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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-16-2018, 10:42 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 153
Posted By Berner_Faith
To me 7 days would be Friday to Friday or...

To me 7 days would be Friday to Friday or Saturday to Saturday, something like that... if it doesnít specify pick up time then thatís something that has to be agreed upon but it should go the same...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-16-2018, 09:09 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 553
Posted By Berner_Faith
No need to get defensive in every post. YOU...

No need to get defensive in every post. YOU mentioned your partner so naturally people are going to comment on that, if you didnít want that to happen then leave that detail out.

You can file for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2018, 07:52 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 215
Posted By Berner_Faith
Is it possible you two are not on good terms...

Is it possible you two are not on good terms because neither of you are flexible?

If you have no plans why say no just to say no? That doesnít necessarily seem beneficial to the kids. Itís very...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-13-2018, 07:27 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 572
Posted By Berner_Faith
Sure you can but without an agreement even after...

Sure you can but without an agreement even after the divorce she can come back on you and request whatever she wants. Iím not sure what youíre not understanding from the posters here. You are setting...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2018, 03:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 227
Posted By Berner_Faith
Well if money is exchanging hands both ways then...

Well if money is exchanging hands both ways then if you stop paying her she will stop paying you so really you are no further ahead. I honestly wouldnít even expect that overpayment back but thatís...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2018, 01:59 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 227
Posted By Berner_Faith
If she is paying you... how are you paying her?...

If she is paying you... how are you paying her? or are you paying her full CS and in turn sheís paying you back full CS?


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Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2018, 07:25 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 572
Posted By Berner_Faith
As long as the inheritance hasnít been mingled in...

As long as the inheritance hasnít been mingled in family assets she canít touch that. Any money used for family assets or in joint accounts becomes subject to equalization.

I am sure your house...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-04-2018, 07:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 166
Posted By Berner_Faith
Basically CS should be paid based on current...

Basically CS should be paid based on current income, however most people use the annual adjustment method which is seems like you do. If thatís the case when you get his 2018 taxes and NOA then all...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2018, 07:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 154
Posted By Berner_Faith
What is said activity? If itís a summer activity...

What is said activity? If itís a summer activity the schedule is most likely available by now.

As mentioned above, you donít have to pay if you didnít agree but if she wants your contribution...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-01-2018, 05:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 463
Posted By Berner_Faith
How far is aunts house from your house? Go for...

How far is aunts house from your house? Go for dinner and take the kids back to your place for pick up... honestly you are both creating unnecessary drama... him for not wanting to pick up at aunts...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-30-2018, 07:08 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,067
Posted By Berner_Faith
I agree with Kate that it shouldnít be the child...

I agree with Kate that it shouldnít be the child forced into a long distance relationship... you should be able to get to your child quickly, you should be attending school functions and extra...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-29-2018, 09:00 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 783
Posted By Berner_Faith
$1000 a year is such a small, small amount you...

$1000 a year is such a small, small amount you would look silly to even bring it up. If he is paid by a company it makes it difficult to hide funds, if he was self employed that would be different....
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-26-2018, 03:12 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 963
Posted By Berner_Faith
What does the child weigh and how tall is the...

What does the child weigh and how tall is the child? Some children outgrow car seats height wise long before they do weight wise. Why not simply tell your ex you disagree and see what she says? Maybe...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-24-2018, 08:30 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 141
Posted By Berner_Faith
Fortunately for us my step kids school is really...

Fortunately for us my step kids school is really good at sending two of everything... maybe when it comes to the grade 8 trip it will be different but I think he would still get the info.

In my...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-24-2018, 08:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 141
Posted By Berner_Faith
School Trips

Would a $600 school trip fall under S7 in the following situation?

Parent A income $45000
Parent B income $54000
Patent B pays Parent A $823 per month in CS

Parent B has EOW and pays for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-20-2018, 02:40 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,356
Posted By Berner_Faith
Agreements are only worth the paper they are...

Agreements are only worth the paper they are written on when it comes to laws... unless you have a reasonable ex. There are many clauses in many agreements that are not enforceable. It takes...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-20-2018, 01:20 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,356
Posted By Berner_Faith
So my husbandís situation is a little different....

So my husbandís situation is a little different. Mom has the children the majority of the time and dad EOW... Dad will call and text the children and get zero response... when he does finally hear...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-15-2018, 08:09 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 5,383
Posted By Berner_Faith
I may be wrong but unless you both can attend the...

I may be wrong but unless you both can attend the court house together you canít file jointly... you can however do an uncontested divorce... I believe in that case only one of you have to attend. Or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-13-2018, 06:27 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 549
Posted By Berner_Faith
My understanding is this is when both parties are...

My understanding is this is when both parties are still living in the home and one applies for exclusive possession the other has to leave. In this case the ex has moved out and has their own...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2018, 04:54 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 549
Posted By Berner_Faith
I donít think this is true... ex moved out and...

I donít think this is true... ex moved out and has a new place, just because she is part owner of the property doesnít give her the right to come and go. Essentially they are basically in a landlord...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-10-2018, 07:41 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 976
Posted By Berner_Faith
This... You canít argue you want more time...

This...

You canít argue you want more time when you donít live in Canada and donít have a residence. Get yourself settled so the children can see you more and then try to argue for more access
...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-09-2018, 06:17 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 570
Posted By Berner_Faith
The whole tax refund thing doesnít make sense. If...

The whole tax refund thing doesnít make sense. If they are separated he should have done his own taxes and therefore changed his banking info. If he wasnít responsible enough to change his own...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-09-2018, 02:27 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 222
Posted By Berner_Faith
Rockscan is correct... even if CS stops you would...

Rockscan is correct... even if CS stops you would still be on the hook for some of the living expenses/college expenses... that is unless both you and your ex decide neither of you are paying for her...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-05-2018, 02:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 241
Posted By Berner_Faith
My sister and her ex both claim it... they both...

My sister and her ex both claim it... they both get half of what they would get if they had full custody. Nothing in their agreement about who claims what... if you are in shared custody you can...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2018, 06:31 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 354
Posted By Berner_Faith
Agreed... will depend on the favour... always...

Agreed... will depend on the favour... always take the kids extra if you can, even if she wonít take them when you need her too


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