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Forum: Parenting Issues 05-31-2018, 09:49 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 963
Posted By climber9
Great discussion everyone thanks for joining in! ...

Great discussion everyone thanks for joining in!

Tayken, my ex was trying to claim primary care, not me.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-31-2018, 09:34 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 335
Posted By climber9
Depending on the age of the child they may not...

Depending on the age of the child they may not know how to make an appropriate decision in this case.

If the child chose lessons over the picture, it's an opportunity to teach about being part...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-25-2018, 10:56 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 963
Posted By climber9
The safety of my child.

The safety of my child.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-25-2018, 10:09 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 963
Posted By climber9
Car seat

I found out my ex is using a booster seat for our child and they weigh under 40 lbs which is the requirement for the booster seat and the law in Ontario. Looking for opinions on how to handle this.
Forum: General Chat 02-15-2018, 10:08 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 491
Posted By climber9
I found that the emails were being routed into my...

I found that the emails were being routed into my junk email (hotmail). Strange considering I don't think I changed anything to cause this.

Sorry for the slow reply.
Forum: General Chat 01-30-2018, 05:42 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 491
Posted By climber9
Hi Jeff, as of around the time of this...

Hi Jeff, as of around the time of this maintenance I have not been receiving my email updates to the forums I'm subscribed to. I checked in the User CP and it still looks like I am subscribed. Any...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2018, 08:16 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 708
Posted By climber9
Thank you Arabian. Just to clarify our agreement...

Thank you Arabian. Just to clarify our agreement is not court ordered.

Thanks Stillbreathing. I'm past the daycare issue, that was 3 years ago. We ended up going to a mediator and my ex agreed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2018, 07:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 365
Posted By climber9
Thanks Janus We are each allowed 2 weeks...

Thanks Janus

We are each allowed 2 weeks each year for vacation. The dates are not pre- determined.

For vacation within Canada the agreement states that I notify the other parent about the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2018, 10:13 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 365
Posted By climber9
Thanks. I forgot to mention my ex is refusing to...

Thanks. I forgot to mention my ex is refusing to agree to the vacation days I have requested unless I agree with the video calls.

My ex is requesting we setup mediation to sort this out.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2018, 09:35 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 365
Posted By climber9
Video chat everyday on vacation

My ex wants to video chat with my kids every day while on vacation (for a week or two). Note that we have nearly 50/50 time sharing and joint custody on all issues.

What is the general feeling...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-07-2017, 08:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 854
Posted By climber9
Thanks again everyone. What is the 'primary'...

Thanks again everyone.

What is the 'primary' parent. I've never heard that one before. We have joint decision making (on everything) and very nearly 50/50 time, so I've assumed the law says we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-05-2017, 09:32 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 854
Posted By climber9
Thank you arabian. Actually, my ex is still...

Thank you arabian.

Actually, my ex is still seeing the guy she left me for 3 years ago, so she has moved on!

Yes, my ex would freak if I got a nanny. Besides there is the right of first...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-05-2017, 08:50 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 854
Posted By climber9
Thank you Rioe. I agree the focus is on the...

Thank you Rioe.

I agree the focus is on the kids, thank you for reinforcing that. Although I think adjusting for both parents work / lifestyle should count too. (but I know what I think sometimes...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-05-2017, 05:15 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 854
Posted By climber9
Ex does not want to change parenting schedule

3 years ago my ex threatened to take me to court to get full custody of my two children when we were separating (I received a nasty letter from her lawyer). I did not want to take the risk, so I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-21-2017, 09:50 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 794
Posted By climber9
In my opinion it's not too early to plan who pays...

In my opinion it's not too early to plan who pays for post secondary. My kids are both under 5 and I want to come up with a plan now. I suggested 1/3 1/3 1/3. I can see it now, that if I have more...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-17-2017, 12:23 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 925
Posted By climber9
So RRSP withdrawals are added to line 150? ...

So RRSP withdrawals are added to line 150?

But RRSP deposits are not subtracted from line 150, correct?

If that is the case, I think RRSP withdrawals should be ignored for child support...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2017, 07:13 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,013
Posted By climber9
Offset child child support and standard of living

My ex purchased and moved into a million dollar house from a $700k house (somehow on 60k / yr salary).

I make more than my ex and I pay offset child support of $400 / month.

Obviously she...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2017, 08:50 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 726
Posted By climber9
Great advice, thank you!

Great advice, thank you!
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-01-2017, 03:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 726
Posted By climber9
Kids starting to act out

I have two daughters ages 3 and 5.

They are starting to act out in day care / school, mostly issues in dealings between other kids like not being nice, being bossy. My five year old has a friend...
Forum: General Chat 04-30-2017, 11:54 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,376
Posted By climber9
I just read through most of the case, and I...

I just read through most of the case, and I haven't read many cases before.

I was surprised how informal and casual the judges words were.

Most legal related documents I read I find hard to...
Forum: General Chat 04-27-2017, 10:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 902
Posted By climber9
Since finding this site it has not changed my...

Since finding this site it has not changed my direction.

Had I found this site 5 years before my separation I probably would have changed direction and I would be much better off right now...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-21-2017, 07:59 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 336
Posted By climber9
Ex not wanting to split divorce cost

I can't figure this one out. Been separated for 3 years with a separation agreement in place.

Both of us acknowledge that we will never get back together.

Ex won't share the lawyer fees to get...
Forum: General Chat 02-07-2017, 10:31 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 759
Posted By climber9
In my opinion answer simply and factually and...

In my opinion answer simply and factually and ignore the rudeness.

I think my ex wants a reaction, so I just ignore the antics.

I finally see how much she would push my buttons while we were...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-19-2017, 05:53 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 730
Posted By climber9
Thanks for your replies. Okay hear you loud...

Thanks for your replies.

Okay hear you loud and clear on the flu shot.

Substitute flu shot for something more serious.

I'm more interested in what the deterrent and repercussions are for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-19-2017, 02:14 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 730
Posted By climber9
Thank you good advice. So it still would...

Thank you good advice.

So it still would have been a clear breach of the agreement as she made a medical decision without me.

What is the deterrent, or potential penalty for this breach of...
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