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Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 11:58 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 515
Posted By rockscan
A) this case was settled as outlined by this...

A) this case was settled as outlined by this poster in another thread.

B) if you are posting in an attempt to market your services (you shared links in another thread) that is not allowed.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-12-2020, 08:02 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 425
Posted By rockscan
They are tax deductible for a recipient not a...

They are tax deductible for a recipient not a payor. If you had to pay a lawyer to help you receive support then you get a tax deduction on certain legal fees and your lawyer will provide the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2020, 12:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
If you have a date of separation before they buy...

If you have a date of separation before they buy their house then I believe you can’t put a claim on it anyway so their worry is moot.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-12-2020, 09:18 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 141
Posted By rockscan
Janus beat me to my comment so I will echo it...

Janus beat me to my comment so I will echo it that what happens on dads time is his business. I would also add that the 12yo tell you what you want to hear.

That said, you should not be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2020, 06:29 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 141
Posted By rockscan
Are you planning to keep your children home from...

Are you planning to keep your children home from school in the fall? Do you keep them home 24/7 and away from others now? Are you in an area that has a high number of cases with community spread?
...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-11-2020, 02:32 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 426
Posted By rockscan
Is there some more detail you can provide? ...

Is there some more detail you can provide?

Why is this happening now?
How long have you lived in another city?
What precipitated the move?
Was there any agreement before?
Is there an...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 09:37 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 426
Posted By rockscan
I’m not assuming anything. OP stated she moved...

I’m not assuming anything. OP stated she moved and this has been the situation for a period of time. There was no agreement to reduce for her move and a judge will ask why suddenly it is an issue. OP...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 07:14 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 148
Posted By rockscan
FRO is complicated in that you need a new order...

FRO is complicated in that you need a new order to update every time. So you spend three months getting a new order this year and then have to do the same thing next year again. Same for the year...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 07:09 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 426
Posted By rockscan
If you had read the thread you would have seen...

If you had read the thread you would have seen she said her ex is trying to stop paying child support claiming his costs for parenting access are too high suddenly. He has had no problem for several...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 09:39 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 148
Posted By rockscan
Yes but if he thinks he can get away with it...

Yes but if he thinks he can get away with it early he will keep doing it. Having to pay your costs will remind him that it is a costly stand to take.

I have a feeling your ex is trying to exert...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 09:05 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 426
Posted By rockscan
What is reasonable for you is not what is...

What is reasonable for you is not what is reasonable for the court. Dad consented to the move without any conditions. That is the key. He should have asked for a reduction in cs as consent for the...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 09:01 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 148
Posted By rockscan
No they won’t. I think for that you would...

No they won’t.

I think for that you would need to file a form 20 request for disclosure. Then go through the courts.

FRO only enforces what is in the order so if his income goes up, you need a...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-09-2020, 02:08 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 426
Posted By rockscan
Then the onus will be on him to prove it and a...

Then the onus will be on him to prove it and a judge will look at your offer, his income and expenses and how this was agreed to. He cant reduce child support for access if he agreed to it and you...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-09-2020, 01:56 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 426
Posted By rockscan
If mom moved away and took kid then he gave...

If mom moved away and took kid then he gave permission for that to happen. There should have been an agreement about access costs and support as a part of that permission. As in, ok you can move but...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-06-2020, 08:40 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 460
Posted By rockscan
One thing that FRO kept saying was “we don’t...

One thing that FRO kept saying was “we don’t change orders we simply enforce them” which is why I keep saying if it is in your order then they can enforce it but if it isn’t in there they can’t....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-06-2020, 08:34 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 206
Posted By rockscan
You need to search for purposely underemployed on...

You need to search for purposely underemployed on canlii. There is case law of spouses who are purposely not working.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-06-2020, 03:49 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 460
Posted By rockscan
This is the thing...when FRO sends account...

This is the thing...when FRO sends account changes or what has been submitted to them then they have to send you a copy. You should have received a copy of what she submitted. If your order clearly...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-04-2020, 10:24 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
The bottom line is you shouldnt be splitting the...

The bottom line is you shouldnt be splitting the insurance cheque. You should be calculating the amount owing by both parties after the insurance is calculated.

Parent 2 should never be getting a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-03-2020, 10:08 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
Insurance benefits

The child goes for dental work at $300.

The cost was split between the parents proportionate to income yes?

Parent 1 paid $270
Parent 2 paid $30

Parent 1 submitted the receipt to their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-03-2020, 05:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
Actually, if Parent 1 gets the benefits and pays...

Actually, if Parent 1 gets the benefits and pays the most, why did they split the insurance cheque? Their share of the $200 is $170 so the $100 would have offset the $270 they paid?

If Parent 1 is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-03-2020, 05:22 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
Did you know how much the insurance would cover?...

Did you know how much the insurance would cover? Because if you did (or they did if it wasn’t you) then the amount should have been subtracted and then split.

No one should be “pocketing”...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2020, 02:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
Yes that is correct. My husband’s kids took a...

Yes that is correct. My husband’s kids took a year off where support was not paid. When they started school again cs was paid.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-03-2020, 02:48 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
Technically the insurance is supposed to cover as...

Technically the insurance is supposed to cover as much of the expense as possible which would then be split proportionate to income.

Example: child had dental appt for $300. Insurance covers...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2020, 02:44 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 95
Posted By rockscan
Then no cs is paid as they are not in a full time...

Then no cs is paid as they are not in a full time program of study.

Be careful though, 3 courses can still be considered full time!
Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2020, 10:34 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 404
Posted By rockscan
The problem is that the only loss will be her...

The problem is that the only loss will be her dragging her heels. Which can be solved with an appointment with a judge. Get the order to sell the house and maybe see if you can tack on all the other...
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