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Forum: Political Issues 06-15-2018, 11:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 158
Posted By Rioe
Dividing by three isn't any harder than dividing...

Dividing by three isn't any harder than dividing by two, unless you have a serious math allergy.




Now I know my system is robust!
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2018, 05:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 177
Posted By Rioe
Several observations about this: You...

Several observations about this:


You can't forgo CS. It is the right of the child to be supported by both parents.



If you have been offsetting CS and SS and calling it a wash up to now,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-24-2018, 10:16 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,067
Posted By Rioe
Two points: You are clearly prioritizing...

Two points:


You are clearly prioritizing your new relationship over your children. There's no other way to spin this. Can't you wait and marry your new girlfriend in a year or two, after things...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2018, 08:46 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,356
Posted By Rioe
Yep. He's a dick, and you aren't. He limits...

Yep. He's a dick, and you aren't. He limits device usage and communication, and you don't. The kids will learn that people are different, households are different, and lessons taught by parents are...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-23-2018, 08:41 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 390
Posted By Rioe
He could probably have brief initial consultation...

He could probably have brief initial consultation with a few lawyers for free, and get a feel for what could happen. However, he will likely run into lawyers who tell a potential client what they...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-22-2018, 09:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 255
Posted By Rioe
He has to do a version of gray rock, that keeps...

He has to do a version of gray rock, that keeps his pain hidden but shows his unconditional love for his child.


"Thanks for the photo ordering link, honey, I'm so proud of you! I wish I could be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-13-2018, 02:08 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,067
Posted By Rioe
Well, you kind of did leave a mess behind, even...

Well, you kind of did leave a mess behind, even if you didn't create it intentionally, or solely.


You have a mess of a separation agreement that blends equalization, child support and spousal...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2018, 10:55 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,067
Posted By Rioe
That's a lot of words that says one clear thing....

That's a lot of words that says one clear thing. You are trying to make a bunch of things top priority in your life: your needs, your children's needs, and your new girlfriend's needs.


You gotta...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-11-2018, 09:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 549
Posted By Rioe
Why didn't she get ALL her stuff when she moved...

Why didn't she get ALL her stuff when she moved out? Arrange a time with her to come get all the rest of her things once and for all.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-10-2018, 07:06 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 819
Posted By Rioe
It's not helpful to your case, but I'd like to...

It's not helpful to your case, but I'd like to add for the benefit of others perhaps looking back at this thread some day for answers that may apply to their own case, that it is a perfect example of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-10-2018, 06:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 175
Posted By Rioe
So basically things are heading to a point where,...

So basically things are heading to a point where, if you lose, you aren't going to save any money on costs just because your opponent was self-represented instead of lawyered up. Less incentive for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-06-2018, 11:09 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 526
Posted By Rioe
Yup, they have to word it exactly the way CRA...

Yup, they have to word it exactly the way CRA needs to see it, showing that both parents are recipients.

State explicitly that mother pays father X amount and father pays mother Y amount, and...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:46 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 384
Posted By Rioe
I don't think you're doing the math right. ...

I don't think you're doing the math right.


Her income is $18k, so her CS would be only be a couple hundred dollars a month depending on how many kids you have. That's all the CS she would...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:40 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 698
Posted By Rioe
You are common-law, and the house belongs to him....

You are common-law, and the house belongs to him. You don't get anything out of it unless he added your name to the title. You've lived rent-free for 12 years; that's your benefit as far as that...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:25 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 328
Posted By Rioe
Those are the two possibilities that could end up...

Those are the two possibilities that could end up happening.





If you want option 2, using the current value, she would argue that you would therefore need to repay her those back...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-25-2018, 09:43 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 328
Posted By Rioe
There are several ways you could look at the home...

There are several ways you could look at the home issue.


1) She paid all the expenses since you moved out, therefore she is entitled to all the increase in value of the home. You would use date...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-25-2018, 09:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 384
Posted By Rioe
If your salaries are that far apart, offset in a...

If your salaries are that far apart, offset in a 50-50 situation isn't going to be that much less money for her.
Forum: Political Issues 04-22-2018, 06:53 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 801
Posted By Rioe
My guess is that, sadly, it is most likely due to...

My guess is that, sadly, it is most likely due to the higher aboriginal population there. The text notes that the territories are even higher. Intergenerational trauma has really damaged them in so...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-22-2018, 06:47 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 287
Posted By Rioe
But he's said that this is unrequired daycare....

But he's said that this is unrequired daycare. And on top of that, she made the choice unilaterally to do it anyway, and chose someone who wasn't impartial.
Forum: Political Issues 04-22-2018, 03:20 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 801
Posted By Rioe
I think both genders can be controlling, it's...

I think both genders can be controlling, it's just that it's usually expressed differently. Men control more through physicality, by being physically abusive or intimidating, and women control more...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-22-2018, 03:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 287
Posted By Rioe
Hey, I wouldn't pay a daycare that wasn't needed...

Hey, I wouldn't pay a daycare that wasn't needed because I was available to care for the children, that I didn't have any say in choosing, and who was assisting the mother to alienate me from my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-22-2018, 03:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 665
Posted By Rioe
To be honest, I would probably have internal...

To be honest, I would probably have internal conniptions if my ex's girlfriend showed up to the kids' medical appointments. She has no medical decision-making authority for them, and the kids don't...
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-19-2018, 08:41 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 318
Posted By Rioe
People get away with murder when police muck up...

People get away with murder when police muck up the investigation, yes. Awful situation.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-19-2018, 08:17 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 978
Posted By Rioe
Also read WorkingDad's case for how to fight a...

Also read WorkingDad's case for how to fight a status quo established on false pretenses.


https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2011/2011onsc6451/2011onsc6451.html
Forum: Financial Issues 04-16-2018, 06:02 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,026
Posted By Rioe
I'd be giving the exact same advice to a woman...

I'd be giving the exact same advice to a woman who moved away from a man, or to someone leaving a same-sex couple.


He has no access to the child. Therefore he owes full CS to the parent who...
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