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Forum: Financial Issues 12-03-2008, 09:54 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,362
Posted By Sk8r
On request the FRO will give you one statement...

On request the FRO will give you one statement free of charge after which they will charge you $20.
(or soemthing like that, I'm going from memory)
Forum: Financial Issues 11-10-2008, 10:41 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,741
Posted By Sk8r
I had a similar experience when speaking with an...

I had a similar experience when speaking with an FRO agent. He was downright rude to me. He had my back up before the conversation barely started and he treated me like I was a criminal or...
Forum: Common Law Issues 11-03-2008, 09:37 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,881
Posted By Sk8r
Common law for tax purposes is only 1 year of...

Common law for tax purposes is only 1 year of cohabitation so it makes sense that he would claim CL on tax returns. For Family Law it is 3 years.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-01-2008, 08:45 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,243
Posted By Sk8r
that is very lucky for you! This is our 4th time...

that is very lucky for you! This is our 4th time submitting a tax return and the fourth time that they have requested every receipt plus the court order etc. Maybe it's becuase it's out of...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-28-2008, 03:19 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,243
Posted By Sk8r
That would be nice but Revenue Canada will insist...

That would be nice but Revenue Canada will insist on some form of proof of payment for each and every cent AND they will want to see the court order as well.

Every year it takes MONTHS to sort out...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2008, 07:36 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,672
Posted By Sk8r
But you didn't answer the questions....

But you didn't answer the questions....
Forum: Financial Issues 04-12-2008, 01:25 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,589
Posted By Sk8r
You won't be at a legal disadvantage if that's...

You won't be at a legal disadvantage if that's what you mean - you will still be entitled to "half". But people seem to forget that it is much costlier to maintain 2 homes than one. If you separate...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2008, 01:21 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,672
Posted By Sk8r
If your child were sick or injured at the...

If your child were sick or injured at the daycare, which parent would they call first? If you woke up Wednesday morning and your child was too ill to go to daycare, would you return him/her to mom...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2008, 11:03 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,100
Posted By Sk8r
If you ask my kids, they'll tell you that they...

If you ask my kids, they'll tell you that they want to just pick and choose when to go to their father's. They don't want to be held to a schedule. Unfortunately that makes things very complicated...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-14-2008, 12:18 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,100
Posted By Sk8r
I have young teens (13 and 15) It does bring...

I have young teens (13 and 15)

It does bring a new reality to the mix. My partner and I are much more strict than their father and his wife in many areas, but that doesn't seem to play too much...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-04-2008, 09:16 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 9,330
Posted By Sk8r
Pardon my frankness.... Your ex is a sucker....

Pardon my frankness....

Your ex is a sucker. Congratulations on abusing the system and giving a bad name to those women who actually require support.
Forum: Common Law Issues 02-08-2008, 10:55 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 9,330
Posted By Sk8r
I agree with AndrewsKim And Beth, I have...

I agree with AndrewsKim

And Beth, I have news for you. When it comes to Spousal Support, no lawyer can tell you what you are entitled to. There are no "rules" or hard fast "calculations" that...
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-21-2008, 10:01 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,550
Posted By Sk8r
Listen to LV. You aren't common law under Family...

Listen to LV. You aren't common law under Family Law until 3 years of continuous cohabitation. (assuming you do not have children together) She is not entitled to claim spousal support and...
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-18-2008, 03:49 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 9,330
Posted By Sk8r
Do you require support? For what reason? I'd...

Do you require support? For what reason? I'd say by the time he pays his child support, you make about the same as he does. You don't have children and you are capable of supporting yourself.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-22-2007, 11:52 AM
Replies: 9
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Views: 2,033
Posted By Sk8r
Either party has the right to involve the FRO...

Either party has the right to involve the FRO without the consent of the other party. Even if the agreement states specifically that the payments are made directly.

Getting things straightened...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2007, 10:41 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,681
Posted By Sk8r
I would look for someone who practices...

I would look for someone who practices Collaborative Law. My 2 cents
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-11-2007, 12:30 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,564
Posted By Sk8r
Oh and I meant to also say... If my ex...

Oh and I meant to also say...

If my ex wanted to take the kids somewhere special I would be THRILLED that they had the opportunity.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-11-2007, 12:29 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,564
Posted By Sk8r
Let's see..in Kindergarten, he'll miss some...

Let's see..in Kindergarten, he'll miss some cutting and pasting - wouldn't want to fall behind in THAT! :D

I would just come out and ask. Give her all the details up front. Do NOT tell your son...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-10-2007, 04:41 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,828
Posted By Sk8r
I guess that depends... I suspect my ex will...

I guess that depends...

I suspect my ex will do just that to avoid paying CS. His new wife is well compensated and he doesn't "really" need to work. He can take a full pension at 52. He's 36...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-28-2007, 02:26 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,651
Posted By Sk8r
Clothes and school supplies are included in child...

Clothes and school supplies are included in child support.

If he is the other parent, then you should put his name on the form. It's not about you, it's about your son.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-24-2007, 12:12 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,815
Posted By Sk8r
Well, the reason you only pay the offset amount...

Well, the reason you only pay the offset amount when you share 50-50 custody is that there is an assumption that you both have equal costs for the children since you both have them equal time. The...
Forum: General Chat 08-09-2007, 08:46 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 13,046
Posted By Sk8r
I had OCL involvement. My kids were older (9 &...

I had OCL involvement. My kids were older (9 & 11 at that time) and were provided "legal counsel". It took over 10 months from filing the intake forms. It was relatively unintrusive. She spoke...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2007, 02:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,223
Posted By Sk8r
I can only speak from my own experience (or...

I can only speak from my own experience (or rather that of my partner's)

He was married 4 years, lived together 2 before marriage so 6 total. 2 kids. She stayed at home from birth of the first...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2007, 10:36 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,223
Posted By Sk8r
Don't get too hopeful if you are a payor. If...

Don't get too hopeful if you are a payor. If she's asking and she stayed at home for that long, you'll pay something. What the court considers "sufficient" to pay and still live yourself is not...
Forum: General Chat 07-16-2007, 04:00 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,794
Posted By Sk8r
Revisiting custody and access

In October 2006 at a settlement conference, my ex and I signed and deposited an order that states that we have joint custody of our 2 children (12 and 14) and that the children have primary residency...
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