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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2020, 02:29 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,564
Posted By seeker101
Yep. Same thing on my end. What's funny is that...

Yep. Same thing on my end. What's funny is that my ex messaged me saying she will "definitely" not allow mid-week overnights. Within 2 days, when it became apparent that motion will proceed, I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2020, 11:36 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,564
Posted By seeker101
Update: After a month of frustrating negotiations...

Update: After a month of frustrating negotiations and filing an emergency motion, I finally obtained an order for access on consent.
While the Pazaratz ruling alone and a mere threat of motion got...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-29-2020, 07:43 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,322
Posted By seeker101
Right, but I was just wondering, how was she able...

Right, but I was just wondering, how was she able to pay her lawyer and drag this matter out for so long? If it cost you a good $300k that could've been spent on the child, what did it cost her? How...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-29-2020, 06:14 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,564
Posted By seeker101
Sorry I posted in your sticky/clean thread before...

Sorry I posted in your sticky/clean thread before realizing there was this thread.

Anyways, as I mentioned in my original post, in my situation, there is no court order for parenting time right...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-29-2020, 06:04 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,322
Posted By seeker101
This is so difficult to read and fathom. How can...

This is so difficult to read and fathom. How can the courts allow this to continue for this long? How is your ex able to litigate so relentlessly... Has she been/is she on legal aid?

I have my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-27-2020, 10:54 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 3,174
Posted By seeker101
Oh my god, thank you so much for sharing this ......

Oh my god, thank you so much for sharing this ... this is exactly what I needed. Justice Pazaratz, as always, has raised some very logical and valid points.

In my situation, although, there is no...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-26-2020, 11:28 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 701
Posted By seeker101
Did the order say that it will terminate once...

Did the order say that it will terminate once child turns 19? If not, then agency can't even terminate it in the first place. You would have had to apply to the courts to have that order terminated...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-25-2020, 10:40 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 701
Posted By seeker101
How can FRO determine what amount is owed......

How can FRO determine what amount is owed... their mandate is to simply enforce?

I'm guessing currently there is a child support order which FRO is enforcing? Is it table amount? Is your ex now...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-07-2020, 12:28 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,429
Posted By seeker101
Thank you all for the advice. I have not reached...

Thank you all for the advice. I have not reached out to CAS and to be honest, didn't expect them to magically fix the issue as well.

What I was expecting is an independent third party to...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-06-2020, 09:56 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 968
Posted By seeker101
I can sympathize and relate with your experience....

I can sympathize and relate with your experience. I went through a similar emotional state where I fantasized a happy ending with my ex and kid.

Through couples counseling, I came to the...
Forum: Political Issues 01-24-2020, 11:42 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,675
Posted By seeker101
With all due respect to the actual victims of DV,...

With all due respect to the actual victims of DV, I think there should be equal accountability/punishment for perpetrators of false accusations in terms of perjury, mischief or obstruction of justice...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-23-2019, 05:50 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,429
Posted By seeker101
I never bring up such things with my daughter so...

I never bring up such things with my daughter so this comment is not applicable here but generally true.



My intention here was to bring it on record. She didn't deny it but just ignored it....
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-23-2019, 12:50 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,429
Posted By seeker101
reporting potential emotional abuse to CAS

Before taking action, I thought I'd get the opinion of the forum. This past weekend when my 3y old daughter (about to be 4) was with me, all of a sudden and totally out of the blue, she tells me the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-07-2019, 08:12 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 396
Posted By seeker101
That site is outdated. Kinso is right, Rule...

That site is outdated. Kinso is right, Rule 17(13) states briefs must be served no later than 6 days (weekends and holidays do not count).

The responding party has no later than 4 days to file...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-02-2019, 11:24 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 688
Posted By seeker101
Thanks for the solid advice. It eases my mind...

Thanks for the solid advice. It eases my mind knowing police has no jurisdiction and I'm well within my rights to not engage with them. I haven't even informed the ex that police contacted me.
...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-01-2019, 04:05 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 688
Posted By seeker101
No, I really don't, lol. Just wasn't sure if I'm...

No, I really don't, lol. Just wasn't sure if I'm obligated to return the officer's call. I will not be calling back the police but rather, will write to the ex saying if she really is that concerned...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-30-2019, 11:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 688
Posted By seeker101
Videotaping during exchanges

As some of you may know, I was charged with assault on ex and after trial, it was dismissed. Tbh, I am traumatized by that experience and don't want to have more allegations thrown at me. This is why...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2019, 12:22 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 608
Posted By seeker101
My ex had me charged for assault. The police...

My ex had me charged for assault. The police charged/arrested me purely on her word (did not even listen to my version of events). I did not take any plea deal and fought it till the end to clear my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-31-2019, 12:09 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,163
Posted By seeker101
Assuming one has the SIN of a child, why would a...

Assuming one has the SIN of a child, why would a grandparent need approval of the ex? Isn't it totally the grandparents' discretion?

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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 09:28 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,428
Posted By seeker101
I feel the same... knowing my ex and the stunts...

I feel the same... knowing my ex and the stunts she's pulled in the past, I'm afraid PC will just be a waste of money if it's not binding.

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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 01:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,163
Posted By seeker101
I had also opened a joint (not group) RESP at a...

I had also opened a joint (not group) RESP at a major bank for our daughter. After separation, ex unilaterally withdrew all the money and closed the account. Thankfully, we had just opened it and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-29-2019, 11:30 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,428
Posted By seeker101
That would work if their decision is binding. Or...

That would work if their decision is binding. Or will we have to agree first that decision of parenting coordinator is final?

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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-29-2019, 10:58 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,428
Posted By seeker101
Sorry for the duplicate post, I've edited it.

Sorry for the duplicate post, I've edited it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-29-2019, 10:58 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,428
Posted By seeker101
Thanks for the feedback Tayken. I have asked for...

Thanks for the feedback Tayken. I have asked for gradual access expansion incl overnights as well.

Officially, it is still supervised access but for the last 4 months or so, I had been seeing my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-28-2019, 09:56 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,428
Posted By seeker101
The criminal case is finally done. I've been...

The criminal case is finally done. I've been found not guilty and all criminal charges are dropped.

I have sent the consent form to ex's lawyer for signature.

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