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Forum: Financial Issues Today, 10:29 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 586
Posted By Brampton33
I always appreciate hearing how a vexatious...

I always appreciate hearing how a vexatious person gets their karma handed in court, however feel I must comment on decorum.

A really smart person would know to not smile, laugh, or get excited in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 09:27 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 57
Posted By Brampton33
Also, the bar to reach/standard for a person to...

Also, the bar to reach/standard for a person to be found in contempt of a court order is high. Really high. The penalties that come with contempt judgement can go as far as jail time. The fact...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 05:29 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 57
Posted By Brampton33
There are many examples of stuff being in court...

There are many examples of stuff being in court orders where one person seems to not follow, and not care. Whether it be to not badtalk the other parent, split costs of things, or keep other parent...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 01:52 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 554
Posted By Brampton33
Review Izyuk v. Bilousov. This is well reviewed...

Review Izyuk v. Bilousov. This is well reviewed case of a self-rep litigant cross examining the OCL and the content/recommendations of an OCL Report
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2021, 12:25 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 529
Posted By Brampton33
Actually I am HIGHLY experienced in high conflict...

Actually I am HIGHLY experienced in high conflict litigation involving custody, access, supports and division of property. I have spent years in litigation and am well versed (despite not being a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2021, 10:54 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 529
Posted By Brampton33
Afraid I disagree here. Other than ordering...

Afraid I disagree here. Other than ordering support and ordering disclosure, the judge has no authority to order anything during a case conference or settlement conference unless it is done on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2021, 02:54 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 529
Posted By Brampton33
The old "ask for the moon offer"....a family law...

The old "ask for the moon offer"....a family law classic.

Where you get kids 5% of parenting time. They propose that your time with kids for Christmas is between 5pm-8pm on December 28, and it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2021, 10:59 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 529
Posted By Brampton33
You are correct, a case conference is simply...

You are correct, a case conference is simply procedural. The judge will say, "ok, looks like we have a case here where there is a disagreement on X....by the looks of the materials, it appears to be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2021, 09:25 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 401
Posted By Brampton33
I am surprised by your lawyer's statements. Read...

I am surprised by your lawyer's statements. Read Warcop v. Warcop, 2009 CanLII 6423 (ON SC).

That was a classic case of high conflict. In the end, joint custody and 50/50 parenting was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2021, 12:41 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 401
Posted By Brampton33
Your ex "creating a situation" does not equate a...

Your ex "creating a situation" does not equate a status quo. The status quo is that the custody of your kids is in dispute, and while it has been in dispute, your ex has been undertaking unilateral...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2021, 11:31 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 401
Posted By Brampton33
Correct, most people don't understand what is...

Correct, most people don't understand what is actually meant by sole vs joint custody. Sometimes decisions are no-brainers, such as religion if you are both of the same religion. Or school if you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2021, 12:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 151
Posted By Brampton33
Going from joint custody to sole custody will...

Going from joint custody to sole custody will have zero impact regarding the care of the kids while at your ex's. Regardless of custody type, it is possible for kids to fall off bikes an break a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2021, 12:16 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 151
Posted By Brampton33
Access and decision-making are 2 separate things...

Access and decision-making are 2 separate things and should be treated as such. You are referring to custody.

Sole custody means 1 parent makes the decisions as it relates to education,...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-12-2021, 11:52 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,459
Posted By Brampton33
It is just venting. I just find it disheartening...

It is just venting. I just find it disheartening that my ex is so petty. These are our kids. The ones she fought so hard to keep for herself in court. And yet she cannot be bothered when it comes...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-09-2021, 11:53 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 344
Posted By Brampton33
In Family Law and Family Court, you want to...

In Family Law and Family Court, you want to present yourself as a respectable, level-headed, reasonable and rational person. Calling the police shows you are the opposite of all of that and raises...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2021, 11:43 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,459
Posted By Brampton33
Our Final Order is set up that there should not...

Our Final Order is set up that there should not be any reason to ever go to court to change CS. Unless one of us were to lose our jobs, I guess. Otherwise we just provide updates on our income and...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2021, 11:18 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,459
Posted By Brampton33
Fair enough. I have been keeping my receipts. ...

Fair enough. I have been keeping my receipts.

What do you mean by child support motion? Annually we exchange financial info and update child support payments for the next year, and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2021, 03:13 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 151
Posted By Brampton33
My reply does not specifically answer your...

My reply does not specifically answer your question, but does touch on some of your topic.

We are in a HOUSING CRISIS. Most people on this forum are single parents trying to rebuild. 10 years...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2021, 10:59 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,459
Posted By Brampton33
My ex has definitely shown her true colours since...

My ex has definitely shown her true colours since separation. She claims to love the kids SO much and fought hard in court to try to keep them to herself, however when it comes to expenditures on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2021, 10:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 196
Posted By Brampton33
All of the other kids' parents are showing poor...

All of the other kids' parents are showing poor judgement and you want to follow suit? To me, this seems like a good parenting opportunity. "The other kids have phones but we do not need to be like...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2021, 01:18 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 554
Posted By Brampton33
The legal and proper avenue is to dispute the...

The legal and proper avenue is to dispute the report. Its in the Family Law Rules that you have 30 days to file a dispute of the findings of the report. Just note that in 99% of the times, the OCL...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-05-2021, 01:13 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,459
Posted By Brampton33
Thanks Iona for your example. I appreciate how...

Thanks Iona for your example. I appreciate how frustrating it is. I will carry on and simply keep the receipts if ever needed to make a point.

It goes to show how much of a pos our exes can...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-05-2021, 09:38 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,459
Posted By Brampton33
Just curious, what happens if your ex agrees to...

Just curious, what happens if your ex agrees to pay 1/2 the cost, and you go out and purchase the items. Then when you tell them their share, they say "ok" but never pay you back? How do you...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-03-2021, 03:34 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 282
Posted By Brampton33
Most don't have good reasons when pressed to...

Most don't have good reasons when pressed to answer that question. The real reason is money. EOW=Table CS. 50/50=Offset CS. It is in 95^ of cases about the money.

To quote my ex during our...
Forum: Divorce Support 11-03-2021, 10:37 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,020
Posted By Brampton33
No it is. There are next to zero repurcussions...

No it is. There are next to zero repurcussions for bad behaviour.

A simple case about custody and access can drag for YEARS if your ex drags their feet, constantly requests extensions to push...
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