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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-21-2020, 10:33 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 259
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Covid-19 laid off: support payment?

Just temporarily laid-off due to lack off work. I'm going to be applying for my $500 per week of EI, but what about the support I have to pay? Am I expected to get back out there and find work? Weird...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-21-2020, 10:28 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 545
Posted By Heart-broken dad
So how did it turn out?

So how did it turn out?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2020, 02:08 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 545
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Dropping out of post-secondary

Daughter is over 18. She keeps enrolling in classes, then dropping out a few months into it. I have arrears and currently paying through FRO. The problem is that I'd like my support to go towards my...
Forum: Common Law Issues 11-21-2017, 10:47 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,712
Posted By Heart-broken dad
And, if she's in a completely different...

And, if she's in a completely different jurisdiction 6 hours away, does that mean that's where I have to go to file the motion? Even though no one was advised of the move?
Forum: Common Law Issues 11-21-2017, 10:30 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,712
Posted By Heart-broken dad
What are my chances to reduce my arrears?

Now 10 years since I left her. Messy, messy, messy.... I had agreed to pay $700 per month as per guidelines for my 2 children and even agreed to pay an extra $500 per month for extra expenses....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-19-2017, 05:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,004
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Stephen Pender in Ottawa. Completely useless....

Stephen Pender in Ottawa. Completely useless. Lost track of how many times I asked for my custody & access report. He kept making empty promises, just passing time until my eldest one finally turned...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2017, 06:15 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,004
Posted By Heart-broken dad
10 years, still no report.

10 years, still no report.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-25-2017, 07:05 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 619
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Child turns 18, now what?

So my oldest is turning 18, what should a ncp do? I rarely get to see her or talk to her, I don't know if she's still in school. I don't have her personal contact info, can I ask the ex's lawyer to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2017, 09:10 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 749
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Ex has moved away with our children

So, it finally happened: the ex has moved 700 kms away with our children. This comes after 10 years of on-going parental alienation where I rarely had a chance to see them. She didn't notify her...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-12-2012, 03:23 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,693
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Thank you everyone. Really, thank you for showing...

Thank you everyone. Really, thank you for showing that I really am a horrible person and father and that there's really only one option left for me.
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-12-2012, 01:27 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,693
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Thank you to the last two people who posted for...

Thank you to the last two people who posted for being completely useless....

If you're crossing a border, you need a passport. If you don't have one, they won't let you cross. If you travel across...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-12-2012, 12:34 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,693
Posted By Heart-broken dad
But I still can't get my head around as to how...

But I still can't get my head around as to how she managed to take the kids out of the country without me signing any documents! Am I missing something? Is there a way to do this that I'm not aware...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-12-2012, 07:41 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,693
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Just found out she went to the States, WITH THE KIDS!!!!

Ok, we don't have a custody agreement, nor do we have a visitation agreement (although we're working on one right now), and I'm the ncp who sees his children whenever the cp feels like it.

I just...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2011, 12:23 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,071
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Getting laid-off, EI, and Legal Aid

My current situation is NCP,living in Ontario, and self-repped (because that's all I can afford) and I'm currently making a little too much to be getting Legal Aid.

My questions are: 1) Can you...
Forum: Domestic Violence 09-28-2011, 11:52 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,379
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Along the lines of "statute of limitation"...

My ex seems to have always been able to get away with her past behaviour, no matter how bad it was, simply because she can afford a lawyer and I can't. As an example, she has admitted, in court...
Forum: General Chat 09-28-2011, 11:29 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,469
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Yeah, I read that one. I haven't seen my...

Yeah, I read that one. I haven't seen my daughters in 18 months because she decided to end my parental time shortly after I got re-married. I've been pushing the OCL to take charge, but the ex and...
Forum: Introductions 09-28-2011, 11:25 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 4,443
Posted By Heart-broken dad
I hope your ex will be smart enough not to mess...

I hope your ex will be smart enough not to mess up her relationship with your daughter. Definitely keep encouraging your daughter to communicate with her mom, whatever happens. Take the high road.....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-18-2011, 05:12 PM
Replies: 192
Views: 29,732
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Only one word could describe my 3 years of...

Only one word could describe my 3 years of dealing with the OCL: Useless.

What is the point of the OCL if they can't have the same power as a regular lawyer? To me, for a lawyer to take part in...
Forum: General Chat 07-18-2011, 04:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 982
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Your partner is a very lucky person to have you.

Your partner is a very lucky person to have you.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2011, 09:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,189
Posted By Heart-broken dad
"You should be requesting consent for the whole...

"You should be requesting consent for the whole file from CAS. If they won't consent to the release of the investigation go for a motion for it."

How does one go about doing this? Is it requested...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2011, 08:40 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,033
Posted By Heart-broken dad
This thread confuses me. If the children have...

This thread confuses me. If the children have only one surving parent, that parent should have defacto custody, unless there's something terribly wrong with that parent. Whether the children see your...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-17-2011, 08:32 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,348
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Thanks for all the replies! I still feel...

Thanks for all the replies!

I still feel that not enough if available, as far as litterature, for kids. My first impression of the OCL was that they would represent the children's best interest...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2011, 12:50 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,348
Posted By Heart-broken dad
I have to make clear that I have NEVER used my...

I have to make clear that I have NEVER used my children as pawns. The ex however.....

My eldest has confided to me and to the OCL that she wants to spend more time with me, but, doesn't know how...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2011, 02:26 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,348
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Books about children's rights, for kids?

One of my children will be turning 12 soon. I'm hesitant in mentioning that what they say / think, about visitations and where they live, is about to go a lot further than it used to when it comes...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-28-2011, 09:43 AM
Replies: 192
Views: 29,732
Posted By Heart-broken dad
Here's the latest in my situation: My two...

Here's the latest in my situation: My two children want to spend more time with me. They've mentioned this on several occasions to the OCL. Our visitation agreement is realllly vague, where it's...
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