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 213
Posted By Rioe
So basically things are heading to a point where,...

So basically things are heading to a point where, if you lose, you aren't going to save any money on costs just because your opponent was self-represented instead of lawyered up. Less incentive for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-06-2018, 11:09 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 571
Posted By Rioe
Yup, they have to word it exactly the way CRA...

Yup, they have to word it exactly the way CRA needs to see it, showing that both parents are recipients.

State explicitly that mother pays father X amount and father pays mother Y amount, and...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:46 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 599
Posted By Rioe
I don't think you're doing the math right. ...

I don't think you're doing the math right.


Her income is $18k, so her CS would be only be a couple hundred dollars a month depending on how many kids you have. That's all the CS she would...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:40 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,295
Posted By Rioe
You are common-law, and the house belongs to him....

You are common-law, and the house belongs to him. You don't get anything out of it unless he added your name to the title. You've lived rent-free for 12 years; that's your benefit as far as that...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:25 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Posted By Rioe
Those are the two possibilities that could end up...

Those are the two possibilities that could end up happening.





If you want option 2, using the current value, she would argue that you would therefore need to repay her those back...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-25-2018, 09:43 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 690
Posted By Rioe
There are several ways you could look at the home...

There are several ways you could look at the home issue.


1) She paid all the expenses since you moved out, therefore she is entitled to all the increase in value of the home. You would use date...
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