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Forum: Financial Issues 03-31-2018, 12:22 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,309
Posted By piggybanktoex
My children were/are very well care for...

My children were/are very well care for financially thanks to me. All grown up now with very good father/child relationships. 50/50 when kids. And I paid for all the braces.

Once her future was...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-31-2018, 11:12 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,309
Posted By piggybanktoex
Typical Payees.....you "let her stay...

Typical Payees.....you "let her stay home".....you "picked her"......even though you can not force a wife/partner to work....after the tears of "I can't leave my baby in daycare"......who still...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-28-2018, 11:40 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 444
Posted By piggybanktoex
Just the fact that you had to work 70+ hours a...

Just the fact that you had to work 70+ hours a week and live in your car shows that your ex was most likely like my ex. Doesn't care and would demand more if she could. Thread carefully.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-10-2018, 09:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 201
Posted By piggybanktoex
You know you need to talk to a family law lawyer...

You know you need to talk to a family law lawyer and an accountant for that answer.

I hope you can do it. It's not like you aren't supporting your ex & kids.

And, of course, the ex is doing all...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-09-2018, 06:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 304
Posted By piggybanktoex
There you go again.....thinking that family law &...

There you go again.....thinking that family law & justice = fair....just saying
Forum: Reference 02-06-2018, 01:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 458
Posted By piggybanktoex
AND that is why Family Law sucks......there...

AND that is why Family Law sucks......there should have been no basic or ability to even go to court over such a stupid thing......
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2018, 10:56 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 541
Posted By piggybanktoex
Talk to a lawyer. But relax a bit. I...

Talk to a lawyer.

But relax a bit.

I assume that you have had the kids 50-50 for several years now. Read status quo. That should deal with full table CS issue.

She has to prove needed...
Forum: Political Issues 02-01-2018, 11:33 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 803
Posted By piggybanktoex
A lot of the conflict in divorce is because of CS...

A lot of the conflict in divorce is because of CS & SS.

50%-50% should allow for both parents to work, reducing or (ideally) no support payments and a more equal child support payment.

My one...
Forum: Political Issues 01-31-2018, 01:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 803
Posted By piggybanktoex
When my wife asked for a divorce, she already had...

When my wife asked for a divorce, she already had a honey in a distant location. She was happy to go 50%-50% without a word. It was just assumed.

Fast forward 6 months when she figured out that...
Forum: General Chat 01-30-2018, 08:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 341
Posted By piggybanktoex
Divorce papers in 2010....Payments end in 2027 ...

Divorce papers in 2010....Payments end in 2027

Fair, eh?
Forum: General Chat 01-15-2018, 03:48 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,873
Posted By piggybanktoex
Maybe it's because the men need to remain...

Maybe it's because the men need to remain productive at work in order to support the major percentage of the costs of two households.

I was lucky that that wasn't a concern as status quo was...
Forum: Political Issues 01-15-2018, 03:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 835
Posted By piggybanktoex
DEANNA DAWN, that's what happens when you marry...

DEANNA DAWN, that's what happens when you marry someone with a name like that.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2018, 03:38 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 254
Posted By piggybanktoex
Pick your battles....this ain't one of them. ...

Pick your battles....this ain't one of them.

Not worth the up-hill battle.

Ask for July. Much more normal and harder to argue about.

I had to deal with the exact same thing.
Forum: Divorce Support 01-14-2018, 05:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 551
Posted By piggybanktoex
YUP....what Links said. Don't imagine that...

YUP....what Links said.

Don't imagine that having kids would be the answer to everything.

Take care of yourself too.

She certainly will take care of herself, as she should.
Forum: Divorce Support 01-13-2018, 06:21 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 551
Posted By piggybanktoex
Arabian, A simple poll will breakdown as...

Arabian,

A simple poll will breakdown as follows:

Those that pay - UNFAIR $

Those that take - NOT ENOUGH $

Right or wrong, that will be the general feeling.
Forum: Divorce Support 01-13-2018, 05:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 551
Posted By piggybanktoex
Just figure out what is what according to Family...

Just figure out what is what according to Family Law, AND then just decide if you want to give her more.

Life is not simple and she could have left earlier, and would have if she wanted to have...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-12-2018, 08:14 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 333
Posted By piggybanktoex
Leave it buried in the corporation and use money...

Leave it buried in the corporation and use money to help kids directly when needed.

Also agree, marriage once was enough.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-09-2018, 11:47 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 478
Posted By piggybanktoex
Sad that he has to hide HIS money......good luck...

Sad that he has to hide HIS money......good luck in your search.

Or maybe earn your own money......just a thought.

I wish I had hid money......especially since I was accused of that with no...
Forum: General Chat 01-09-2018, 11:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 355
Posted By piggybanktoex
For the payor (mainly men) the divorce isn't...

For the payor (mainly men) the divorce isn't final until the last payment.

I will consider myself truly divorced in 2027. That's 18 years after the paperwork that said I was divorced.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-09-2018, 11:02 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,134
Posted By piggybanktoex
I love my GF of the last 10 years, but after the...

I love my GF of the last 10 years, but after the divorce I had, I am not interested in living together or (God Forbid) ever getting married again.

My income was reduced by 3/4 after all the damage...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2018, 09:44 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 448
Posted By piggybanktoex
What really sucked for me was, even as I...

What really sucked for me was, even as I described in detail what her extreme demands meant to my life, my career, my business and my ability to make an income to pay her and support the kids....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2018, 09:31 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 573
Posted By piggybanktoex
WOW, just WOW.

WOW, just WOW.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2018, 02:16 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 448
Posted By piggybanktoex
Lawyer up and defend yourself......nobody else...

Lawyer up and defend yourself......nobody else will.

Demand 50-50% with kids, pay only what you should, and not more than you need to.

Spend up front with a lawyer, and not for years after...
Forum: General Chat 01-06-2018, 02:04 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,873
Posted By piggybanktoex
As stated, my opinion only.....and there could be...

As stated, my opinion only.....and there could be other factors, including evil, I suppose. I will stand by my point of view as a valid version until and if we learn more. Which I doubt we will.
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Forum: General Chat 01-06-2018, 01:00 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,873
Posted By piggybanktoex
While completely disagreeing with the whole tone...

While completely disagreeing with the whole tone of Triton comments concerning this tragic event, I can see where the incredible stress of divorce, support, CS, parental alienation, ex-spouse...
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